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A class is mainly composed of three types of people: the class teacher, the subject teacher and the student, and only when the relationship between these three is harmonious, harmonious and united, can the class collective be cohesive and healthy and positive. #教育 #
Class Teacher (Network Picture)
However, in our daily campus life, bumps between people are inevitable, and there may be times when there is disagreement between the class teacher and the teaching teacher.
The homeroom teacher went to visit her home, and the parent told her something, and she felt very strange
The school stipulates that every Wednesday is a home visit day. After school in the afternoon, Liu Li (pseudonym), the class teacher of class 82 of a middle school in Guangdong, had long been prepared to visit the home of a male classmate named Yi Qiang in the class.
Yi Qiang's grades are at the middle and upper levels in the class, I don't know why, the recent enthusiasm for learning is not high, occasionally listless, Liu Li to understand the situation, in order to be targeted, do his ideological work.
Home visit of the class teacher (online picture)
According to the positioning of Yi Qiang's mother, Liu Li rode a small donkey, and in less than half an hour, she arrived at the community where Yi Qiang lived. Yi Qiang's mother opened a clothing store in the market, heard that the teacher was going to visit home, closed the door early, bought a lot of fruit, made tea, and waited for Liu Li.
Liu Li and Yi Qiang's mother are very familiar, she often patronizes the clothing store, and every time, Yi Qiang's mother gives her a special preferential price. After coming and going, the two people became very good friends, but it was the first time to go home.
Sitting down and drinking tea, Liu Li went straight in and asked Yi Qiang about his recent performance at home. Yi Qiang's mother said that just a few days ago, after Yi Qiang finished his homework at night, he closed the door and secretly played with his mobile phone in the room, which was discovered by his father, criticized him fiercely, and did not accept the mobile phone.
Secretly playing with your phone in your room (network photo)
Oh, that's right. After figuring out the situation, Liu Li and Yi Qiang's mother chatted idly, and they talked and laughed and talked speculatively. Not long after, Yi Qiang's mother lowered her voice, approached, and said mysteriously: "Tell you something, you should pay attention!" "What's the matter?" Liu Li also came over.
Yi Qiang's mother told Liu Li that last semester, Ling Ling, the math teacher in Liu Li's class, went to the clothing store to buy clothes, chatted with Yi Qiang's mother, and said that Liu Li was not a teacher who graduated from the teacher, was an unqualified Chinese teacher, the class was very bad, many students' Chinese scores regressed, as a class teacher, Liu Li did not care about the students, and many students in the class had opinions.
Yi Qiang's mother also took out her mobile phone to find out her chat records with Lingling, and Liu Li saw that Lingling and Yiqiang's mother also said a lot of their own "bad words" when chatting on the Internet. A cool breath rose from the spine and went straight to the brain.
She really can't figure it out (network picture)
In school, the relationship between Lingling and Liu Li is the best, and this best colleague, who is also a subject teacher in the class, actually "smeared" himself in front of his parents, and the negative impact can be imagined. It's really weird! What exactly is the question?
The class teacher was puzzled and could not find the reason why the subject teacher did that
With a mind full of questions, Liu Li returned home. She really couldn't figure out, how could Ling Ling say in front of her parents that she wasn't?
What Ling Ling said was not the truth at all. Liu Li studied secretarial studies at university, which is indeed not a teacher training class, but in the year of graduation, she obtained the qualification certificate of a senior middle school Chinese teacher. Since teaching for a few years, even if she has not done sleeping and forgetting to eat, she is also diligent, her teaching performance and class management are not ahead of the grades, but they are not as bad as Lingling said, she thinks that she has tried her best and has no shame.
Class teacher in class (network photo)
At work, she gave LingLing a lot of help. Lingling came to work at the school two years later than she did, and as a big sister, she always helped her. When they first went to the podium, they listened to each other's lessons, and she taught her good lessons almost by hand. She has a relatively weak personality, and occasionally there are students talking, sleeping, peeking at extracurricular books and so on, and Liu Li sits in the back of the classroom to help Lingling manage discipline. In short, Lingling can gradually mature in teaching, which is completely inseparable from Liu Li's help.
Ling Ling and Liu Li are good friends and girlfriends in life. LingLing is not yet married, and often goes to Liu Li's house on weekends to rub rice. Occasionally, Liu Li's husband travels on business, and Lingling stays at Liu Li's house for a night. On birthdays, they would give each other small gifts and invite each other to dinner. Several times, Liu Li's family traveled by car on weekends, and also took Lingling with them. They are good friends who talk almost everything.
The weekend self-driving tour will also take Lingling (network photo)
At dinner, her husband found that Liu Li was not in the right mood, and Liu Li told Ling Ling about it. The husband guessed that liu li had inadvertently said the wrong thing or done the wrong thing, offending Lingling. The father-in-law believes that Liu Li must be better than Lingling in all aspects, and Lingling's jealousy has exploded. The mother-in-law feels that there is a problem with Lingling's character, who knows the face but does not know the heart, and some people just like to "chew the root of the tongue" behind their backs.
Speaking of which, Liu Li felt confused, no matter from which angle, Ling Ling had no reason to do so.
What exactly should I do? Netizens have given her suggestions, and the class teacher is still at a loss
Liu Li wanted to break the brain shell, and she didn't know when she had offended Ling Ling. But the facts are in front of her, as a class teacher, the relationship between her and the subject teacher Lingling has appeared "cracks", if not handled correctly in time, it will definitely be detrimental to the future class work, and if it is not good, it will lead to the intensification of contradictions.
Communication between the class teacher and the subject teacher (network picture)
Liu Li spread the matter to the Internet and asked for help, which immediately attracted the attention of many netizens, and netizens expressed their opinions, mainly as follows.
Communicate directly with Lingling, ask the reason, and repair the relationship. Since Liu Li knew that there was a gap with Lingling, she could not delay any longer, and she must make a decision on the spot, find her as soon as possible, and talk openly and honestly. Such a good friend, and a partner of a class, LingLing should have another hidden intention. Communication is the best way to resolve conflicts, we must remain calm, calmly find Lingling to communicate well, find out the original problem, and repair the relationship.
Open questioning, ask Ling Ling for an explanation. As a good friend, a good colleague, a class teacher and a subject teacher in the same class, no matter what the reason, LingLing is not right to do this. Behind the cold arrow, it is a villain, it is a matter of character. As a victim, Liu Li can directly question Lingling publicly in the office, ask her to admit her mistakes, and send a group statement to parents to maximize Liu Li's reputation.
Homeroom teachers and subject teachers (web image)
From now on, ignore Lingling, tit-for-tat, tit-for-tat. Ling Ling did that, it was a completely unfriendly attitude, such a friend should not be, Liu Li argued with her is no point, from now on to stay away. As for the words she said to her parents, Liu Li could explain to her parents, and also revealed some of Lingling's weaknesses and problems to her parents, so that parents did not have a good impression of Lingling, so that it was evened out.
Find a complaint from the school leader and ask them to find out the facts and deal with it correctly. Some netizens believe that the contradiction between the class teacher and the subject teacher is a common phenomenon and there is no need to make a fuss. However, this is also a very sensitive issue, and the parties face each other head-on, which can easily lead to the escalation of contradictions. The best thing to do is to report the situation to the school leaders and ask the leaders to come forward to solve the problem.
Class teacher holds a meeting of subject teachers (network photo)
Conclusion
This incident made Liu Li's heart cold, she deeply felt that the relationship between people is very delicate and complex, is human nature really so sinister? Is it true that there is no eternal friendship only eternal benefit?
Netizens are quite concerned about Liu Li and have proposed many ways to solve the problem. Some netizens said that they had also encountered similar things, talked to Liu Li about their feelings and ways to solve the problem, comforted Liu Li, and expressed their sympathy and goodwill. This made Liu Li feel a little warmth.
Liu Li analyzed the above four methods one by one, feeling quite embarrassed, she was still at a loss. Why did Lingling do that? How should Liu Li deal with it correctly? Everyone is welcome to give a good suggestion.
The class teacher and the subject teacher have a good relationship (network picture)
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