Pisces people often belong to the type of person who is prone to insecurity in the heart, because they are more dependent on the external environment, so they prefer a place that can make them feel comfortable and at ease, and let themselves grow unrestrained.
They want to firmly grasp what they have, otherwise it will cause them to have an unbalanced psychology, so what are the several kinds of security that Pisces needs more than the average person?
What kind of security does Pisces need more than the average person?
Pisces people, most of them are the type of love more passionately, even if they do not really care, but the need for feelings is very strong.
They need an immediate and authentic warmth and embrace, for which they can pay any price, and there is a crazy side to love.
It can be said that Pisces often needs a lot of security, and they themselves also rely on what they have, once lost, it will make them have a certain imbalance, and even a feeling of "collapse", which is also the source of their explosiveness and attachment.
First, once you get used to it, you can't let go
Pisces people may not be willing to let go if they identify certain people and things in their hearts, even if it is just a habit, a feeling of dependence on themselves.
That is to say, these things are the cornerstone of their sense of security, and every brick and tile is "picked up" by their own hands, and they are naturally unwilling to give up.
If you break the habits, life trajectories or patterns that Pisces relies on to survive, it may cause them to resist strongly, for example, you will always go to pick up Pisces from work, and one day suddenly do not want to pick up, then they will begin to tangle, even tangled for a long time.
Because, Pisces' hearts are like water, if there is a missing piece, just like the dam is missing a corner, there will be a torrent pouring out, so they will treat everything they adapt to as a treasure.
Second, material is also the embodiment of inner security
Many people feel that the spiritual world of Pisces is relatively grand, and they think that they may not need material satisfaction, and even use some kind of "false style" and sweet words to fool them and make them pay.
In fact, this will only cause Pisces to resent, perhaps, they are a person who does not talk about matter, and even not much matter can live well, but for them, matter is also a source of security.
Therefore, they will do their best in their careers or lives, or endure some unbearable environments, just to earn a future of their own.
It can be said that if someone moves a piece of the soup in their hands, a penny, Pisces may want to get it back.
Third, we need to get companionship and warmth from the environment
Pisces people tend to rely a little on the appearance of feelings, that is, even if you are good to them, but the inability to personally accompany and comfort them will make them feel lost.
Pisces is like this, they can understand your busyness and lack of time to take care of, but can not endure for a long time, their hearts still need a real touch and experience, so that even if you deceive them, it will make them move for a long time.
In interpersonal relationships, Pisces is the same, the love and pampering in the environment, will make them feel that they are loved, not alone, therefore, they will be so kind to others, but also regardless of some gains and losses, all because Pisces needs some real warmth.
Fourth, we need to get an immediate response
Pisces people are often able to tolerate a feeling of domination and possession more than the average person, that is, they can accept certain "big male (female) childism".
As long as the other party is really thinking about them, then it doesn't matter if the means are strong, this is the less self-conscious side of Pisces, and they feel that the strength of the other party is also the embodiment of love.
As a result, they rely on a response to their needs, often unable to wait and need to see each other's actions immediately.
Therefore, they will create some disputes in life because of small things, just to see if you will react at the moment, sometimes, they will be like children, unreasonable trouble, just to get the attention of adults.