Wen | heart
Dongmei once said to her mother, Jin Yueji, "In my opinion, everyone in the Zhou family is a good person, a good person among good people. ”
Her elder brother Zhou Bingyi had a higher evaluation of Zhou Rong, praising her as the kindest, smartest, and most independent of the three siblings.
But when I looked at the Daughter of the Zhou Family in the drama version, Zhou Rong, I really didn't dare to agree with their words. Especially In the early stage, Zhou Rong was willful and selfish.
For the so-called "true love", disregard for family affection; for the sake of personal purity, refuse to bow down and ask for someone, so that for many years her daughter has been fostered in her brother's home; she is a "queen" at home, turning Feng into a nanny and a punching bag until he betrays the marriage.
Those episodes I watched at one point and wanted to abandon the drama, it was really bloody and long-winded. Is this the image of the intellectual woman of the new era created by the screenwriter? Where does such a person deserve happiness?
It was not until the advancement of the drama version that Zhou Rong returned to the character design in the original work, she was sober and determined, intelligent and sharp, and casual.
Her true disposition is the reason why her family always loves her, and it is also the root of Cai Xiaoguang's hard pursuit of half her life and still regards her as a treasure.
Zhou Rong's true
Zhou Rong never hides her beautiful quest for love and sex.
She once wrote to her sister-in-law Dongmei: "If a woman wants to completely possess a man, she must give her body completely to him." I want to possess you completely, so I am mentally prepared to give you completely. ”
As the "first beauty" of the light character film, she is both excellent in character and versatile, and is a goddess in the minds of many boys, including Cai Xiaoguang.
Cai Xiaoguang's father was one of the members of the provincial military control committee at that time, and as long as Zhou Rong was willing, she could easily jump out of the light piece and live the kind of happy and rich life that her parents hoped for.
Mother Zhou once said to Zhou Rong: "Daughter, a woman's good years are only a few years, and there is no such shop in this village!" ”
Zhou Rong shook her mother's hand and said firmly: "In my opinion, a good life is more important than a good life." ”
Zhou Rong fell in love with the Beijing poet Feng Huacheng, and for her, being able to be with Feng Huacheng was the beginning of her good life. Even if this person has been beaten into a rightist faction, he has been sent to the remote mountains of Guizhou for labor reform. She still had to follow him.
She hid from her family and went to Guizhou alone in the name of going to the countryside from the mountains. You must know that at that time, she was only nineteen years old, but for the sake of the true love in her heart, she ran away without hesitation.
Zhou Rong seemed to be quiet and quiet, but her heart was full of energy. For the sake of love, she does not care about family affection, and she does not care about the opinions of others.
She lived in a cave in the mountains in poor Guizhou, living a precarious life, but still living a poetic life.
When Zhou Zhigang went to see her, he thought that she must have changed a lot, and her miserable fate must have made her beautiful no longer there.
It can be seen that her scene is completely different, and it is described in the original work:
He turned slowly, and saw a tall young woman coming out of the cave, carrying a large aluminum basin of clothes, a long black hair coiled into a fluffy hairpin on the top of the head, casually inserted with a branch with a small flower.
Like him, she wore a blue canvas overalls on her upper body, with her sleeves rolled up, and a beautiful butterfly embroidered on the upper left side of the work area number; a pair of washed yellow single pants on her lower body—at least half of the men and women in urban and rural China wore those yellow pants, and many of them had their pants washed white and sewn with a few patches, and they were still reluctant to throw them away.
The woman's pant legs were also sewn with two large patches, and a pair of straw shoes were worn on her feet.
In Zhou Rong's heart, as long as she can be with the people she loves, everything she does is happy and worth it. No matter where she is, her yearning and pursuit of a better life will not weaken.
Zhou Rong saw her father, in addition to the guilt of her parents in her heart, she did not have any dissatisfaction with life.
She excitedly introduced her living environment in the mountains and was proud to be the first zhiqing in the mountains of Guizhou.
She also installed the children's classroom in the cave of her house, where she wanted to transmit knowledge to the children. In her opinion, wherever she goes, there will be a ray of sunshine.
Zhou Rong is like this, she can always find the meaning of life, always adhere to her beliefs.
When she was very young, she said to her parents more than once: "When I grow up, I will go to college, and strive to stay in college after graduation and become a university teacher; but whenever there is a glimmer of possibility, I will teach and educate people." “
Zhou Rong always adheres to the guidance of her heart, even if she goes to the mountains for love, but she has never given up on personal growth and personal progress. This is also the essential difference between Zhou Rong and the so-called "love brain". It also laid the foundation for her to be admitted to Peking University and become a professor.
Zhou Rong's courage to insist on being the "true self" is really rare. Although this marriage later went to failure, for Zhou Rong, her youth has no regrets. Compared with the life of the woman with the light character film, Zhou Rong's youth has no fear, fearlessness and no regrets.
Zhou Rong's freedom
In the years with Feng Huacheng in Guizhou, Zhou Rong never indulged in simple love. She was always sober, knowing that only knowledge could change her destiny.
She teaches her children in the classroom during the day, and at night she picks up the lamp and reads at night to prepare for the resumption of the college entrance examination.
Kung Fu paid off, and Zhou Rong was admitted to Peking University a year later than Zhou Bingyi.
In her days at Peking University, she was happy and wanton, drawing on the nutrients of knowledge like a sponge. In the original book, it is written:
Zhou Rong really didn't take the suffering she had suffered seriously, let alone have a lingering palpitation. The more she knew, the more she felt that her experience was ordinary. She came to Peking University with joy and excitement, like a person with an empty backpack who entered Alibaba's treasure cave.
Zhou Rong always has a passion for life, suffering is only an indispensable asset for her growth, and her optimism and open-mindedness are also the most charming places in her temperament.
Although she was admitted to college, bingkun and Zhengjuan carried the weight for her first, but she did achieve a class leap through personal efforts.
The two college students of the Light Character Film are both from the Zhou family, and the glory and pride brought by Bingyi and Zhou Rong to Zhou Zhigang are incomparable to Bingkun.
A person can follow his own heart and live, not disturbed by the outside world, not to go with the flow, but to enjoy himself in his own world, the heart to the sun, this freedom, is precious.
The drama version of "Human World", in order to increase the dramatic conflict, interpreted a lot of stories made out of nothing in the original work, scandalized Zhou Rong, and also made her personality become twisted and contradictory.
In the original work, after Zhou Rong was admitted to Peking University, there was not much contradiction with Feng Huacheng, and there was no quarrel because of the house, children, etc.
Zhou Rong studied at Peking University on Monday and Friday, and only reunited with Feng Huacheng on weekends.
As the most hard-working student in the whole department, Zhou Rong is her paradise. In her eyes, hard reading is a kind of enjoyment, and diligence is almost a rest.
Zhou Rong cherishes her hard-won academic career, she is moving step by step towards her goal, and she has no time to think about things other than studying.
But Feng Huacheng, who was more than half a hundred years old, changed, and he "was like a prince who was once a wandering citizen who finally returned to the familiar city-state and began to be respected again, and it was only a matter of time before he accepted the throne." The beloved wife who suffered with him is no longer as lovely as before. ”
By the time Zhou Rong became a graduate student at Peking University, Feng Huacheng was also exposed to one derailment scandal after another, and Zhou Rong's love picture, which had been the supremacist of love, was defaced, and she coldly proposed a divorce to Feng Huacheng.
Zhou Rong left the eighteen-square-meter house and walked on the way back to Peking University, thinking back to the years she and Feng Huacheng had lived together. She was in a very calm mood, and four words suddenly flashed in her mind: no complaints, no regrets.
For love, Zhou Rong is free, she can afford to put it down, and she will not complain about herself. For her, the righteousness of the year was for the love of the heart, and now the dashing let go, it is not for love. She has loved and worked hard, and there are no complaints or regrets.
Mr. Deca said: In life, whether it is to find your own light, to become the light of others, or to become a beam of light of your own. It's exciting and not going to get lost.
Zhou Rong's greatest luck is to make herself a luminous body, rather than relying on anyone's light to survive.
Whether in Guangzi tablets or in Guizhou, she has never been assimilated by the people around her. She will always be the quiet girl with the atmosphere of books, fresh and transparent, out of the mud.
She was always confident and always sober. After she was admitted to Peking University, she never relaxed herself as always, and moved towards her goal step by step until she became the youngest associate professor.
Zhou Rong's bravery
If 19-year-old Zhou Rong runs to Feng Huacheng for love is "lonely and courageous", then forty-year-old Zhou Rong, after experiencing a failed marriage blow, still chooses to believe in love, and accepts Cai Xiaoguang, who pursues her for half a life, as a real warrior.
She always lived firmly and confidently, never afraid of wolves and tigers, but thought about it and did it.
The combination of her and Cai Xiaoguang, in the original work, the daughter Yue Yue is very resistant. But she still insisted on living for herself, thinking that Cai Xiaoguang was her lover and did not need to care too much about her daughter's opinion.
She would not worry about the various contradictions of the remarried family, and she never doubted that Cai Xiaoguang would be bad for Yue Yue. She was still as simple and pure as when she was eighteen, and her trust and frankness in marriage made Cai Xiaoguang a treasure.
Zhou Rong is lucky, and there is a second chance to find true love if she loves wrong, even if she has become a mother.
But all this is inseparable from her own efforts. If she is in Guizhou, and Feng Huacheng only knows you and me; or indulges in a poor and miserable life and cannot extricate herself; or she is sad about Feng Huacheng's betrayal and abandons herself. I'm afraid that no matter how obsessive Cai Xiaoguang is, he will no longer fall in love with such a Zhou Rong!
The reason why Cai Xiaoguang never forgets Zhou Rong is because no matter where she is, the persistence and determination in her heart have never changed.
The wind and frost of the years will leave traces on people's bodies, but as long as there is a love for life in the heart, in the dark, and the heart is towards the sun, it will surely harvest the surprises of life again and again.
Write at the end
In the original work, the three sons and daughters of the Zhou family, Zhou Bingyi, died young, and although Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan'en loved each other until they were old, the marriage of his son Zhou Cong was chicken feathers, and he always had to go to the fire with two old mouths.
Zhou Rong wandered in France for twelve years for the sake of her daughter Yue Yue, and after returning to China, she lost her job as an associate professor and had no choice but to go to a private school to teach.
Only Cai Xiaoguang waited for her and loved her as always.
She still maintained the habit of strict self-discipline and unremitting cultivation for many years, and used her own experience to write the novel "Our Generation of Children", which was a great success.
In order to increase the efficiency, the publisher paid a lot of money to let Zhou Rong talk about personal privacy, such as her ex-husband, such as the various unbearable lives in overseas life, in short, self-hype, self-disclosure.
Zhou Rong is indeed still that Zhou Rong, no matter how many years have passed, no matter what kind of encounters life has given her, her integrity, and her true disposition will not change. She unceremoniously refused.
Zhou Rong used the royalties of her own books to go to a remote rural area with Cai Xiaoguang. Every time they went to a village, they would send a batch of books to the left-behind children, attend a month's class, and do psychological counseling.
She is also like her brother Zhou Bingyi who vowed to transform the light character piece, and she has a heart knot, and she wants to do something for the children in the remote mountainous areas by herself.
I am afraid that this is the idea that she gradually formed during the ten years she spent in the mountains of Guizhou!
An intellectual woman like Zhou Rong has a sense of control over her own destiny; she has a temperament that will not give up on herself no matter what age she is, and she will flourish.
And the formation of this temperament in addition to her own efforts, but also because of her life, love has never been lacking. Childhood has the heavy love of parents; young people have Feng Huacheng's unreserved love; middle-aged and old age also have Cai Xiaoguang's obsessive love.
A woman who does not lack love will have this beautiful temperament that can afford to be put down. In other words, this innate temperament is actually cultivated in good times and is precious.