The "healing journey" of "Spring Day Late Departure" is very touching, Wang Feifei was ridiculed as a "black pearl of the South China Sea" when she was a child, and even had a more "vicious" nickname, those who like to criticize the appearance of girls, it is really annoying.
The young Wang Feifei was not strong enough in his heart, and he could only hide and secretly shed tears. Fu Seoul's encouragement is powerful: overcoming inferiority requires knowing how to appreciate yourself. "Fu Ma" is worthy of being a "messenger of positive energy", transparent and sober.
Female guest Liu Liqi's ex-husband is a "big scumbag" through and through, and the marriage that cannot be looked back is really painful. The ex-husband not only cheated many times, but even had to be mentally PUA, no wonder Da Zhang Wei and Fu Seoul hated to itch their teeth.
Liu Liqi has a strong inferiority complex since childhood, such girls are often more sensitive than ordinary people, do things fearlessly, care very much about other people's views and evaluations, and always think that they will always be the foil of others.
What is even more chilling is that the ex-husband has been suppressing and degrading his wife in the marriage, in order to obtain that pitiful sense of superiority. The ex-husband ridiculed Liu Liqi's figure and appearance, "short legs and thick legs" and vicious.
Liu Liqi collapsed and cried: My inferiority was attacked by my ex-husband as a weakness, and the failed marriage completely destroyed my worldview, so that I did not dare to wear a skirt.
Commenting on his wife, such a "strange man" is too speechless, fortunately Liu Liqi "stop loss in time". Wang Feifei felt empathy and bravely shared the experience of being nicknamed as a child.
Wang Feifei was born in Hainan, because of her dark skin, she was ridiculed as a "black pearl", and some people even directly called her "crow". The nickname "insulting" is very hurtful, the little girl can only hide and cry, and the psychological shadow has always grown.
Today's Wang Feifei is strong and confident enough, she has long been indifferent to the "sneers" of others, and can even generously accept her own imperfections. However, Liu Liqi was "mentally PUA" by her ex-husband, and the process of self-healing was definitely longer.
Fu Seoul took the opportunity to encourage all girls: no one is born perfect, it is impossible to be perfect, more or less have shortcomings, to overcome inferiority need to know how to appreciate themselves, do not give the standard of defining themselves to others.
Fu Seoul is worthy of being "sober in the world", his views are transparent and inspirational, and this bowl of "chicken soup" has a sense of resonance. No one is perfect, even if you are not perfect, you deserve to be affirmed, because shortcomings and beauty coexist, and everyone has a shining point to be proud of.
In today's society, external pressures are inevitable, and it is no wonder that there are more and more "impostor syndromes". How to overcome inferiority has long become a phenomenon-level issue.
In fact, the way to reduce anxiety is very simple, learn to release negative emotions, know self-appreciation, do not doubt their own ability, strive to prove their value with actions, and actively and bravely face failure and vulnerability.