In 2021, a blogger with the username "Dasha Mei Aiwei" appeared on the short video. During The Christmas season, he posted a video of his daughter performing an air flip in front of a Christmas tree in the large living room of his mansion.
From the video, it can be seen that he lives abroad, lives in a very large mansion, his wife is young and beautiful, and his daughter is cute and sensible, like a winner in life.
As everyone knows, this blogger is just a Chinese guy in his thirties with an average appearance. Before he had such a perfect life, he was just a scumbag with only 320 points in the college entrance examination and very ordinary family conditions.
College entrance examination 320 points, study abroad in Ukraine scum
The young man's name was Mei Aikai, born in 1983 in Chengde City, Hebei Province.
When he was a child, he could only be regarded as mediocre, his appearance was not outstanding, his academic performance was not much better, his social skills could only be regarded as average, and he would not be noticed at all when thrown into the crowd.
In 2001, 18-year-old Mei Aiwei took the college entrance examination at that time. After the exam that day, Mei Aikai felt very good about herself, according to his words, it was definitely no problem to enter a university. But when the college entrance examination results came out half a month later, it made him dumbfounded.
He only scored 320 points, and in Hebei Province, a big province with college entrance examinations, such scores are difficult to reach even junior colleges, let alone go to college.
In the face of her own failure in the college entrance examination, Mei Ai was depressed, although she had no face to face her parents but could not do anything about it, after all, the conditions at home could not allow her to repeat her studies for another year.
When studying for the examination, a classmate of Mei Aiwei inadvertently mentioned to him, "If you go to Ukraine to study now, the tuition fee is similar to that in China, and the required score is not high, which is also a way out." ”
When Mei Aikai heard the news, she went home and immediately checked the situation of Ukrainian universities. He found that the universities here are very friendly to domestic students, hardly require college entrance examination scores, and visas are very easy, and tuition fees are very low.
It just so happened that the country was in the midst of a "study abroad boom" at that time, thinking that she could also become an international student with this score, Mei Aikai was overjoyed and immediately enrolled in Kharkiv National University in Ukraine.
In September of that year, Mei Aikai went to Ukraine alone with the tuition and luggage given to him by his family, and he did not expect that this trip to Ukraine would completely change his life.
Although Mei Aiwei came to Ukraine with hope, life did not dawn immediately, but became more difficult.
Because the first hurdle of life in Ukraine is to master the language and communicate with the people around you, but whether it is English or Russian, Mei Aiwei is half a pound.
When she was in high school, Mei Aikai's English scores were very bad, and basic reading and writing became a problem. Before going abroad, he took a crash course in Russian, but when he arrived in Ukraine, he found that the Russian he had learned was not enough to understand the teacher's lessons.
Since every day in class is like "listening to a play", Mei Aikai's grades have always been in the bottom, and he needs to study every subject in the library, learning from books while holding a dictionary and translating.
But this had little effect, and he hung up almost every subject in the final exam of the first semester, and the teacher came to him several times to talk to him, intending to dissuade him.
However, after learning that his academic performance had declined because of his language, the teacher transferred him to a language class, helping him learn Russian while letting him improve his academic performance.
But Russian was not learned overnight, and her first year in Ukraine was very hard. When you go to the supermarket to shop, you can't read the product information, you can only look at this thing and don't recognize it;
When he goes out on the bus, he has to repeatedly ask other Chinese students because he can't read the stop sign; when he goes to the barbershop for a haircut, the hairstylist has no idea what hairstyle he wants to cut. According to his words, "At that time, I was eager to go back to China to find a vocational school." ”
There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and Mei Aikai began to find a way to live in this strange country on her own. He learned it if he didn't speak the language; he cut his own hair when it was inconvenient to get a haircut.
And with his excellent table tennis skills, he also met some "golfers" in school, and with their help, Mei Aiwei's Russian began to improve.
After graduation, my career has hit a wall one after another, and my emotional life has ups and downs
After learning Russian, Mei Aiwei began to improve her academic performance and her life gradually became stable. However, due to the limited conditions at home, he could only provide him with a part of the living expenses, so he began to study how to earn some pocket money during his schooling.
Since he was very fond of computers as a child and often studied computer software, he taught himself animation design during college and found an animation design company in Ukraine for an internship.
And the company is responsible for the main business is to design the animation design for the well-known game IP "World of Warcraft".
In this company, Mei Aiwei got a very good training, and because of his excellent work performance, he earned the first pot of gold in his life. This meant a lot to him, and the poor boy who had been blinded by the eyes finally had the momentum to get ahead.
But just when he thought he was about to reach the peak of his life, he once again suffered a critical blow from fate.
Due to the deteriorating economic situation in Ukraine at that time, international business became increasingly difficult to carry out, and the animation company soon went out of business. Mei Aikai, who has just achieved an improvement in her life, has become a poor boy again, and can only rely on bread to fill her hunger every day.
In order to make ends meet, Mei Aikai can only go to the restaurant to work, so that she can not only earn some living expenses, but also rub into a free dinner.
However, he was not accustomed to Russian food, and while helping from the back kitchen, he gradually came up with the idea of opening a Chinese restaurant in Ukraine.
He privately contacted several classmates and told them about his idea, but he did not expect that several people immediately hit it off and immediately began to prepare.
Due to the very small number of local Chinese restaurants, Mei Aikai's restaurant was very popular as soon as it opened, not only attracting many Chinese students, but also receiving unanimous praise from many local residents.
But after a year of restaurant popularity, Mei Aikai and his partners were nearing graduation, the founders of the restaurant began to go their separate ways, and the restaurant was also cashed out at a low price due to insufficient manpower.
In 2005, he had also graduated and was signed by an Internet company while recruiting on campus and settled in Ukraine.
With a stable job and a fixed income, Mei aikai chose to live in Ukraine and met the first woman in his life.
The girl's name is Ira and she is a native of Ukraine. The two met during a workout, Mei Aiwei was very enthusiastic to teach her to play table tennis, Ira was also attracted to Mei Aiwei's temperament, and the two soon fell in love.
In 2006, the two chose to get married after being in love for more than a year. After the news that an ordinary-looking Chinese boy married a beautiful foreign girl, he became the envy of his relatives and friends after the news reached Mei Aikai's hometown.
At that time, he also thought that he could live such a happy life, but the crisis in the marriage caught him off guard, and after only one year of marriage, the two had many quarrels because of their emotional discord, and finally in 2008, the two decided to divorce.
After the divorce, Mei Aiwei experienced a period of soul loss, after all, he is still a very traditional person, and the emotional unhappiness made him depressed for a while, but he also quickly walked out of it and re-entered the work.
He had quit his job at an Internet company to take care of his family and was now in the business of import and export trade. After his divorce, he looked for a new hobby – photography.
The local scenery of Ukraine is very beautiful, Mei Aiwei liked to walk in the Ukrainian joint when she was in school, and now he likes to include these beautiful scenery in the lens and take beautiful photos to enjoy.
One day, when Mei Aiwei was collecting on the street, he met a young girl who was nearly 18 years old on the street. The moment he saw the girl, he understood what love at first sight was.
He took the initiative to say hello and took a few photos of the girl. During the chat, he learned that the girl's name was Dasha and she also liked photography, so the like-minded two left each other's contact information and became good friends.
However, Mei Aikai, who has been divorced once, will not easily show her emotions, he only thinks that Dasha is a good friend, and usually the two only text messages, occasionally meet to take a few photos.
Most of the time, Mei Aiwei is focused on work. Such days lasted for a while, and one day Dasha suddenly invited Mei Aiwei to see a movie, and Mei Aikai, who was very tired from work, gladly accepted.
In the movie theater, Dasha took the initiative to show her love to Mei Aikai, and Mei Aikai looked at the beautiful Dasha in front of her and could no longer suppress her heart, and the two of them confirmed their relationship.
In 2010, Mei Aiwei married Dasha, who was more than 10 years apart. Unlike their previous marriages, Dasha and Mei Aiwei are very complementary, the two have no friction in life, and they have always respected each other.
Mei Aiwei is particularly attentive to Dasha, who solves problems for Mei Aikai when he works, and the feelings of the two envy others.
After bankruptcy, he became rich again and went to the peak of his life
Mei Aikai had been looking for opportunities to make more money after getting married, and while doing import trade, he met a Chinese businessman who sold precision instruments.
In a brief encounter, the merchant recognized Mei Aiwei's ability and threw an olive branch at him.
Faced with a new job that was several times her previous salary, Mei Aikai had no reason to refuse. After entering the new company, he did not live up to the appreciation of his boss and his performance in the work was very outstanding.
Key recommendations have also been made in several major projects, and his position has risen.
But in 2012, Mei Aiwei was negligent and defrauded of a large amount of project funds, and in order to fill the deficit, he had to sell his personal assets and borrow some money from the bank.
Watching herself go bankrupt overnight, Mei Aikai was in pain, and after his wife Darsha learned of this, Darsha just gently hugged him and said, "It's okay, let's just start over." ”
A true couple can only prove their affection when faced with difficulties, and Darsha is a little surprised that he does not abandon Mei Aiji herself. He secretly swore in his heart that he would never treat his wife in front of him badly in this life.
He regrouped, and through three years of continuous efforts, he finally paid off all the money he owed.
In 2016, Mei Aiwei used her superb photography skills to open a photography studio, working as a photographer herself and her wife as a model.
As the studio grew better and better, Mei Aikai expanded the studio into a photography company, becoming a large company with contracted models and fixed advertising placements.
After the success of the new business, Mei Aikai became a very powerful Chinese entrepreneur in Ukraine. He even bought a mansion measuring three thousand square meters and built a private garden and private swimming pool.
And he also recorded his life with the camera and shared it online.
At that time, it was the rapid development period of the domestic short video industry, and Mei Aiwei's video caused an uproar on the Internet as soon as it was sent, and various voices emerged in an endless stream.
However, he also quickly clarified that the price of these things in Ukraine is not like that in China, the house he lives in is only worth 900,000 yuan, the decoration only cost more than 200,000 yuan, and said that he is still a Chinese national, and will not choose to join foreign nationality in the future.
Under such an explanation, the turmoil on the Internet was calmed down. After the living conditions improved, he and his wife gave birth to a daughter, and the style of his short video account gradually changed to recording the life of his wife and daughter.
He later founded a Chinese-Ukrainian dating site dedicated to introducing Ukrainians to Chinese settled in Ukraine, and the site's earnings have been consistently good, Ms. May said the idea came from her and her wife's experiences.
On October 4, 2019, he was invited by the Chinese Embassy in Ukraine to attend the reception for the 70th anniversary of the establishment of diplomatic relations with his wife.
From 2020 onwards, he officially entered the short video platform with the user name of "Dasha Mei Aiwei", mainly to record family life, and gained more than one million fans in a few months.
Recently, he was banned from his account for posting illegal videos
Recently, Mei Aiwei was banned from his account for publishing false information about international tensions on the short video platform, and this incident also allowed him to re-enter the vision of Chinese netizens, and some recent information about him has also been continuously dug out.
Some netizens found that mei Aiwei's main business is only to operate the "China-Ukraine Marriage and Love Network" website he developed, and has also set up a special team to operate.
The team recruits female members locally in Ukraine and hosts large dinners or other blind dates in the local area, as well as provides blind date training for male members in China, teaching male members how to date Ukrainian women.
It is reported that Chinese male members want to participate in such an activity need to spend about 70,000 yuan, become VIP members need to pay a membership fee of 300,000 yuan, while Ukrainian female members only need to pay 100 yuan of membership fees.
Such a huge gap in charging standards has made Mei Aiwei have been criticized by netizens. And some people have also revealed that Mei Aiwei and her wife have been doing a special job - the surrogacy industry.
This industry is strictly prohibited in China and many countries around the world, but it is allowed by law in Ukraine. Customers only need to pay a certain amount of money to place orders, and Mei Aiwei has even made a very complete gray industrial chain.
Public information that can be searched on the Internet shows that Mei Aiwei and his wife created a reproductive medical institution called "Youai" and even won the Ukrainian Friendship Contribution Award.
The agency is a registered "surrogate mother" company in Ukraine, and the couple has even filmed promotional videos for the company.
After such a creepy thing was exposed, Mei Aiwei's filter of "self-made Chinese entrepreneur" was completely broken, and his reputation took a sharp turn in The Country, and many netizens accused him of unscrupulous dirty behavior in order to make money.
At the moment, Mei Aiwei has not responded to the matter. But even if Ukrainian law allows it, such an unethical and moral thing should not be a tool for him to make money.
Mei Aikai's life has ups and downs, he has never been defeated by fate, it is true that he changed his life by starting from scratch, but he lost himself in the desire for profit and started a gray business that violated human morality.
Now that there is constant war in Ukraine, I hope he can ask for more blessings.
Resources
[1] Guangzhou Daily, December 13, 2014, "College Entrance Examination Students Studying in Ukraine "Counterattack"? Or deliberately hype
[2] Global Times, October 17, 2017, "Chinese Scum Marries Ukrainian Beauty College Student, His Story Continues"
[3] Guangming Net, March 2, 2022, "Dasha Mei Ai Kai", Banned