Empathy has always been spurned.
Especially women of the past, once empathetic, what awaits them is insults, humiliation, all kinds of punishments...
It is undeniable that there are exceptions to everything.
In the thirties, there was such a woman.
She fell into a love triangle, but eventually received the blessing of her ex-boyfriend and the love of her husband at the same time.
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Few people probably know about her. But when it comes to her husband, perhaps everyone has an impression.
Her husband, one of the founders of Shaw Brothers Films, has made thousands of Chinese-language films in his lifetime and is passionate about philanthropy.
The Shaw School Building, as we know it, comes from his donation. Yes, he was Run Run Shaw.
But today's protagonist is not him, but his original wife, Huang Meizhen.
Wong Mei Zhen came from a wealthy singaporean family, and in the early 1930s, she was rich and famous, and she met Run Run Shaw, who was in the middle of the family road.
Huang Meizhen's boyfriend at that time was Yu Dongxuan, a wealthy Singaporean businessman, who was good friends with Run Run Shaw.
Once, he invited the Shaw brothers to their home.
In addition to Yu Dongxuan, there was also a pretty girl in a white dress, and this pretty girl was Huang Meizhen.
After the meal, Yu Dongxuan made an appointment with the guests to talk about cooperation in the study, and he asked Huang Meizhen to accompany Run Run Shaw to the garden.
Two people who meet for the first time, in this way, they have a good feeling in a pleasant conversation.
On that day, Run Run Shaw returned home, and his mind was full of the shadow of Huang Meizhen, who was also attracted by Run Run Run Shaw's talent.
Since then, Huang Meizhen has often visited him at Shaw's institutions.
If time permits, the two will also watch a movie in a theater under Shaw's name.
For a time, the ambiguous relationship between Run Run Shaw and Huang Meizhen spread in the circle.
Hearing these rumors, Yu Dongxuan only thought it was a rumor and did not take it to heart.
But Shaw didn't think so, and Yu Dongxuan not only helped him, but also regarded him as a friend.
The relatives around him also advised him to give up this love, but he could not be sorry for Yu Dongxuan, and it was difficult to let go of this love.
Since it is difficult to choose, simply go with the flow.
Since then, Run Run Shaw has been more active in his career, and Huang Meizhen has also entered and exited Shaw's institutions as usual to help with advice.
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If one thing is really in a dilemma, it is left to time to decide.
In any case, do it first and then say, even if you make a mistake, it is better than leaving a lifetime of regrets.
With this idea, Shaw made himself stronger day by day, and Huang Meizhen spared no effort to help and support him.
In 1929, Shaw, who decided to try sound films, went to the United States to investigate and acquired a batch of equipment for shooting sound films.
When Run Run Shaw returned to Singapore a few months later, Wong had been waiting at the pier for a long time.
She looked at Shaw's emaciated face, and she was so distressed that she could not speak.
Separated for several months, as if half a century had passed, the two hugged each other tightly.
At that moment, they strengthened their determination to be together.
In 1932, the Shaw brothers completed China's first sound film, Platinum Dragon, in Hong Kong, which gave Shaw fame and fortune.
After his career was successful, he finally plucked up the courage to come to Yu Dongxuan's house and confessed to him that he and Huang Meizhen were in love.
What he did not expect was that Yu Dongxuan not only did not get angry, but also gladly accepted this fact.
In fact, after Yu Dongxuan heard the rumors, although he didn't care too much, he was guilty of muttering in his heart.
He just wants to give each other some space and let everyone see their hearts.
He didn't want to leave an empty shell around, and he didn't want to live a life of seeming separation.
Instead of this, it is better to be an adult beauty. He was willing to let go, and they no longer felt guilty.
With the fulfillment of one person, the peace of mind of three people is exchanged. Perhaps in Yu Dongxuan's view, there is no contradiction.
In 1937, Run Run Shaw and Huang Meizhen got their wish and the two held a grand wedding ceremony in Singapore.
On the day of the wedding, Yu Dongxuan also came to the scene and sent a gift of 500,000 yuan to express his blessings.
In the following years, whenever Yu Dongxuan was mentioned, Shaw was deeply grateful.
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With the blessing of Yu Dongxuan, whom they care about the most, the two cherish this marriage even more.
After marriage, the two had two sons and two daughters, and Run Run Shaw's career has been developing in a good direction.
Although Huang Meizhen is a rich family, she is by no means a useless vase.
Before getting married, she had never tasted human suffering. But when the family changed, she still did her best to support everything on her own.
After the outbreak of World War II, Shaw was imprisoned by The Japanese gendarmes for "shooting anti-Japanese films" and beaten up.
At the same time, the "Shaw" theater was destroyed.
In the days when there was no Shaw around, she struggled to support the Shaw family business, and at the same time begged for people to help her rescue Shaw.
Finally surviving until the end of the war, Run Run Shaw and Huang Meizhen once again lived a peaceful life.
Since then, Huang Meizhen has been at ease with her husband and children at home, and Run Run Shaw has been able to revive her career outside.
Although Run Run Shaw's success has also made him scandalous, Huang Meizhen still firmly believes in her original choice.
The two spent 50 years of marriage together, but they never blushed.
However, no matter how good the encounter, it is inevitable that the pain of parting will be avoided.
In 1987, Huang Meizhen died of illness in Los Angeles at the age of 85.
After Huang Meizhen's death, Shaw decided to let the Shaw Company stop production for a year in honor of his wife who was in the same boat with him.
Since then, Huang Meizhen's triangular past with Run Run Shaw and Yu Dongxuan has come to an end.
Although the emotions established in such a situation are difficult to accept.
But the emotional relationship between Huang Meizhen and Run Run Shaw and Yu Dongxuan magically avoided this controversy.
The reason why this relationship can be repaired to a complete degree is that in addition to the frankness and perseverance of Huang Meizhen and Run Run Shaw, there is also the credit of Yu Dongxuan.
In the relationship, he knows the trade-offs, knows the advance and retreat.
Try to give each other enough time and space to listen to each other's inner voices and make decisions.
He knows that if a person loves you enough, you won't leave her without her. If a person does not love you, you can only stay in vain.