On March 4, 2022, Zhang Xiuqing, after Taiwan's bitter love song, announced that she had stopped menstruating when recording a variety show, so that everyone should stop sharing the secret recipe for her to ask for children.
It sounds very sad, 52 years old many people have become grandmothers, but she has not yet had a biological child with her husband.
It is understood that Zhang Xiuqing has been married twice, the first marriage has a daughter, and after divorcing her ex-husband, she married a man who is 12 years younger than herself.
The two have been married for more than 7 years, have not had children, so many years, her only wish is to give her husband a son and a half daughter.
Looking at their daily photos, you can see that the age difference between the two is very large, and the difference in appearance is also large, and it is precisely because her husband is young and wants to give him a child as soon as possible. One is to pass on the generations to the husband, and the other is to have a child and the relationship between the two people will be more solid.
Zhang Xiuqing has also reached the age of middle-aged and elderly, and her figure has begun to change, plus taking medicine and conditioning in the process of seeking children, and she has gained a lot of weight.
The husband is the only son in the family, and the task of passing on the inheritance is all on him, and the pressure of the two couples suddenly becomes greater.
And before her mother-in-law died, Zhang Xiuqing also promised her mother-in-law that she would leave a queen for their family no matter what, but now it seems that it cannot be realized.
Even so, the husband does not want to put too much pressure on her, the husband has a daughter, she has always treated the stepdaughter as her own daughter, and the existence of this daughter will also slightly comfort the two people's heartfelt desire to have a son.
I heard that in order to get pregnant, Zhang Xiuqing spent more than 2 million Taiwan dollars before and after, hundreds of ovulation injections, and also tried IVF, but all ended in failure.
There was really no way, and I tried a lot of messy folk remedies, so many people introduced her methods, and listened to her say that there were more than 10,000 messages when she said the most.
It is precisely because of taking a lot of folk medicines and hospital drugs that she will gain a lot of weight.
Many folk remedies are often very difficult to drink, but she also insists on trying.
After so many years of persistence and attempts, but no good results, and at the same time, she is getting older and older, facing the risk of advanced maternal age, she always said that she went with the flow.
Although she said that she would go with the flow, the desire to have children was still so strong, every time she had the opportunity to go to the temple, or the Guanyin Temple, she would make a wish for herself to do so, hoping to give her husband a son and make a good word.
It always backfired, last year's birthday wish, she still made the wish to have a child, did not expect, less than a year, about to turn 52 years old she actually stopped menstruating.
A few years ago, she said that if she never had children, she insisted on asking for a child until menopause, and now she has fulfilled her own promise.
For the 52-year-old, menopause may be a good thing, and trying messy folk remedies and drugs all the time must be very bad for her body.
And she is in her 50s, even if she is pregnant, she is also an advanced maternal age, and then her situation will become very dangerous, so she completely cut off her desire for a child, and it is good to spend the rest of her life in peace and stability.
To be honest, pregnancy can really be said to be unattainable, and some people don't want to get pregnant, so they just "win the lottery".
And some people have been trying for many years, have not been pregnant, obviously both sides of the examination is no problem, but can not conceive, but if there is no problem, pregnancy is sooner or later, calm the mind, "good pregnancy" will naturally come.
Zhang Xiuqing's situation is more special, she was 40 years old when she got married, and it is indeed a little difficult to get pregnant at 40 years old, not to mention that she is now in her early 50s.
Therefore, it is not necessarily good to marry someone with too much age difference, you have entered the formation of the elderly, he has only connected with middle-aged people, and the gap is obvious.