In the play "Our Marriage", three different styles of wife images are created.
Jiang Jing, played by Cao Xiwen, is a full-time wife who is showy and gentle and virtuous; Shen Yanxing, played by Bai Lily, is a woman with a strong personality, who refuses to give in half a step outside the home and advocates economic independence; Dong Sijia, played by Jiang Xin, is a proper strong woman, fighting for her own career and letting her husband be a full-time father at home.
These three women are all good women who deserve respect, and they are all doing their best to maintain the happiness of marriage and strive to make the small family life develop happily and steadily.
But contrary to their wishes, each of them lived a very unhappy life.
1. Jiang Jing: Beautiful and gentle, virtuous and considerate full-time wife
Jiang Jing is a typical representative of the "good daughter-in-law of the people".
She is elegant, generous, gentle and considerate, whether it is to herself or to outsiders, always has a calm and contented smile, and never complains about the hardships of life.
She is a typical good wife in the eyes of others, single-mindedly taking care of children, cleaning up the housework, serving her husband, and honoring her elders.
In her words, her husband is the breadwinner of the family, so she should treat her husband with the attitude of treating her boss, so that even if she occasionally feels wronged, she can convince herself.
Jiang Jing seriously regarded the full-time wife as a profession, conscientiously abided by her post, and never had the idea of being independent and going out to work.
In order to maintain her figure, Jiang Jing faced the fragrant steak, but only dared to sniff the aroma, and did not dare to eat a bite.
Others eat meat in large bites, but she can only eat vegetable salad in small bites.
Afraid of fading and loving chi, she did not dare to slack off for a moment in terms of maintenance.
Shen Yanxing said to her: "With this perseverance, why don't you go out and find a job?" ”
But Jiang Jing feels that a complete and happy family always has to be sacrificed, and the traditional marriage model of the female protagonist and the male protagonist outside the male protagonist is already very perfect.
Second, Shen Yanxing: a woman who is competitive, pursues independence, and does everything herself
Shen Huixing is a woman with integrity in her heart and a straight personality.
She was once a high-achieving student in the finance department of a prestigious university, and a debate competition made Sheng Jiangchuan not only fall in love with her at first sight, but also convinced.
After graduation, Shen Yanxing was photographed by a well-known large company, but gave up his job opportunity due to pregnancy and became a full-time wife for six years.
In six years, Shen Comet likes to do everything himself, and everything in the family is packaged, and he will use electrical welding and connecting the power plug board, whether it is the trouble of the child getting sick, going to school, or the big thing such as house decoration and moving, it is Shen Comet who solves it alone.
In six years, Shen Yanxing has changed from a high-IQ beauty in the department of finance to an informal, untrimmed woman.
Sheng Jiangchuan, on the other hand, was spoiled by her as a low-energy child in life.
Shen Yanxing has always felt that men and women are equal, and the contribution of full-time wives to the family is not lower than that of men who work hard in the workplace, so between husband and wife, there should be mutual respect, and there is no question of who is strong and who is weak.
But a drunken drunken remark by Sheng Jiangchuan aroused Shen's determination to return to the workplace.
Sheng Jiangchuan said: "If I hadn't worked so hard and fought so hard, would my family be able to live in such a good house?" Can you move to such a good location..."
Sheng Jiangchuan's words made Shen Yanxing understand that full-time wives have no status in men's hearts, just because they have no income, so men will not recognize their efforts.
Therefore, Shen Yanxing embarked on the road of job hunting, and from then on, this originally peaceful and happy home began to jump.
Third, Dong Sijia: a workaholic who only cares about work and does not care about her family, and a strong woman who is in the limelight
Dong Sijia is a proper investment circle strong woman, but also a typical workaholic.
Her position in the company, similar to that of Sheng Jiangchuan, belongs to the core backbone figures.
All her time and energy was devoted to her work, without any time taking care of the family and children.
She also used to laugh at herself, saying that others were full-time moms and that she was a full-time mom.
After working for more than ten years, I have never taken a day off because of family affairs or children' affairs.
Dong Sijia is proud of her career, achievements and income, and it is rare for a woman to be able to achieve her level.
But behind her career, it is a full-time father like Li Yuwen who is struggling to support.
For the happiness and integrity of the family, Li Yuwen, a master of history, quit his job to concentrate on taking care of his children at home.
They once tried to hire a nanny, but the nanny's perfunctory attitude left a psychological shadow on Dong Sijia.
Men don't work, and it's a shame to look at it.
Dong Sijia herself also felt humiliated, and never wanted to let others know that her husband was a full-time father.
Women who are too strong often have a strong desire to control.
Dong Sijia always involuntarily wanted to control Li Yuwen to do things according to his own wishes, and often ignored Li Yuwen's feelings.
Fourth, they are all good women and good wives, but their marital status quo is not happy, what is the reason?
Jiang Jing and Lu Weibin:
With the development of the plot, the problems of the three families and the three marriage models have gradually been exposed.
Full-time wife Jiang Jing, living in the most luxurious house, the most luxurious living conditions, she has no status at home, does not have any right to speak, wants to arrange her parents to travel abroad do not dare to be the master, in order to fear that her husband is not happy, but also have to pretend to fall, and then give up her quota to her parents.
Jiang Jing's attitude towards her husband is to treat her husband as the boss, obey her orders, never resist, and take care of her properly.
Although her husband Lu Weibin is also very good to her, she still does not have a sense of security in her heart.
When Shen Yanxing reminded her that full-time mothers were not recognized in men's hearts, Jiang Jing quietly tested Lu Weibin with the case of a colleague's divorce, and Lu Weibin said: "A full-time mother, who has been idle at home, what compensation do you want?" Is it compensated according to the treatment of full-time nannies? ”
Jiang Jing immediately felt a chill, and it turned out that in her husband's heart, she was not even as good as a full-time nanny.
Every time Lu Weibin returned from a business trip, Jiang Jing would check his bag and secretly check his mobile phone.
Unsurprisingly, Lu Weibin still raised Xiao San outside.
In what way will Jiang Jing maintain her marriage? Looking forward to the follow-up plot revealed.
Comet Shen and Sheng Jiangchuan:
After Shen Yanxing returned to the workplace, he asked a nanny to help pick up and drop off the children, but the nanny not only often took leave, but also had to go home at seven o'clock every night. Shen Yanxing had to make an agreement with Sheng Jiangchuan that she would be responsible for taking care of the children, and 246 Sheng Jiangchuan would be responsible for taking care of the children.
Sheng Jiangchuan had never taken care of his daughter, and for a while he could not adapt, he was in a hurry, and there was a strong quarrel with Shen Yanxing.
Once the nanny took another leave, Shen Yanxing asked Sheng Jiangchuan to pick up the child, and Sheng Jiangchuan arranged for the assistant Xiao Bai to pick up, which led to the "kidnapping" of his daughter Sugar Sugar, and Sheng Jiangchuan almost lost ten million.
This incident became the fuse for Shen Yanxing's divorce from Sheng Jiangchuan.
Shen Yanxing's practice of working at a fixed point in the workplace has caused dissatisfaction among all colleagues, and her boss Dong Sijia also warned her that if she wants to work well, don't always think about her family, which makes Shen Comet gradually realize that she is involuntary and exhausted in the workplace.
Every day back at home, tired of fighting with his eyelids, there is no peace on weekends, even taking his children out to visit the park can not squeeze time, Shen Yanxing also began to understand her husband's difficulties.
Sheng Jiangchuan, who traveled with his children, experienced all kinds of hardships with children, and he began to constantly reflect on his neglect of the family and his neglect of Shen Comet over the years.
These two should be divorced.
Dong Sijia and Li Yuwen:
Li Yuwen's teacher, Teacher Luo, learned that Li Yuwen had never put down history in recent years, so he invited him to participate in his own research project, no need to sit in class, only in his free time to do research, and occasionally need to go to a meeting.
Li Yuwen is very happy, not only does not affect the care of the children, but also can do something he likes, why not enjoy it?
Dong Sijia heard that the topic in which Li Yuwen was involved was organized by the Shi Zhi Office, so he moved his mind and took it upon himself to invite Professor Luo to dinner, and at the dinner table, he proposed that Professor Luo give Li Yuwen a formal compilation of the Shi Zhi Office.
Professor Luo suddenly made a mistake, Shi Zhiban now requires under 35 years old, doctoral degree, Li Yuwen's conditions, a few years ago, ok, now the age and academic qualifications are not met.
Dong Sijia was not happy when she heard it, in her opinion, since she could not enter the formal establishment, the job was meaningless.
When Li Yuwen proposed to go to Hangzhou for a day on a business trip with Professor Luo and ask Dong Sijia to find a nanny as soon as possible, Dong Sijia directly refused, and asked Li Yuwen to quit the job of research on the subject and continue to concentrate on taking the baby.
The grievances that Li Yuwen had endured for many years finally broke out, and there was a quarrel between the two for the first time.
In the trailer plot, Li Yuwen and Jiang Jing are getting closer and closer, what will happen between these two?
epilogue:
Jiang Jing, Shen Yanxing, Dong Sijia, the three women are very good, it can be said that they are all good wives in reality.
But these three families, three different types of marriages, all have all kinds of problems.
Everyone in the play longs for a happy marriage, but the standard of happy marriage in everyone's heart is different.
The difference in the scope of life of men and women, the difference in ideology and cognition, make them constantly have various conflicts, and in the end, they are all chicken feathers.
Fortunately, they are all actively solving problems.
In this world, is there a perfect marriage? If so, what would it look like?