Seeing such a message here, this is the person you are thinking about now, he should be quite selfish in his feelings, and he only thinks about his own feelings a lot of times. In this relationship, he just wants to be comfortable and do whatever he wants, for example, he doesn't want to contact you during this time, then he won't think about how upset you are at all, he will cut off contact with you, and he may completely ignore you when you send a message and call. I feel that in fact, in a way, this person is an escapist performance, he does not like some things in reality, so he always does not want to face it. It can also be said that he has unwilling energy in his heart and is unwilling to stay in this state all the time. Now he also has no way to determine the emotional relationship between you and him, he does not want to commit, worried that if the commitment is followed by being tied down. Now you are quite divided in this regard, and you may quarrel a lot because of these things.
You should always wait and not lose hope. You also gave a lot in this relationship, so you firmly believe that he should be able to go to the place you want. But now it still seems far away, and the hope is quite slim. Just now I said that the other party is a state of escape, you now hope that he can give you a commitment, but he can't do it, and he doesn't want you to be so sad, and now he is just using some superficial ways to comfort you. On the one hand, he reassures you, and on the other hand, the underlying idea in his heart is to wait and see. It's a procrastination technique, and now I don't see that you're particularly familiar with him, he's not even quite sure if he wants to be with you, he doesn't figure out what he needs in his heart, but what he tells you on the surface is that he wants to, just takes time. I think if that's the case, you have to beware that the other person may be lying to you, and he may have other energy options.
The teacher still has to emphasize here that mass divination is not necessarily completely in line with everyone's situation, specifically or to draw cards separately, one-on-one solo divination will be more in line with themselves, more accurate.
Some friends should have broken off contact with each other and lost his news. I feel that this matter has a greater impact on you as a whole, I can feel a relatively strong negative energy, and you are actually very sensitive in your heart. You can see the truth of the matter, I think you are very delicate, emotional aspects are more meticulous. At the same time, you will also see reality, not that you are on top, you can distinguish between reality and dreams. Now you and the other person have poor communication, you don't have a very deep communication, and sometimes you may be too accommodating to him. You are not willing to upset the so-called balance, and there is no way to say something. I can see about the energy of repair, and I think you may have a tendency in your mind right now. After all, the period of his greatest enthusiasm has passed, and it is necessary to start looking to the future.
So now I think you have to have the courage to communicate with each other face-to-face in depth, rather than just being satisfied with finding a topic and talking about superficial things all the time, then you will never be able to face the future. But also pay attention to a problem, that is, when you communicate, you find that you are inconsistent with the receiving point and reaction point of a message, that is to say, the two of you are talking and talking about what this person is talking about, and you can't understand what the other person is thinking, and the other person will also find that the things presented by the feedback party are inconsistent with themselves, so every time it seems that I say mine, you do yours, or you say yours, I do mine. This state is very humiliating, but if you want to repair the relationship, there is no way to escape this level.
Now you may be really confused, I think the other person is actually the same, he does not know what to do. I wish I could help you, and I think you could come to me and talk to me and see what kind of way to break the deadlock. At the same time, I also want to remind you that when communicating, you should pay attention to your own ways and methods, especially some patterns of verbal expression, and some of the things you say to the other party may be prickly and will hurt him. I think you should take this into account, if you can take this step, then I think you have the energy to say goodbye to some of the previous things, and naturally there will be new things coming into your life.