In these two days, the hottest topic is #How to improve the willingness to have three children#, 660 million reads, and more than 100,000 discussions, representing the attention of all walks of life to this matter.
Various suggestions about the birth of three children are frequently on the hot search.
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Brainstorming from all walks of life gave birth to three children
Recently, the hot search was almost contracted by the three children:
In order to let everyone have three children, it is recommended that one than one roll, some people propose that families with three children have a monthly subsidy of 1,000 yuan, some people propose that the third child go to kindergarten for free, and some people propose that the third child go to high school to waive the three-year education fee and add 10 to 20 points to the college entrance examination...
From parenting to education, it is clearly arranged.
I believe that the deputies have carefully done a lot of homework before making suggestions, and know that most young people now dare not give birth and do not want to have children because of the heavy burden of raising children + the pressure of education.
Therefore, each suggestion points directly to everyone's pain points, helps everyone solve the difficulties in the process of raising a baby, and relieves everyone of their reproductive worries.
However, these suggestions don't seem to really impress young people:
"Three children? Have you considered this now? Marriage and the second child are still a lot of people struggling with it. ”
"Don't say three children, two children are impossible."
"I'm not born! Not a single one is born! ”
Give money, college entrance examination extra points are not born? Giving such a well-intentioned tailor-made "spawning" plan, after all, is it still wrong?
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"Spawn Package" hidden bug
In fact, the crux of the problem is not on young people, these suggestions sound very tempting, full of benefits, full of sincerity, but a closer look will find that things are not simple.
At present, all the "birth packages" are aimed at three children, and the premise of having three children is to have one child and two children.
This is like a supermarket advertising that buying the third bag of rice to get a 100 yuan coupon, provided that you buy the first two bags of rice at the original price, and then you can get this coupon when you buy the third bag of rice.
After understanding this premise, and then studying these suggestions about the three births, you can understand why the delegates uniformly skip the birth of the first and second births, and directly step into the theme of the birth of the third child.
Because if you want to have three children to enjoy the relevant benefits, you must first complete the task of having one child and two children, a family of 3 children, so that the fertility rate will not go up? Isn't that much easier than the birth of one child and one child?
The ideal is very full, but the reality is very bone.
Today's young people are under pressure to raise babies, many people don't even want to have a child, and now you come up and tell people to have at least three, doesn't this directly dissuade people?
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There are no shortcuts to spawning
The third child cannot only start from the third child, just like a person who eats three cakes is full, but he cannot only eat the third cake. To improve the willingness to have three children, we must first improve the willingness to have one child and two children, and only if the first two steps are taken well, the road behind will be easy to walk.
In the face of the fact that the fertility rate is constantly declining, the anxious mentality can be understood, but fertility is not watching a movie, and you can directly press the fast-forward button to jump to the position you want.
The reduced willingness of young people to have children is the result of a combination of many factors, including economic pressures, educational anxiety, and the help of women's consciousness awakening.
Fertility is no longer a necessity in modern women's lives, but an option after repeatedly weighing the pros and cons. To encourage childbearing, it is not only necessary to reduce the burden on young people to raise children, but also to protect women's rights.
The current proposal is that the beneficiaries are either families or children, and the only policy that points to women is to extend maternity leave, which is tantamount to pushing women to the center of workplace discrimination in disguise.
Procreation is really not a matter of whether to be born or not, how much to give birth to, but a decision that people make after comprehensive consideration.
Only when people can get happiness from childbearing will they have the willingness to have more children, which may be the most important direction for delegates to consider.