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On International Women's Day, the most surprising news is probably the remarriage of Big S.
I still remember that more than half a year ago, Big S and Wang Xiaofei had a boiling divorce, and later because of the addition of Wang Xiaofei's mother, the incident of the divorce of the two people became the topic of the audience after tea and dinner.
However, in this one thing, I saw the wisdom and channel of the big S.
Many times in divorce, women seem to be the weaker party, crying and crying in the outside world, accusing men of various things in marriage.
But Big S has never said anything, has not said a word of decency, and has said a sentence that accuses Wang Xiaofei, even if it is a former mother-in-law, in the video of the accusation and spit, Big S did not come forward to clarify.
It was as if the dust had settled on this matter the moment she decided to divorce, and she would not say a word about it.
This restraint on the big S is something that many women do not have, since the two people are no longer husband and wife, no matter what happens again, there is no need to speak for each other, and there is no need to take the past things and tell others;
This sobriety on the big S is something that many women do not have, and since the two people cannot reach common ground in marriage, instead of being trapped in an unhappy marriage, it is better to get out of the quagmire as soon as possible;
This share of the big S is bold for love, but also many women do not have, some women in marriage, after being injured, they no longer believe in men, and no longer believe in love, rather than live a lonely life.
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In fact, many times, happiness can be chosen, and men can also choose, depending on what kind of mentality a person holds, and what kind of enlightenment a person holds.
In the face of big S's divorce and remarriage in a short period of time, and choosing a singer that everyone does not know very well, from this point it can be fully explained that big S does have the cleanliness of a big woman.
She can be clean and clean, say goodbye to everything in the past, and not let everything in the past affect her life now.
In real life, there are many women who are unhappy because they are always trapped in the same place, always trapped in the past, they can't see the happiness of the moment, they can't see the beauty of the moment.
And big S has a kind of vitality that can start quickly, whether she bravely leaves a man or bravely spends time with a man she loves, she is not the kind of woman who is immersed in small love.
Even if she has experienced a failed marriage and been hurt in love, she still has expectations for love and happiness.
Such a woman, of course, will be happy, because she has been on the road to pursuing happiness, without giving up, and without complaining.
For the remarriage of big S, netizens have different evaluations:
Someone said: "You can tie a knot, but why do you have to be very sloppy every time you get married, and you will soon be touted as a true temperament to kill and kill women independently, which feels very bad!" Two days ago, I said that after the divorce, I became a beautiful girl, then enjoy the state of a girl, isn't it great to talk about the freedom of love, I don't understand. ”
Netizens said: "Wang Xiaofei's divorce and then looking for it is cheating in marriage? How long has the eldest s been divorced and remarried, and I don't know when they got together? I have long said that the sentence that the big s responded to Wang Xiaofei's love affair is really bad. ”
Of course, there are also netizens who stand on the side of the big s: "Husband out." rail. Divorced, do you still have to cry at home holding the ancestral archway and widow for your ex-husband? ”
"Every woman has the right to pursue happiness, bless her, and love bravely."
"Girls can be financially independent, emotionally free from worldly pressure, who they want to love, especially now that there are so many Internet trolls, it is really precious, psychologically strong, blessed."
Some netizens also believe that the divorce of two people is too casual: "These two people who say that they love their children, they can't see any love for their children when they act, one is fiercer than the other, one is faster than the other, maybe they don't have a new love before they are separated, if they really love their children, they will give their children time, or wait for the children to be older, and it is best to remarry." ”
Seeing the message of this netizen, I suddenly thought of a sentence in "The World of Man": The life of a child is a lifetime, and the life of an adult is not a lifetime?
So the implication is that no matter whether it is a man or a woman who is divorced, in the case of children, they cannot pursue their own happiness, and they should wait until the children are completely grown up, and they should consider their own happiness.
Everyone has their own life choices, some people are willing to grievance themselves for their children, and some people can bring their children well while managing their feelings well.
I think a woman has the right to pursue her own happiness, she can be a good mother, but also a good wife or girlfriend.
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Maybe between people, some fate is really doomed, big S and the current husband, two people are exotic love, more than 20 years ago love is inseparable, and finally separated, with their own lives, experienced their own joys and sorrows.
Singer Gu Junye announced in an article published on SNS: "I am getting married, I want to continue my love with the woman I fell in love with 20 years ago, and when I heard the news of her divorce, I found the number from 20 years ago to contact her." Fortunately, the number did not change, we were able to reconnect, the time has passed a long time and can not be wasted anymore, so I proposed to get married, she also accepted, decided to live together... I hope you all have more support and blessings, thank you. ”
And the big s also posted a response: "Life is impermanent, I cherish the happiness of the moment." Thank you to everyone who has allowed me to get to where I am now. ”
All the departures in this world are probably premeditated for a long-term reunion, and people who really have a fate will still meet after going around, and people who really love deeply to the bone will still like it after a few years, or they will be moved, or they will want to hug.
Some netizens said that even if it is a romance novel, they dare not write like this, but it does happen to Big S.
Happiness often only comes to the person who really expects him, there are many people who always feel that they are unhappy, not that happiness abandons her, but that her eyes do not see the happiness she has, those small joys.
Life is very long, if this life is not well lived, there will be no next life to start again; this life is very short, short enough to love people, there is also a hug, a kiss opportunity.
But I still have to say that big S's choice of remarriage experience this time is really big S.
Wishing you happiness!
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