My husband and I are both middle-aged, we have three children, the eldest has just been admitted to college, and the youngest is still in elementary school. There are three people in our family who are sick, the mother-in-law is often hospitalized with cerebral palsy, the father-in-law has diabetes and often goes to the hospital, and the father-in-law and in-law are more than 70 years old, although there are two daughters-in-law, but the eldest son and daughter-in-law are not in charge, so their lives are all up to me
Four years ago, my husband was suddenly paralyzed, and a large-scale cerebral infarction occurred. For four years, I had to take care of my in-laws and mother-in-law, my husband, and my three children, and I supported the whole family, and everyone knew that I was a brave woman, a woman who did not abandon her husband in the face of difficulties. However, since her husband came out of the hospital, he began to "do", although he was in a wheelchair most of the time after discharge, he could occasionally walk on the ground, although walking stumbled, but as long as he practiced more, he could still recover.
But after he tried several times, he found that his legs and feet did not listen to the call, and he began to "do". He kept getting me into trouble and beating me with crutches, so that I didn't dare to go near him or stay at home. Only when it was time for dinner did I go home to cook for him, and when he saw me, he would run to the kitchen and scold me fiercely, and when he was in a bad mood, he would pick up crutches and beat me.
The reason why he did this to me was because I had lived outside since he lost his man function, he thought I had given him a green hat, I took care of him every day because I thought about the family levy, because our house was within the scope of demolition, he said that when the demolition payment arrived, I might roll up the money and run away with the man. The "man" he said was actually such a man, and his children were classmates with my children. Once on a snowy day, I rode a battery car to pick up the child, and as a result, I fell on the way, the battery car broke down, and I saw that it was about to leave school, it was snowing heavily, it looked like it was going to be dark soon, and the child couldn't find out how anxious I would be after school. Moreover, my in-laws and husband were waiting at home for me to cook for them to eat, and when I thought of it, I sat on the ground and cried.
At this time there was a car parked next to me, out of the car came a man, he lifted me up from the ground, I saw that it was the father of my son's classmate, this was saved, I asked him to help me to pick up my son to go home. He is a caring person, when he knows that I have to take care of the sick in-laws and mother-in-law alone, but also to manage a hemiplegic husband, plus every day to pick up and drop off children, meet the in-laws hospitalized, I really have three heads and six arms is too late, he extended his warm hand to me, help me pick up the children every day.
Sometimes my in-laws were hospitalized to see that it was inconvenient for me to pick up and drop off with a battery car, so he drove to pick up my in-laws. Since then, there have been rumors in the village that I have men outside. These words reached my husband's ears through my husband's brother, and since then, my husband has begun to "do". Moreover, from then on, I did not dare to go home and sleep, because his temper began to become grumpy, beating me and scolding me at every turn, and splashing me with tea in the cup, and as long as he could get something in his hand, he would smash it. What was even more perverted was that there were three knives hidden in his bedroom, one under the pillow, one in the cupboard, one in the drawer, and he kept them where he could get them, and he said they were specifically for me, and I thought it was terrible. Since the discovery of these knives.
I was very afraid, I was afraid that after falling asleep at night, he would come to hurt me, so in the four years that he was sick, every night I slept outside, sometimes sleeping at my mother's house, sometimes in the middle of the night when he fell asleep, I quietly went home and slept on the second floor. Because I didn't go home at night, he thought that after he had lost his manly function, I hated him, so I found the man outside and slept in the man's house. In fact, the in-laws know my pain, every time he wants to beat me and scold me, the in-laws will help me, although the mother-in-law can not speak after the stroke, she will always hold my hand and cry, and then angrily stare at her son.
Because the in-laws are very sensible and know who is good and who is bad. So, they've always been on my side. They knew that the person who was sorry for this family was not me, but him. Because before he got sick, he was contracting for the project, he had a few dollars, so he raised Xiao San, when Xiao San was pregnant with his child, he went home and forced me to divorce, I refused to divorce, he made noise every day, saying that I was a yellow-faced woman, not worthy of him, and said that he wanted to find a little girl in her 20s. I was annoyed by him and agreed to sign the divorce agreement. After divorcing him, I still take care of my in-laws and children, because I have lived in this family for twenty years, I have a deep affection for everyone in the family, I can't leave this family, so I live a life of divorce and no leave home.
The husband rented a house outside and lived a conjugal life with the woman. That day the husband went to dinner with the woman, because the husband had high blood pressure, the woman did not know, at the table always advised him to drink, because of drinking too much, he fell down unsteadily for a while, to the hospital after the doctor said that a large area of cerebral infarction, the woman heard the news, she beat up the child, took away the husband's savings and ran. After I knew, I went to the hospital to take care of him, and then remarried with my husband, I wanted to use the remarriage to warm him and give him the confidence to live, although the woman was gone, I was always there! In my eyes, he is a family member, a relative, he is the father of three children, my husband who has been with him for 20 years, although he has made mistakes, but between life and death, those mistakes are nothing, so at this time, I should stay with him.
The in-laws and in-laws all looked in their eyes, and they knew that if I were to leave him, I would not come to him when his life was in danger, because I always remembered the promise we made when we got married: whether it is good times or bad times, whether rich or poor, whether healthy or sick, whether young or old, we are all in the same boat, suffering and hardship, sharing weal and woe, and we must stay together for a lifetime! After the village leaders knew the reason why I didn't return at night, they brought a psychologist to my husband's side, and they did ideological work for my husband, and they pointed to the cotton shoes on my husband's feet and said, "You see your wife wearing new cotton shoes for you, and she wears a pair of broken cotton shoes on her feet. Through everyone's help, the husband finally took away the three knives in the room.
It turned out that the reason why her husband became so perverted was because after his brain infarction, he found that he had lost the function of a man, so he was not confident in himself and had no sense of security, so he began to "do". I wrote this story to tell you that everyone will have a serious illness, no matter who is sick, the healthy side will not abandon the protection, not for other places, for the love between husband and wife, but also for their own children.