A few days ago on the Internet, I saw a topic: sisters who want plastic surgery must come in to see. I clicked in, thinking there would be some earth-shattering secret, or a painful wake-up sticker after the whole cripple.
However, seeing the following set of familiar contrasting stickers, I think it is a little funny and a little unexpected, but when I think about it, I think there is nothing wrong with the title.
When I first saw the child in the picture below: Huh? The goddess and Dou Xian'er's daughter are like this? This genetic arrangement stepped on the thunder.
At that time, Dou Jingtong was only 15 years old, and his dress, skin color, and the presence of the mole on his chin were like a little girl who wanted to prove that I had grown up.
The whole cannot be said to have bugs, but it can be seen that the heart is weak.
Of course, there are many people, and now when they see this picture, they are also amazed: Dou Jingtong was originally in such a good shape, so feminine.
Who is right and who is wrong? unimportant.
It wasn't until she returned home after studying abroad, cut her hair short, and put on her jacket that everyone's eyes lit up: this nunzi was out of print.
I don't believe that others can change into this outfit, and I can't find a hundred of them to wear this taste.
At this time, she has become a charming guy who makes her.
Even if the bald head wears a military coat, or dyes flowers and green hair, it can make the little friend who is touching the fish to watch her video, shout "too handsome", and have to cycle ten times before stopping. It's about me.
It has nothing to do with leather jackets, military coats, and tight little skirts and small heels.
Mainly still found their own style. As you can also see, the effect of the before-and-after comparison is much stronger than the plastic surgery.
Therefore, the sisters who want to undergo plastic surgery must first figure out whether they have problems with their facial features or their style.
In fact, it is very difficult for children to have a pair of parents, and it is most normal to be covered by their aura.
But tong tong only relies on the "strong self", and gently and skillfully stands out from the aura of his parents.
Probably in addition to relying on heredity, it also has a family origin.
Now probably many people don't remember, Faye Wong was also a "fashion black hole" for a considerable period of time. Some people in Hong Kong who listen to "Wang Jingwen" will be ridiculed: "No, you are good old earth, like her?" ”
At that time, her fashion taste was indeed not bad, and she was still in a clumsy imitation. For example, this style, do you dare to believe that this is Faye Wong?
Another example is this, in addition to revealing two meters of long legs, it is almost the same as the "bad girl" in the town.
But after a short period of loss, she dropped everything to study abroad, and when she came back, she completely released herself and was suddenly shocked.
No matter how outrageous the shape is, wearing it on Faye Wong, there is an indescribable unique taste. In those years, it cannot be said that she was at the forefront of fashion, only that she was fashionable.
Many people think that fashion is to catch up with the trend, in fact, beauty is "to be yourself", is to build a solid framework between "beauty" and "self".
You are you, the most beautiful.
Of course, you can also say that Faye Wong's mother and daughter are not mortal and have no comparison.
Take a look at Ni Ni in the picture below.
In good conscience, this picture is no longer very visible about how delicate her facial features are, but the first impression is that she is really shining. Exuding: At this moment, I am the most dazzling woman in Shanghai.
Looking down, it's a kind of "Should I stand here?" Should I keep smiling, I should be okay" was at a loss.
If you have to bar in the picture below, what fine-tuning she made very cleverly, I don't want to refute it.
However, I think what anyone can notice more is her "I can calm the field" state.
Style, aesthetics, taste these ordinary people can also have. It is not possible to take shortcuts if you have money, and even the rich will fall into the misunderstanding of the upstart. Tong Tong was holding a Hong Kong ceiling stylist Zing at that time, which was also a complete failure of modeling.
I remembered once walking with my mother in skp, and I was greeted by a guy full of gucci, and my mother said, do tellers have to dress so fancy? I couldn't stop laughing and booed: he would be unhappy to hear that.
Beauty is not metaphysics, it is more of a "conformity", conforming to the advantages of the self and the inner intuition, and expressing it with the appearance of external "clothing".
It's actually hard.
Pandering to others, although the beauty of the performance can not bloom, but pandering to yourself, will hear different voices for a long time.
But every time the trend leads, it is precisely those who break the current "standard of beauty".
"Believing you're beautiful" is cooler than "meeting the standards of beauty."
After watching a movie "Oversized Beauty", a fat girl Renee, one day mistakenly thought that she had become beautiful, so she changed from inferiority to extreme self-confidence. It was precisely this change of mentality that allowed her to get love and reap the success of her career.
Later, she found that her body had not changed in any way, and finally found that her shining point came from the heart.
But men tend to get rid of external distractions earlier than women. Compared with men, "believing in yourself" seems to be particularly difficult for women.
This may be because the world gives women more discipline and restrictions. For example, for men, good looks, figures and clothing taste are just icing on the cake, but for women, maintaining the perfection of appearance is almost a must.
Every girl is born different, but the world has always left them with a very narrow path.
A4 waist, chopstick legs, right angle shoulders, butterfly back... Such specific and demanding requirements for women's bodies are regarded by almost all people as "standards of beauty".
For a long time, women could not get out of the "white and thin" mold. Women who do not meet this standard will easily become the object of ridicule.
I don't think it's ugly to be skinny, but the standard of this stereotypical beauty is suffocating.
Until recent years, the aesthetic trend suddenly bid farewell to "white skinny and young", and the screen began to become a "big heroine". Whether it is a film and television drama or an advertising film, the female image is almost all carved out of a mold, sassy, cool, beautiful, and golden.
It seems to be the liberation of women, but with a finger to calculate, the original women can at least have the option of "unsuccessful", but now the "big heroine" is not only more beautiful, higher moral standards, but also must have a career and money.
And it's strange that they have to show an "indifference" attitude towards love.
It's just overcorrection, another kind of reverse confinement of women.
Because as women, we are the subjects with different cores.
Some women are independent and self-reliant, some women are born weak, some women love careers, and some women are passionate about family. Making all women the same is tantamount to cutting enough.
The criterion for evaluating a woman should never be external, but should be internal - whether she has found something that makes her happy from the heart, whether she is in her environment, whether she is free and confident from the heart.
How to be a woman, every woman has a different answer.