He Jiong said in "The Best Happiness": "To get you must pay, to pay you also have to learn to persevere, if you really feel that it is difficult, then you give up, but give up, you don't complain." ”
Deeply believed, love is the same, meet a person who makes their hearts move, if you do not know how to take the initiative, you will only lose true love in regret.
In the era of the Internet, the relationship between people began to fade, as long as there is a mobile phone, everyone sits together, can not speak for a day.
But, in a sense, this behavior only makes socially boring.
Some people say that it is difficult to "get off the list" themselves, and when they meet people they like, they dare not come forward.
In fact, the key is that we ourselves have not found the right way to pursue love.
Taking middle-aged people as an example, they have a lot of life experience, but they begin to become cautious when they meet people who are impressed.
Young people can fight for love, but middle-aged people's love is full of subtlety, which is not a joke, but a reality.
Especially as a man, when pursuing a mature woman, if you use the set of pursuing a little girl, you can express your love.
Well, in the end you will only lose.
Therefore, if you want to impress a mature woman, remember not to contact frequently, it is important to do these three things well.
1. Show your sense of responsibility
Mature women, what kind of men do you prefer?
Not handsome and rich, but a responsible man who has the ability to conquer a woman's heart.
After all, having been honed by society for a long time, women have long understood that looks and materials are just icing on the cake for love, not the standard for choosing a mate.
There is a saying: "Maturity is not about age, but about the shoulders can bear multiple responsibilities; the height is not about the starting point, but about the thickness of the effort." ”
Admittedly, how much a man can carry determines the weight of your heart in a woman's heart.
Just like Zhou Bingyi in "The World of Man", his love for Hao Dongmei is verified by responsibility.
In the early days, when he and Hao Dongmei were not yet married, Hao Dongmei accidentally fell into a well one winter in the process of going to the countryside, which made her fall ill and could not get pregnant.
In this regard, Hao Dongmei is very concerned that because of her birth, it will affect her feelings with Zhou Bingyi, and even considers that if the two get married, the Zhou family's parents will not oppose the marriage of the two.
However, Zhou Bingyi gave Hao Dongmei enough security to reassure her.
After marriage, when the Zhou family and his wife urged the two to have children, Zhou Bingyi directly said that he was infertile and carried everything alone.
Such a man has to be said to be an ideal in the world.
So, a man's greatest attraction to a woman is to be responsible. After all, women want security, not illusory promises.
2, let her see your self-motivation
A man, when he is young, can have no money, after all, it is normal to have no capital when he first enters society.
However, a man, in middle age, if he is still in the same working state as when he is in his 20s, is obviously a failure.
As the saying goes, "No amount of luck can match strength." ”
Deeply believed that when you have strength, the brilliance in your body will naturally bring you closer to the heart of a mature woman.
Just like the love between Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen.
In the early years, the two fell in love because of the drama, at that time, Cai Shaofen already had a lot of fame, but Zhang Jin was still only a small actor.
At that time, when Zhang Jin planned to chase Cai Shaofen, there was only one voice in his heart, that is, I wanted to work hard to make myself worthy of the other party.
Therefore, when the two announced that they were together, there were many doubts from the outside world, and only Cai Shaofen herself knew how much Zhang Jin was worth loving.
Today, Zhang Jin has already achieved fame, and the two of them are also living happily.
It can be seen that the vision of a mature woman will never only stay in the beauty of the present, but will be placed in the future development.
Good feelings are never maintained by "sugar-coated shells", but need to be guarded by our hearts.
3. Be filial to her parents
Men, the biggest charm is good character.
After all, in the second half of a woman's life, marry a man of good character, so that she will not be hurt by life.
So, from what aspects can we see that the other party is a person of good character?
The answer is simple, to see if a man is worth marrying, just pay attention to his attitude towards your parents.
This attitude, in short, is filial piety.
After all, a man who is filial to the elderly is bound to not be too bad.
Of course, there is a saying: "Filial piety in the new era is to give parents more choices." ”
Indeed, this filial piety should not be foolish, but should be based on respect for the elderly.
For example, your parents usually just want the people closest to you to spend more time with themselves, but you are always absent from the family dinner for no reason, and every time you are not presented.
Well, this is a manifestation of disrespect for the elderly.
A man is a must to be good to his parents, but if, he treats your parents as his own, then, congratulations, you have successfully been impressed by this man and met your own happiness.
In this life, the luckiest thing is the happiness of the family and the well-being of the relatives.
As a man, if you want to impress a mature man, I hope you can be honest with each other and be a consistent person.
Xiaoyuan's message: The highest realm of a mature woman should not float all the love on the surface.
Saying and doing are sometimes two different levels.
The former is perfunctory, the latter is true love.
If you can, I hope you don't skimp on your own efforts, and all love is based on value exchange.
In this way, you can have your own happiness. Share!
Topic: How do you think you can impress a mature woman?
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