Figure/Source Network Infringement Please contact to delete
I once saw a very interesting little story, two beggars crouched under the wall and begged while chatting, and one of the beggars asked the other: What kind of day do you say that the emperor and lord live every day?
Another beggar looked at the broken bowl in front of him:
"It must be a good day, and the emperor and lord must use gold bowls for food."
The position of a person determines their insight, and in the perception of the beggar, the emperor is also going to come out and ask for food. Many things you will only understand if you come to that position yourself. As Confucius said, summer worms cannot speak of ice.
Some truths can only be understood by yourself, and no matter how much others tell you, you will not understand.
Many people are fantasizing about getting rich overnight, hoping that they can splurge when they have money. In fact, when you really have money, you will not think about buying this and buying that, there are some things that you naturally understand.
One: Your economic strength is your confidence
Taiwan's highest-rated idol drama "Destined to Love You" has been seen by many people, and the heroine of the post-it note girl Chen Xinyi is like the shadow of thousands of ordinary girls in the early stage.
She was timid, cowardly, a bully, and did not dare to speak loudly. Even if you fly up the branches one day and meet the rich man Ji Cunxi, you are still the sticky note girl who is tied up.
In the face of Ji Cunxi's swaying left and right, he was moody and did not dare to resist, and even his own children could not be saved.
Chen Xinyi, who returned in the later period, is like a changed person, shrewd and capable, independent and brave, and Ji Cunxi, who turned back to the prodigal son, is no longer only a promise, but decisively rejects him.
Although in the later stage, she still can't escape the ending of the idol drama reunion and reunite with Ji Cunxi, in this relationship, Chen Xinyi is no longer the humble Post-it note girl in the early stage, but has grown into an independent woman, standing on an equal footing and talking about a relationship.
One of the important reasons for this change is that Chen Xinyi has her own career.
Chen Xinyi in the early stage was a rookie in the workplace, and after knowing Ji Cunxi, she had no job, waiting for Ji Cunxi's call at home every day.
After the return of Chen Xinyi, she is already an excellent art planner, she has independent economic ability and her own career, she can live well without relying on anyone, and naturally she no longer has to bow to Ji Cunxi.
Yi Shu said: "I don't mind working hard, as long as I pay for the labor, in exchange for remuneration, no matter what, it is better than spreading a big hand and asking the family." ”
Many times, what wealth brings us is not only material enjoyment, but also the confidence to face life.
A rich lady is out of love, crying, flying out on a trip to relax her heart, and can soon be relieved from the emotion of lost love. An ordinary woman is out of love, and even buys drunk to grasp the measure, because the next day still has to go to work.
The difference is the power of money.
Liu Yuling, a Chinese actress who broke into Hollywood alone, mentioned a "go to your fund" that she prepared for herself, and she said that the purpose of the money is "when the boss wants to fire you, or let you do something you don't want to do, you can dump him with confidence: Fuck you."
We strive to make money, not only for a better material life, but also to face life calmly.
Second: the cost of time is more important than the economic cost
Now, all kinds of video sites have such a business, if you don't have a membership, then you have to put up with ads for up to a minute before the start of the episode, but if you spend a few dollars to charge a membership, you can exempt these ads.
Some people have questioned the significance of this service, they think that the people who stay to see ads are groups without the ability to buy, what is the significance of such advertising?
In fact, the opposite is true, if you look closely, you will find that the ads placed in front of the episodes are rarely high-consumption advertisements such as luxury goods, and are often fast-moving consumer goods such as beverage laundry detergent.
The target customers of these products are those low-consumption groups who would rather spend a minute watching advertisements than spend a few dollars to fill the membership, which can be described as accurate delivery.
Because for rich people, the value of time cost is much higher than that of members with a few dollars.
Making money is also a matter of method, some people are busy, a lifetime or struggling in food and clothing, some people seem to be calm and relaxed, a lot of income has been pocketed.
When you have money, you will no longer be entangled in trivial small profits, and you will no longer bother with irrelevant people or things, because you understand that time is your most precious wealth, and with time entangled in these small things, you can create ten times the value of a hundred times.
Many people feel that rich people don't care about the small money, not because they don't love money, but because they love the time when they can create more money.
Three: There are more good people around, and there are more people to be wary of
Some people have said that when you mix well and have money, you will feel that the people around you are good people and things are smooth. In fact, the people around you are still those people, things are still those things, only because you have money, so they are better for you.
The golden bodhisattva in the temple receives incense from the devotees every day and listens to the compliments and good words of the devotees, but if the bodhisattva does not have a golden body, it is just a lump of mud, and the devotees will not look at it more.
In the same way, the "good people" around the rich people are not in awe of that person, but the wealth they represent behind him.
Therefore, rich people are often suspicious, and the flowers they see may be a mirror flower and water moon.
When you don't have money, others don't have to look at you, whether it's good or bad is like a spring, you can see it at a glance. And when you have money, it's like a spring full of duckweed, which looks full of life, but you don't know which piece of duckweed is hiding underneath the whirlpool.
When you are poor and white, the true friends who accompany you, when you fly yellow and tengda, you may become a smiling tiger, which is probably also the trouble brought about by wealth.
Money is not the only meaning of life, but money can make your life more meaningful. Only when you have seen the world of flowers and flowers is you qualified to say that blandness is true. Only when you have wealth can you qualify to see money as dung. Otherwise your high stature is just ridiculous hypocrisy.
It's not vulgar to try to make money, after all, in this real society, money can help you solve most of your troubles. It's just that a gentleman loves money and has a way to get it, don't let your life become a slave to money, but you use money to create a better life, which is the meaning of our money.
END