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There are many forms of love, and some love is two people who look at each other and talk about everything.
Some love, as Socrates said, "I stand before you, but you do not know that I love you." ”
The essence of love is a feeling.
No matter how far away, only by letting the other party feel it can we call it love.
Therefore, many people choose to express love in the way of "disconnection".
Perhaps when the word "broken" is heard, it is easy to associate it with words such as "break up, separate".
But in fact, disconnection does not mean leaving, sometimes it is precisely the way to express love.
Just like in the TV series "Destiny I Love You", Chen Xinyi did not take the initiative to contact Ji Cunxi for a while.
Even when the other party called and sent messages, she chose to ignore them.
In Ji Cunxi's view, Chen Xinyi really does not love herself and does not want to pay attention to herself.
In fact, Chen Xinyi was just angry and jealous.
She expressed her concern in the way of disconnection, hoping that Ji Cunxi could let go of Anna and really care about her.
So, in real life, why not?
Many people quarrel and get angry, they will choose to break the connection, do they really want to separate?
The answer is no.
Most people just care too much in their hearts and remind each other to cherish in a non-contact way.
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Broken connection contains inseparable love
It can be said that most disconnections occur after quarrels with each other.
The contradictions and misunderstandings between two people are like a fuse, which creates a gap between them.
However, after the quarrel, the reason why you do not choose to break up or give up is that it is difficult to give up.
At this time, disconnection is the best choice.
Choosing to break off the connection is a forced move.
I want both people to calm down, not to quarrel, not to complain.
I want to leave room for turning around and use the disconnection to give each other time to think.
Therefore, the disconnection contains love that is difficult to give up.
If the other person breaks up with you after an argument, it at least means that she doesn't want to be separated from you.
She's just using the disconnect to give you time to coax her and keep her.
Therefore, when the connection is broken, it is the most inseparable tangled moment between people.
Seize the opportunity, get her back, and don't do something you regret.
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Disconnection contains respect for each other's love
Whether they are together or apart, being able to respect each other's ideas is a manifestation of loving each other.
In fact, there is a crisis in feelings, and it is never a problem of one party.
If the disconnection allows both people to have room for reflection and calm, then it is the best choice.
In the movie "Little Times", after Gu Yuan and Gu Li quarreled, the two chose to break off the connection for a long time.
During this time, the two people rethink their right and wrong in their relationship.
Respect each other's ideas and needs, communicate and communicate equally, and finally get back together.
Just imagine, if Gu Yuan chased Gu Li and did not give the other party time to calm down;
Such an approach is nothing more than disrespecting the needs of the other party.
Sometimes, disconnection is also an expression of love.
Acknowledging that there are problems with feelings is not a complicated thing, but many people can't always do it.
The reason why many couples end up breaking up is largely because they don't take emotional issues seriously.
For example, if a couple quarrels, the man only thinks that the woman's desire to calm down is unreasonable.
He coaxes left and right, and the woman is not moved, so the feelings will be even worse.
If men respect a woman's ideas, give her time to calm down.
Perhaps, both people can recognize the mistake and make up for it.
Therefore, disconnection is also a kind of respect, and this respect contains love.
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Disconnection contains the love of the heart
Perhaps many people have such a misunderstanding: disconnection means not caring and not loving.
It is true that when the feelings of two people are disconnected, there are indeed certain problems and crises.
But that doesn't mean that disconnection just doesn't care.
Often the more people care about the feelings, the more they want to express their feelings in a disconnected way.
A couple has been married for five or six years, and the lackluster life makes men more and more bored.
Once the woman accidentally discovered that the man had an affair with the other woman.
At this time, the woman calmly packed her bags and returned to her mother's house.
Men didn't care too much at first.
But as the days passed, looking at the cold home, his heart was empty.
At that moment, he realized how much he cared about women in his heart.
Therefore, disconnection is also a reminder to know how to cherish.
People often have it without knowing how important the other person is to them.
Only after losing it does it suddenly awaken.
If it is directly separated, it will only make people regret it.
Fortunately, there is a period of time for people to digest, to feel, to really sort out their inner thoughts.
Loving someone is not an easy task.
But being able to be patient to accompany each other and feel each other will break a lot of difficulties.
In short, there is a kind of love called disconnection.
When choosing to break off the connection, you should reflect and review the bits and pieces of this relationship;
Earnestly feel and appreciate his kindness and love for you.
Don't let yourself regret and regret, breaking the connection means that there is still room, seize the opportunity, and keep him well.