During a relationship, men do three things well, and women don't leave you easily
Bi Shumin said: "Love is very delicate, stupid and confused, and there are many things to be afraid of." Love is afraid of lying, love is afraid of silence, love is afraid of hesitation. ”
For some people, it is not difficult to meet the destined lover and be with her smoothly, the real difficulty is to keep the love and keep her heart.
Most women who have paid the true heart are insecure, real love is fragile, a word is not said right, a thing is not done well, she may leave, leaving the man alone in the same place to chagrin and pain.
This time I went home for the holiday and visited my aunt's family, and it happened that my cousin brought my girlfriend back, and the family sat together to eat, which was very lively.
As soon as we were preparing our meal, my cousin came to the kitchen and told us not to put coriander and less ginger, his girlfriend was allergic to coriander and was not used to the spicy taste of ginger.
The aunt looked at the sensible and considerate child and couldn't help but laugh, joking that his son did not remember his mother's preferences, but remembered his girlfriend's preferences clearly.
We all know that she is joking, the cousin has been filial and sensible since he was a child, the neighbors have given him something to eat, he has to leave a little for his mother, very good at taking care of people, at that time everyone said that in the future, whoever marries such a man must be very happy.
Men who complain that their girlfriends left them should reflect on themselves and not blame the women.
In fact, during the relationship, men do these three things well, and women will not easily leave you.
First, men respond to women's emotional needs in time, and women will not easily leave you
Many women who come to me to talk to me say that their boyfriends are too busy at work, have no time to spend time with themselves, and don't even have time to answer their own phones.
Many of these men have deliberate actions, but more are still good men who are bent on feelings, but they do not understand women and cannot respond to women's emotional needs in time.
In fact, for many women, men do not have to earn a lot of money, as long as they have always loved themselves and spent more time with themselves, but many men do not understand this truth, and women have left them.
Men don't want women to leave themselves, so think more from the perspective of women, think more about what women really need, don't be wishful thinking, and finally can't keep anything.
Second, men openly admit the identity of their girlfriends, and women will not easily leave you
Every New Year is very lively, because many families have added new members, either the son brings his girlfriend home, or the daughter brings her boyfriend home, in short, many families are very busy.
The cousin took his girlfriend home for the first time this year, my aunt was very happy, he was also old, his love life has not progressed in these years, the family is very sad, so he took his girlfriend home.
On the one hand, giving the family a tranquilizer, on the other hand, publicly acknowledging the identity of the girlfriend gives the girlfriend a lot of security.
When it comes to falling in love, women are insecure and want to be openly acknowledged by the man they love.
Men with high emotional intelligence will not wait until the time to talk about marriage to announce the identity of their girlfriends, because they understand that if they delay in introducing their girlfriends to the people around them, they will not have the opportunity to get married.
Third, men do not secretly speculate about women, women will not easily leave you
I've been in contact with a lot of suspicious men who don't want to do that, but they just can't control themselves.
Most of them have a deep childhood shadow, inherently insecure, can't believe others, such people are not bad-minded, but in the eyes of others, they have a heavy heart.
It is very tiring and hard to fall in love with such a man, every time you go out, there is a report, many women can't stand the love of men, so they choose to leave men and leave the sad place.
If men don't want women to leave easily, then don't speculate on women, believe in their girlfriends, and believe that the love between you is indestructible.
Women can't do without men who are willing to believe in themselves, and can't bear to secretly speculate about their own men, which is very true.
The cousin is not only a caring and careful man, but also a man who is willing to believe his girlfriend, he never checks his girlfriend's mobile phone, and never lets his girlfriend report to him, his love is relaxed, the attitude of dealing with people is very popular with his girlfriend, and their love can last a long time.
Conclusion:
Men and women have very different ideas, there is a big difference, so when they are in love, they often quarrel, there are many contradictions, which is normal.
There are never only one contradiction in life, there are many, crossing a contradiction, and there are even greater contradictions in the back, too late to be happy, even more too late to be sad.
But people are born to solve the problem, there is a problem between the male and female lovers, should hurry to solve, do not throw the problem in the corner.
Men should not worry too much about their girlfriend leaving themselves, as long as men do what they should do, women will naturally not easily leave you.
