"My family lives on a high slope in the loess, and the wind blows through the slope."
This song must be very familiar to everyone, the most classic of which is not the original song,
It is the version sung by Hang Tianqi.
She is the youngest national first-class actress and has a pivotal position in the music scene.
And it is such a singer with a successful career, but he has experienced too many tribulations in life.
The ex-husband of the first marriage went out of G, and after going abroad, he was cheated out of a huge amount of money by his foreign boyfriend.
After returning to China, he still ignored his objections and married his current husband.
However, he inadvertently hurt his daughter and was "shelled" by her daughter on social platforms.
Hang Tianqi's biggest regret in this life is to create a lifetime of shadows for her daughter...
01
Hang Tianqi was born in Shanghai in 1966.
The second eldest in the family, there is an older brother and a younger brother.
The character of the older brother and younger brother is timid, and Hang Tianqi is only a few years old but especially bold,
When the brother was bullied, afraid of causing trouble and did not dare to say anything, Hang Tianqi dared to rush up and fight with the boys.
Determined to get his brother's anger back, Ladu could not hold back.
Several boys on the other side broke her leather rope, and without saying a word, she went to their parents and asked for money.
This pungent personality makes the children around them have to hide and go, almost offending the neighbor's children.
Fortunately, not long after, the family went to Beijing to live because of their parents' work.
My father studied abroad and worked as a professor at Tsinghua University after returning to China.
His mother was a highly qualified student in science and engineering, and both of them were Kochi elements.
My parents originally liked art, but they were opposed by their elders, and they had to become science and engineering students.
Influenced by her parents, she has had a strong interest in art since she was a child.
Not only that, but her singing talent was also displayed at a young age.
At the age of 6, he joined the school's literary troupe, and at the age of 7, he won the championship in the competition.
Parents look at their dreams that they can't achieve, and they can continue in their daughters, not to mention more support.
Television sets are extremely luxurious for other families.
But the parents can assemble one by themselves,
To the neighbors, these two were Frankensteins.
The family sits in front of the TV to watch the show.
Hang Tianqi looked at the singer on TV,
I thought that if I could stand on the stage one day, I would definitely not sing worse than them.
She joined the choir at the age of 9 and sang the song "Lights in front of the Teacher's Window" at the age of 11, which was made into a record.
At the age of 12, he also sang on stage at the National Games.
At the age of 17, just after graduating from middle school, he was admitted to the Music Department of Capital Normal University.
Compared with the bumpy experience of many singers, her road can be described as smooth,
In addition to her own talent, of course, it is inseparable from the credit of her parents.
At that time, Hang Tianqi wanted to study at the Central Conservatory of Music, but she was not old enough.
Her father resolutely accepted the olive branch from Capital Normal University for her, so she applied for the exam.
Before the exam, her father gave her a piece of paper full of dense knowledge of music theory.
Her father was helping her with the questions, asking her to memorize them all.
The result was really as my father expected, betting on more than half of the questions,
Hang Tianqi passed the exam with excellent results and became a college student ahead of schedule.
After going to college, Hang Tianqi did not stop,
While others were still learning about music theory, she had already begun to prepare her own album.
In her junior year, Hang Tianqi knew that the girlfriend of a classmate was a singer, and the other party was recording songs.
So Hang Tianqi said bluntly to his classmates: "Can you take me to the scene to see, I want to know how the song is recorded." ”
When the recording engineer learned that Hang Tianqi also studied music, he asked her to try on music.
After Hang Tianqi sang two songs, the people in the recording studio praised him one after another.
The recording engineer decided to let Hang Tianqi record the song together.
During his college years, Hang Tianqi successively published three albums: "Stand Up", "Lovely Summer", and "Sausage Mosquito Net Machine Gun".
Unfortunately, she is not famous, and the album has no response.
02
After graduation, she began to participate in singing competitions everywhere to increase her visibility.
After Hang Tianqi became famous, he received an opportunity for a commercial performance.
After the end, she got a lot of money, and she gave all the money to her mother.
The mother only needed a little as a daughter's heart, and the rest returned to her.
She gave all the money to her family to buy household appliances, refrigerators, cameras, color televisions,
He also bought a dress for his family, and finally he only had 45 yuan left in his hand.
The money he earned can be spent on his family, which makes Hang Tianqi feel very accomplished.
In 1988, the third session of the Youth Song Contest was about to begin,
At that time, the Youth Song Contest represented the highest level of national singing competition.
Mao Amin and Wei Wei both stood out in the Qingge Competition and became famous.
At first, Hang Tianqi did not plan to sign up, at that time she was still preparing an album.
It just so happened that the person in charge of the audition was her sister in the first division, so she had been persuading her to participate,
Hang Tianqi only then stiffened his scalp to participate.
The place of the preliminary round is in the First Normal University, and Hang Tianqi has long been famous in the school.
The audience is full of her brothers and sisters, and she naturally has a super popularity.
In this way, Hang Tianqi directly "killed" the final.
At that time, Hang Tianqi and Hu Yue lived in a dormitory, and Hu Yue chose "Loess High Slope" at that time.
"Loess High Slope" is a folk song developed by Fan Linlin in the same year in the northwest wind singing voice,
It's just that the degree of singing at that time was not high.
The day before the final, Hu Yue temporarily decided to change songs,
Hang Tianqi admires the song "Loess High Slope" very much, and her voice is the biggest killer of this song.
In the final, Hang Tianqi completely sang this song "Loess High Slope",
The other song she chose is also Fan Linlin's song,
In the end, he conquered all the judges with his loud voice and won the second place in popular singing.
Many people have heard the song "Loess High Slope" in Hang Tianqi's mouth,
"My family lives on a high slope in the loess, and the wind blows through the slope.
Whether it's the northwest wind or the southeast wind, it's my song, my song. ”
Since then, the Northwest Singing Method has become popular, and this song has also spread throughout the streets.
Her cover also became the most popular version.
Hang Tianqi, Wei Wei, and Mao Amin were collectively known as the "Queen of Northwest Tianhou".
The green song competition became famous in one fell swoop, and many song and dance troupes threw olive branches to her.
In the end, she chose to enter the Air Politics Song and Dance Troupe, and it didn't take long to become the lead singer in the troupe.
Hang Tianqi was also awarded the title of national first-class actor, and she is also the youngest recipient of this honor.
Not only that, she also became the "darling" of CCTV,
In addition to being on the Spring Festival Gala for 9 consecutive years, she can be seen in many activities.
Songs such as "Black Hair Fluttering Up", "Singing Face", "Front Door Love Big Bowl of Tea", "The Return of Love" and so on have been released successively.
Her career is in full swing, but her relationship is far from going so well.
03
As early as her college days, she had a lifelong relationship with a man named Zhang Zemin.
Unlike her, who was still in school, Zhang Zemin was in her teens.
He has long entered the society and is a mature music producer.
Two people have the same love for music, and age can no longer prevent the spark of friction between the two.
From the beginning of the discussion of music at school, to the laughter and laughter of walking together in the evening,
Hang Tianqi's heart couldn't help but get a little closer to Zhang Zemin, and Zhang Zemin's talent deeply attracted her.
The two, like all couples, have a sweet and beautiful start.
Because Hang Tianqi's family is strictly controlled, she doesn't have to think about it to know that her parents will definitely not agree.
They could only hide from the family for the time being, and the two of them thought of a lot of "crooked tricks" for this.
They set a red and white signal,
When Zhang Zemin was looking for her downstairs, if he could go out, he would raise a red flag on the balcony, and Zhang Zemin only needed to wait for a while before she quickly ran down.
If he couldn't get out, he would change the white flag, and Zhang Zemin would have to leave sadly.
"Underground Love" makes both of them feel happy and exciting.
This was Hang Tianqi's first love, when her love dou first opened, and she decided that Zhang Zemin was the only person she wanted to marry in this life.
Zhang Zemin is also the first time to talk about his girlfriend who has so many small,
He also incarnated as an "obsessive male protagonist", just waiting for the day when this matter could be put on the table.
It wasn't until Hang Tianqi's career gradually stabilized that she dared to open her mouth to her family.
Hang Tianqi tried to confess this to her parents, but was met with strong opposition.
After talking for such a long time, of course, she did not die, and she directly brought Zhang Zemin home.
"Mommy and Daddy, this is what I told you about Zhang Zemin, we talked about it from college to now, we will not break up, I hope you can accept him."
The parents had obvious displeasure on their faces, but they entertained him out of courtesy.
As soon as Zhang Zemin left, his father's face became more ugly.
"You hurry up and break up, you are a good age, I and your mother will not let you find a boyfriend who is more than ten years older, we can't accept this son-in-law, he is a few years younger than me!" 」
Hang Tianqi didn't do anything when he heard this, and a pair of eyes stared directly at his parents:
"I have long thought that if he does not marry, if you really do not want to accept him, we will go away and fly high, do not hinder your eyes in front of you, and you don't blame your daughter for not filial piety."
In desperation, she was ready to break with her parents.
Many facts have proved that the love that parents do not approve of is mostly a tragic ending, and Hang Tianqi's is no exception.
When parents see their daughters so determined, they can only acquiesce to this marriage.
In 1993, when Hang Tianqi was red, he did not choose to go around for gold.
Instead, he founded a school, Tianqi Art School, and served as the principal.
She wants to help more children develop their musical talents.
She took out all the money she had accumulated over the years and raised money everywhere to barely support a school.
Many people do not understand, why give up the great cause to do such a thankless thing?
There are also many friends around her who ask her: "You don't take advantage of Zhenghong to hurry up and do more performances to earn more money, give up your own career, then all your money to run a school, what do you say you are a person?" ”
Hang Tianqi didn't have any superfluous explanation, only said: "In this way, I feel very satisfied and very down-to-earth." ”
She works with her partners every day to write textbooks, recruit students everywhere, and teach herself.
Once, on the way to enrollment, she almost had a car accident due to fatigue driving, but fortunately she was only slightly injured.
Nor did she ever complain or give up.
04
Also in this year, she was ready to register her marriage with her boyfriend Zhang Zemin.
Unexpectedly, the unit wrote Hang Tianqi's name wrong, and the staff could not handle it for them.
She must return to her unit to reissue the certificate before she can register.
Hang Tianqi's usual work is very busy, and there are a lot of things waiting for her to deal with in the school.
The matter was shelved, and it was almost a year.
In 1994, the two became legal couples.
Hang Tianqi is still a more traditional woman in her bones,
Shortly after marriage, her daughter was born, and for the sake of her family, she chose to gradually fade out of the show business circle.
Except for some necessary activities, it is difficult to see her again,
She prefers to be a strong backer for her husband and enjoy her family life.
Fortunately, Hang Tianqi still has a lot of popularity, and the school she founded and several KTV businesses are also thriving.
The life of a family of three has also been developing in a good direction.
At that time, Hang Tianqi was very content, and she thought from time to time that if she could live such a happy and stable life in her life, it would be a fortunate thing.
But reality always catches people off guard, and life always can't easily make you wish.
Due to the special nature of the work, the husband is always accompanied by various temptations,
Surrounded by all kinds of people.
At first, the husband can still firmly refuse, but with the passage of time,
Little by little, his heart was eroded, and he gradually lost himself.
Husbands spend more time socializing every day, coming home later and later, and sometimes not returning home at night.
Unable to stand the test, he fell and soon immersed himself in beauty.
When Hang Tianqi learned that her husband was out of G, she had a heartbreak.
Career and love are so smooth, she is like a flower that has been living in the greenhouse,
But when her husband came out of G, all her beliefs collapsed, dragging her back from the dream to reality.
Fortunately, she was still sober, and she was indifferent to her husband's pleading.
This is a matter of principle, she resolutely decided to choose divorce, at that time who had the heart to manage the career,
She took her young daughter to live in a foreign country, away from this sad place.
In a hurry, the domestic house did not have time to deal with, she directly threw it to her ex-husband,
Zhang Zemin has been living in it, but refuses to pay the property fee because it is not his own house.
At first, Hang Tianqi did not have time to transfer the property to her ex-husband, and the owner was still herself.
The property directly sued Hang Tianqi, who was far abroad.
Hang Tianqi once said bluntly in front of the media:
"I left the house to my ex-husband, why do I have to pay the property fee myself?"
It wasn't that she didn't want that little money, she didn't recognize it.
When her ex-husband was ill, she still couldn't bear to care and took the initiative to help him introduce doctors.
The unanimous evaluation of Hang Tianqi by the people in the circle is: lecture qi.
I don't know if Hang Tianqi will regret not listening to her parents' advice in the first place.
As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer losses in front of you.
When she went abroad, she was depressed for a while, and her daughter became the only pillar of her heart.
05
When people fall out of love, they are most likely to be taken advantage of.
At that time, Hang Tianqi was in the "empty window period", and she met a foreigner who greeted her warmly.
This man was gentle and attentive to her, handsome and gentlemanly.
The best way to forget a person is time and new love, and the words are not rough.
Hang Tianqi soon fell into the gentle countryside of this foreign man.
The two began to fall in love,
But later, the boyfriend frequently opened his mouth to ask her to borrow money, from the beginning of the emergency to the later investment,
The woman who fell in love was always blind, and she loved to death and lived at that time, and did not think about it so much at all.
Hang Tianqi is like a self-service cash machine, how much to give.
Later, her boyfriend did not contact her for a long time, and she reacted that she was deceived.
Was cheated of 30 million, which is almost all the savings she earned in China,
Even sadder than being cheated of money is that a newly healed heart has been hurt to pieces.
During that time, I was busy in love, and I didn't take into account my daughter's mood.
This also caused the daughter's heart to be greatly hurt.
In order to live, Hang Tianqi returned to China with her daughter.
Although her fame has greatly declined, there are still many people who like her.
She returned to the music scene, although she was no longer the peak, but she also regained a foothold in China.
Shedding all the aura she once had, she had to take on various small business performances,
As long as there is a reward, she will not refuse.
She also gained her third relationship at home.
The boyfriend is 13 years younger than Hang Tianqi.
This relationship is as unpopular as the first marriage.
Friends and family are afraid that she will be hurt again,
Many people also said: "You are spending money to raise, and you don't know whose husband it is in the future." ”
Hang Tianqi still believes in love: "I don't care who he is in the future, I only know that it is mine now." ”
It is precisely because of Hang Tianqi's bold personality that he has gained many fans.
However, her happiness is her daughter's pain.
Her bumpy feelings also made her have little heart to focus on her daughter, so she neglected to care for her daughter.
As a result, the daughter lacks fatherly and maternal love from an early age.
When Hang Tianqi started her second marriage, she was 40 years old.
In order to have feelings with her husband, she risked the risk of advanced maternal age and tried various methods many times.
Finally, at the age of 46, he risked his life to give birth to a son.
She and her husband gave almost all their love to this precious son,
The love for her daughter is very rare.
In 2021, Hang Tianqi took her daughter to participate in the variety show "Mom You Are So Good-Looking".
In the show, she strives to move closer to the image of a good mother.
In an interview, she said:
"Through this show, the communication between our mother and daughter has become easier."
Maybe she herself didn't expect that the punch in the face would come so quickly.
In December of the same year, her daughter Xinxin posted a Weibo on social platforms, which caused a lot of sensation.
Her father disappeared from her life as a child, and she was also snubbed by her mother's reorganized family.
The words are full of dissatisfaction and helplessness.
When she saw her daughter's post, Hang Tianqi realized that it was not only she who was experiencing hurt.
The one who was hurt the most was his own daughter, who was innocent no matter what point of view.
Today's heart has long grown into a big girl,
Hang Tianqi is also trying to compensate for the harm she has done to her daughter over the years.
I don't know if the mother and daughter can untie the knot, and whether the heart can truly forgive the mother.
In this regard, Hang Tianqi can only try her best to make up for her daughter through time.
06 Conclusion
Today, Hang Tianqi is 56 years old and is still developing in the show business circle.
I have to say that she has experienced a lot of emotional hardships,
But God can't take away her singing skills and courage.
Many people have experienced failed feelings, and they have become only promises and dare not love anymore.
Hang Tianqi has this courage, and now her life with her husband is getting better and better.
It's just that the harm to her daughter is something that makes her feel guilty for a lifetime.
I hope that the fragile heart of the heart can be healed as soon as possible.
As a singer, Hang Tianqi is qualified,
Although she is trying to save this mother-daughter relationship,
But as a mother, I think she may not be qualified.