In 1998, one day it was Li Ruiying's turn to host the "News Network", but about 15 minutes before the start of the broadcast, she was combing through the day's speech, and suddenly received a phone call.
After Li Ruiying answered the phone, she was confused, because she learned the news that her son had just fallen off the building through this phone call.
As an ordinary person, he will definitely immediately put down the work at hand, but Li Ruiying insisted on sticking to his post with tears and insisted on completing the work task.
It is reasonable to say that her professional attitude should be praised, but after the public learned of this matter, they scolded her for being cold-blooded and ruthless, and even some people directly scolded: "This person is simply unworthy of being a mother in order to work, regardless of the life and death of his own children!" ”
As a dedicated and excellent host, Li Ruiying, who has maintained a record of zero mistakes for 28 years, her professionalism and dedication are beyond doubt, and even those who scold her have to admire it.
But as a mother, she ignored the feelings of her son who fell from the building at that time in order to work, which not only caused public criticism, but also made her feel guilty about her son ever since.
In fact, in addition to this matter, Li Ruiying has also been criticized by the public for many things in his life, such as applying for retirement in advance at the age of 53, opening training courses after retirement, and so on.
Li Ruiying, who was once active on the CCTV stage, has now passed nearly 8 years since she voluntarily retired, how is she doing?
After insisting on her work and being scolded for being cold-blooded and ruthless, she bluntly said that she would not regret it, is it really as cold-blooded and ruthless as the public said in reality?
One
Born in 1961 in Nanle County, Puyang, Henan Province, Li Ruiying was born in Beijing to a family of high-ranking cadres, and because her father was a soldier, she hoped that Li Ruiying would become a soldier when she grew up, so she was particularly strict from an early age.
Other families treat their daughters as treasures to pamper, but Li Ruiying's father, whether from the perspective of learning or tutoring, requires Li Ruiying to be the best.
Because of his father's strict requirements, Li Ruiying has been a student with the top academic performance in the class since he was a child, and he can take the top few in every exam.
To put it bluntly, in the eyes of the neighbors, Li Ruiying is a particularly excellent kind of "other people's children".
However, when Li Ruiying grew up, he did not become a soldier as his father hoped, but liked literature and art.
After going to middle school, Li Ruiying, who likes literature, slowly became fascinated by various literary books, in addition to daily study, she will indulge in various literary works every day.
Li Ruiying, who insists on reading these literary works every day, has accumulated literary literacy compared with her peers over time, laying a solid foundation for her to become a host of export chapters in the future.
After graduating from high school, before her father arranged for her to join the army, she ran to apply for the Beijing Broadcasting Institute at the instigation of her friends.
Since she was mainly accompanying her friends to the exam, she just came to the exam room with the attitude of trying it out, and when she saw that there were many people queuing up in front of her for the exam, she ran directly to the security booth next to her and slept on the table.
When she woke up confused, she saw an old man sitting next to her wearing reading glasses and reading a newspaper, and she saw that the other party was very difficult to read the newspaper, so she took the newspaper and said to him: "Grandpa, if you want to read that paragraph, I will read it to you, right?" ”
After the old man pointed out to her for a while, she immediately read it smoothly, and before she could speak, the old man said to her: "Little girl, I think you read very well, you can try the Broadcasting Academy, and become a host later." ”
What Li Ruiying did not expect was that in the later broadcast examination, the examiner of the third session was the old man who encouraged her to take the broadcasting college, and this old man was Zhang Song, the old professor of the broadcasting college.
There is no doubt that with his outstanding performance, Li Ruiying successfully passed the exam.
After Li Ruiying's father learned that his daughter was admitted to the Broadcasting Academy, although he originally wanted his daughter to become a soldier like himself, he no longer demanded it after seeing that his daughter had a pursuit.
Two
In 1979, Li Ruiying officially stepped into the school gate of the Beijing Broadcasting Institute and officially began the indissoluble relationship between her and the host's career.
During college, Li Ruiying has been very careful to learn the knowledge of broadcasting, spending a lot of time every day to practice broadcasting skills, and soon became a top student in the broadcasting department.
In addition to studying hard, like most college students, Li Ruiying also gained his love during this period and came together with Fa Xiao Zhang Yuyan.
Zhang Yuyan is a year older than Li Ruiying, and the two not only lived in an alley since childhood, but also accompanied each other from primary school to middle school, and are veritable green plum bamboo horses.
In the year li ruiying entered the Beijing Broadcasting Institute, Zhang Yuyan was also admitted to Peking University, studying economics.
Although the two were not in the same school during their college years, this did not stop them from caring for and attaching to each other, especially after entering the university, the two of them came together after a mutual exchange of hearts.
During college, while studying hard and talking about sweet love with her boyfriend, Li Ruiying lived a very fulfilling life.
Four years passed in the blink of an eye, and Li Ruiying, who had excellent grades, was assigned to work at Nanjing Television, while Zhang Yuyan planned to stay in Beijing to study for graduate school, that is, li Ruiying would face being separated from Zhang Yuyan, who had been with her since childhood, after graduation.
Li Ruiying did not want to be separated from each other in her heart, but she also knew that they all had their own way to go, and she also believed in each other's attachment to this relationship.
After going to Nanjing to work alone, Li Ruiying has been working hard to return to Beijing as soon as possible, and every time she is doing as well as the tasks assigned by the leaders.
With his excellent performance in programs such as "A Flick of a Finger", "Look at this Dynasty", "The Big Family of the Motherland" and so on, Liu Ruiying has not only won the support of the audience, but also been recognized by the industry.
In 1986, through his own continuous efforts, Li Ruiying was successfully transferred back to Beijing and became a teacher at the Beijing Broadcasting Institute.
In the same year, she was also caught by CCTV because of her excellent hosting strength and skills, entered the development of CCTV, and officially began her career as a CCTV host.
Three
Li Ruiying, who is developing better and better, naturally attracts the attention of many people of the opposite sex, and many people throw olive branches at her to express their love to her.
In the face of the stalking of these suitors, Li Ruiying will fight them all back with one sentence every time: "I'm sorry, I have a fiancé!" ”
In the second year of returning to Beijing, although Zhang Yuyan had not yet developed her career at that time, Li Ruiying, who had a sweet relationship with her boyfriend Zhang Yuyan, happily married this man, and soon after the marriage, she also gave birth to their son for Zhang Yuyan.
Unlike most women who focus on the family after marriage, Li Ruiying is still trying to develop her career after marriage.
Just at this time, CCTV needed to send a host to Shanghai for exchange and study, and Li Ruiying, who had not yet established a foothold in CCTV, became this candidate without surprise.
Li Ruiying felt very aggrieved to live a different life with her husband again, but both her husband Zhang Yuyan and her in-laws understood her very well and especially supported her to develop her career.
Her husband also said to her: "You can go with confidence, I will take care of the child." ”
In this way, Li Ruiying once again lived a separate life with her husband for her career.
Because her husband and in-laws were taking care of her son, and her family understood her very well, Li Ruiying almost put all her thoughts on her career after thoroughly figured it out, so she quickly transferred back to Beijing through her own efforts.
In the first few years of entering CCTV, Li Ruiying did not dare to relax for a moment, just to be able to completely gain a foothold on this stage.
With her ups and downs along the way, she not only successfully gained a foothold in CCTV, but also became an excellent host loved by countless viewers.
Four
Seeing that Li Ruiying's various work tasks can be perfectly completed, CCTV also pays more and more attention to her and begins to entrust some important programs to her host.
For example, she served as the Chinese commentator of the gymnastics project at the 1990 Beijing Asian Games, the host of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 1991, and so on.
Li Ruiying, who was entrusted with heavy responsibilities by CCTV, developed better and better in his career and soon became one of the pillars of CCTV.
On January 1, 1996, when CCTV's ace column "News Network" was broadcast live for the first time, after careful consideration by the leaders of CCTV, it was decided to let him and Luo Jing, the brother of CCTV at that time, co-host it.
Li Ruiying and Luo Jing not only co-hosted the show, but also broadcast live for two consecutive weeks, and the cooperation between the two of them in the show became a model for other hosts to broadcast the show for a long time afterwards!
She is particularly dedicated, and in the entire 18 years of hosting the "News Network", she has never made a single mistake, which is the most admirable.
However, during the hosting of the program "News Network", Li Ruiying encountered a lot of troubles, one of which made her feel guilty all her life.
One day in 1998, when she was preparing the script of the "News Network" that was still more than ten minutes away, she suddenly received a call from her mother-in-law.
Li Ruiying thought to herself that her mother-in-law knew that she was working at this time, and if it was not urgent, she would definitely not call, so she ran to the door to answer the phone.
Who knew that after answering the phone, her mother-in-law cried and said to her: "Ruiying, the child has an accident, you hurry back to see, maybe this is the last side." ”
Later, Li Ruiying learned from her mother-in-law that when the child was playing on the window sill at home, he accidentally fell down the building, and when he was sent to the hospital, he was covered in blood and had been unconscious.
After Li Ruiying heard the news of her son's fall from her mother-in-law, she was eager to immediately put down her work and run to the hospital, but before she could take a step, the idea of dedication stopped her.
So we can see that Li Ruiying later calmly and calmly in front of the camera, perfectly presided over the content of this issue of "News Network".
With tears in her eyes, she insisted on her post, and rushed to the hospital as soon as the show ended.
Fortunately, due to the timely delivery of the doctor, the child not only did not appear to be in danger of life, but also did not leave any sequelae after treatment.
Unlike the safety of the child, after this matter was exposed, Li Ruiying was pushed to the cusp of public opinion.
Five
Because Li Ruiying was too dedicated, so that in order to complete the work, when she heard the news of her son falling from the building, she did not take care of it at the first time, and many people who did not understand began to complain about her.
These people said that she was "cold-blooded and ruthless", "only work in her eyes", etc., and even some people said that "she does not deserve to be a mother!" ”
Li Ruiying did not have any response to these criticisms and complaints at that time, but in her heart, she felt a little more guilty about her son.
Later, when recalling the incident in an interview, she herself said: "I am very sorry for the child, he was injured, I was a mother, but I could not go to his side at the first time, I was very derelict in my duties." ”
However, although guilty, Li Ruiying did not regret her choice, she said: "The audience of "News Network" is a national audience, I am a professional host, and I should be more responsible. ”
"In such an urgent situation, if I leave the scene willfully, all my colleagues will suffer, and I can't do it!"
As for not regretting doing so, Li Ruiying's answer was no, she said: "I owe and feel guilty about my son, but I have never regretted it!" ”
After that, Li Ruiying ignored these gossip and has been working hard to develop her career, in addition to the resident "News Network" program, she has hosted many large-scale events and evenings led by CCTV.
In addition to the various achievements and honors she has won in CCTV, she has also won many awards on the stage outside CCTV.
For example, in 2008, he served as the torchbearer of Anyang Station in the Beijing Olympic Torch Relay, and in 2009, he won the title of the seventh "Top Ten Female Masters of China" and so on.
However, no one expected that she, who was particularly dedicated, suddenly chose to retire when her career was in full swing.
Six
In 2014, Li Ruiying, who had hosted the "News Network" for 18 years, when her partner Zhang Hongmin applied for retirement, she was only 53 years old, and she also submitted a retirement application to CCTV in advance!
For Li Ruiying to choose early retirement at the age of 53, everyone is puzzled, after all, as an art practitioner, 53 years old is still a golden age, she should work hard to develop her career.
Therefore, after learning of her decision, the people who had previously complained about her once again attacked her, saying that she should not retire early, etc., and Li Ruiying was angry.
Even her colleague Shui Junyi, who is also a CCTV host, also accused her in an interview at the time, and Shui Junyi said: "She has a very bad start, only more than 50 years old, do you have to retire?" ”
It means that if all the hosts learn from Li Ruiying and retire in their early 50s, what can they do?
For the public's complaints and Shui Junyi's questioning, Li Ruiying did not have any response, but insisted on retiring from the front line of hosting.
Originally, the matter of early retirement caused controversy among the public, and what she did after retirement was once again complained about.
Soon after her retirement, she may have felt that her life after retirement was too comfortable, and after she received an invitation from her alma mater, the Communication University of China, she became a visiting professor at her alma mater, often giving lectures to students.
Because she became a teacher, she also became the object of many people who privately wanted her to teach, and she later opened a training class to teach those who wanted to learn.
This was normal, but in the minds of those who had opinions about her, it became her way of "making money", and these people began to accuse her again.
And Li Ruiying, who was questioned again, is still the same as before, and has not responded too much to all this, but has been engaged in things that he believes that he is not ashamed of.
Seven
Many people who do not understand Li Ruiying think that she began to enjoy life after fading out of the public eye, or to use her fame to make money, but it is not.
After retiring from CCTV, although Li Ruiying started classes, she has been teaching children who really like broadcasting, not to make money.
And many people don't know that Li Ruiying has been using his ability to help people in need for so many years in retirement.
Striving to repay the society, she actively participated in various public welfare activities of the government and non-governmental organizations after retirement, sending care to those who lacked warmth.
She also actively assists poor students, and has raised funds for poor students many times, and the donations raised have accumulated as many as millions of yuan so far!
Now 60-year-old Li Ruiying, has been retired from CCTV for nearly 8 years, in life has been busy, in the end when she is willing to slow down to enjoy life, only she herself knows.
Originally, after retirement, she could spend time with her family and make up for the guilt and regret of neglecting her family for work, but she would rather sacrifice these times in order to do public welfare activities.
In fact, in addition to the identity of a famous host, Li Ruiying is just an ordinary person in life, and she wants to live her own life, she decides for herself.
After all, early retirement is their own business, if possible, who does not want to retire early?
Moreover, she has been doing practical things for the society after she retired, and she has repaid the society with her heart, and the public should not complain about her for this alone!
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