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Life is a short period of decades, there is no shortage of food and clothing, but we are not satisfied with the present, but hope to live a rich life.
There is a saying: "Near Zhu is red, and near ink is black." ”
If you meet a few rich friends, it is naturally indispensable to your benefits.
But where to find rich friends? There is no inscription on anyone's face, which can only be judged by words and deeds.
If you observe carefully, you will find that the following four kinds of people are people who bring their own wealth.
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First, people of high moral character are the desire of all.
There is a story in the "Spring and Autumn of the Lü Dynasty": In the Yue Kingdom, there was a man named Prince Sou who was elected as the "monarch" by everyone, but he did not want to go to his post and fled to a cave.
The people tried their best to find him, burned wormwood, and smoked him out. In desperation, the prince searched out of the cave and became the monarch.
There is a saying in the story: "Only those who do not harm their lives with the world can also support the world." ”
Unwilling to hurt their bodies with the affairs of the state. Such a person is a beloved one.
Treat others with yourself. We will find that a person who cherishes his body and does not value his position will also cherish Li Mincangsheng, and he will "not tolerate it" if he does anything that is harmful to everyone.
"Intolerance" is actually a kind of emotion, a sign of being kind to everything. And those who are cruel can let go of everything, hurt everything, and have no sense of shame.
There is a word called "high moral respect". That is to say, the higher a person's moral quality, the more he will be loved by everyone, so he can occupy a higher position, more resources, and will also become a "benchmark" in everyone's heart.
People-to-people interaction begins with appearance, becomes a career, and finally ends with character. Moral people, with excellent character, will be respected wherever they go, and they are also the objects we follow.
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Second, those who are considerate of others have warmth in their hearts.
The ancients said, "The saints are deeply concerned about the world, and they are not precious in life." ”
"Life" should refer to life and the way of life.
If you deal with others and others block your way to live, the future days will naturally be sad.
People who are truly worthy of friendship will let you go when two people are fighting; when you are in trouble, they will give you a way out; when you make mistakes, they will not step on you hard. After all, in his heart, there is still a little space left for you.
For example, during the Battle of Chibi, Cao Cao returned home from Huarong Province after a great defeat. Halfway through, I met Guan Yu. However, Guan Yu did not kill cao cao completely, but let Cao Cao go. Whether it is remembering old feelings or understanding a depressed person, Guan Yu's approach is noble.
Wealth is not unique to one person, but is shared by all. Those who vigorously step on others to go up are actually blocking the way of others and living alone.
It is said that harmony can make money, and harmony is precious. If you are always aggressive, how can there be harmony? Only by understanding each other can we be harmonious and the truth is always there.
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Third, people who read hard in the cold window have their own temperament.
The poet Du Fu wrote with a stroke of his pen: "Riches and nobility will be obtained from hard work, and boys must read five books." ”
It is said that only by eating bitterly can we be a superior person. But how many people are willing to suffer? There are many people who hope to get something for nothing, and very few people take the initiative to suffer.
Of all the "sufferings," reading is the most bitter, and this "suffering" is to accompany you throughout your life. At the same time, the more you read, the more your temperament will be outstanding, and your ability to achieve great things will be more prominent.
Hou Baolin, a cross-talk actor, did not have much time to go to school, but he had been studying all his life.
Once, he wanted to buy a joke book called "The Waves of Humor", and he traveled a long way, even going to the old book stall, but he still couldn't find it. When he heard that the library had the book, he took a pen and paper with him to copy it. He didn't realize that it was a cold day, and the water outside the window was dripping with ice.
The bitterness of reading is a stepping stone to wealth. As the saying goes, "Fame in one fell swoop is known to the world." "When a reader succeeds, you go to him again, I am afraid that there is a suspicion of inflamation, or in his poor and talented period, care a few times."
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Fourth, people who look down on money are calm in their hearts.
In the Zhuangzi Rang Wang, it is written that there was a man named Yan Yan, who was of high morals, dressed in animal skins, and lived by farming.
At that time, after the monarch of the State of Lu knew the situation, he sent emissaries to send him some money. Yan Yan said to the messenger, "You heard this wrong. If things are not clear, give me the money, you are going to be guilty. ”
Therefore, the messenger went back and confirmed it again to the monarch. When the messenger gave the money to Yan Yan for the second time, he accepted it.
"Therefore, if the Yan Yan is not evil and rich, it is also born of evil", this comment makes the image of Yan Yan become tall.
Many people think that following the side of the prince and general can show off their might; it is impossible to get the love of high-level figures. But such an idea just exposes a person's greedy psychology.
Zeng Guofan once said: "Rich and noble and famous are all prosperous in the world, but the heart is second and bigger is really used." ”
Riches cannot be adulterous. Those who are rich and noble do not pile up with money, but regard money as a necessity of life. Ill-gotten gains, insist on not; no work is not done.
I have not received any ill-gotten gains, so I will sleep steadily, my life will be peaceful, and at any time, I will be full of confidence.
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The poet Lu You said it well: "See all the things that happen in the world, and have never been rich or poor." ”
What is wealth? What is poverty? It's just a state of mind.
When a person has a good family and lives without worry, other things seem superfluous.
People who fall into the circle of wealth and nobility are not rich, and those who regard wealth and nobility as ordinary things are really rich, and they must not be reversed.
On the road of life, making friends with rich and noble people is not only related to "wealth and status", but also with wisdom, pattern, and ideals.
The rest of your life is not long, may you and I, be a person who is in good shape with the wind and rain, not impatient, not responsible or indebted.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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