At any time, no matter what, it is especially important to remain independent.
In today's society, especially in the big city, it is not easy for anyone, especially for families with children.
Depressed
Because of the child's learning problems, sometimes, weighing the pros and cons will make the mother accompany the child at home, so there are more and more housewives, they used to be warriors in the workplace, but at the critical time, they quit their home field and returned to the family, originally thought that it would create a father's kindness and filial piety, the whole family harmonious and happy atmosphere, but the reality is often not satisfactory, because there is no work salary, the family's expenses need money to cope, and the husband's salary is a little inadequate So, he would complain that the money had been spent by his wife.
But in fact, the wife did not spend anything indiscriminately. As a result, there was a gap slowly, and the people who originally said that they wanted to support you began to slowly change their faces.
At this time, I finally understood how important it was to have a job and make some money!
Every girl wants to have a warm home, but the reality is that there are too few destinations after all.
Hold hands
Say to your boyfriend, "I'm anxious because I always think, what can I do?" What do I want to do? What can I do and make a lot of money? I want to find a job that suits me and likes to make some money. ”
He said: There is no need to be anxious, you can enjoy life, have me!
I said, "No, you don't understand, even if you say you will raise me and help me in the future, but there are too many vivid examples in reality." In love, the girl reaches out, the boy gives, is the preference, but, married, it is different, no one will always have patience for a two-way outstretched hand, even if there is, it is too little too little. ”
He said, "You haven't been working all your life. ”
I said, "Yeah, you're not going to go on a lifetime without working, but you know what?" My anxiety now is that I don't understand what I'm going to do, I can't calm down and think, and I don't have the courage to make changes, my own problems, I know, I want to have one to fight, I like, I can struggle to a certain extent, and then think about the problems of having children. ”
distress
No matter how much you say and argue, it will always transform one person's uneasiness into two people's disquilibrium. Anyway, as Yu Hua said, the purpose of struggle is to live a life without being woken up by an alarm clock!
Be independent, work well, one day, we will not be woken up by the alarm clock!