For example, when we find that a person who was stubborn or rigid before suddenly becomes flexible, we will think that this person has grown or transformed.
The source of wisdom is the mind.
No matter when, where, under what kind of situation, or difficult or bumpy, people must not be able to let themselves fall into it and cannot extricate themselves.
So how can you do this well?
The principle is not difficult to understand, that is, "people must know how to balance and adjust their thinking patterns at any time and where, and develop flexible thinking habits." ”
Let your thinking mode "block" the path of your own growth and development, which is something that everyone does not want to see!
So what if it is really "blocked"? The result can only be that the possibility of self-help and the possibility of being saved become very low and very low.
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Although some of the behavioral characteristics of Taurus stars cannot fully reveal the full characteristics of Taurus, some characteristics will be revealed.
For example, the things that broke out some time ago about Xie Na and Zhang Jie, as well as some things that Xie Na broke out before, both of which have a characteristic that they are related to "cutting the door".
In addition, there are good deeds before Fa Ge, and you will find that there is a difference between the two extremes and extremes.
A bold and selfless, a door-cutting drill small eye, in fact, about the taurus door-cutting problem, I have written many times before.
We now look at this matter from a different perspective, people's behavior is sometimes based on habits, but most of the time it is based on thinking patterns.
That is to say, what a person's words and deeds look like depends on what his thinking patterns look like.
For example, if a person's thinking idea is "be generous, the road can be stable", then will he be stingy and cut the door? Basically not, vice versa.
What stands out behind this thinking idea is also a manifestation of personal values, so you can't think that all taurus are slammed, nor can you say that all taurus are as selfless as Fa Ge.
Different Taurus have different performances, and the core logic of Taurus characteristics can also be reflected in the values.
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As an earth sign, it is impossible for Taurus not to be self-conscious, but in the concept of self-awareness, Taurus's self-consciousness is not the strongest, and it can also be said to be moderate, not strong or weak.
Let's take a simple example, the Taurus group can understand the truth, but also willing to listen to the reason, that is like the self-aware people, they will not listen to the reason, the truth you talk about is the wind to them.
You're saying it's a no-brainer, but almost every Taurus has one main characteristic, which is the self-definition of value.
This self-definition of value contains many things, such as the definition of security, the definition of the future, the definition of life, the definition of feelings, and so on.
In other words, you want to change or reverse the self-definition of Taurus's value, which is very difficult, and you are of no use in being reasonable.
The Taurus stubbornness that everyone often says is stubborn here, and there are two details here:
On the one hand, Taurus can convince itself, but on the bad side, Taurus can't convince itself.
For example, for example, if you think you and Taurus are quite suitable, whether you work or conditions, there is no big fuss, and then you two go to contact and get along, and you think that all this should be no problem.
But as long as the Taurus feels that there are some problems between the two of you, then you feel that there is no problem and it will not work, that is to say, as long as the Taurus itself is not at ease and uneasy, then it will be difficult for you two to go down.
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Let's extend along the two details mentioned above, on the good side, the Taurus doesn't need you to do anything, they will execute it themselves, but on the bad side, that is, the Taurus is uneasy, what you say may not have any effect.
This is a core logic, which means that in your actual relationship, taurus will use this logic to measure and judge the things around them.
In some of the ways of uneasiness, Taurus can't convince themselves of peace of mind, and you can't convince them of peace of mind.
So in this case, you will fight or fight, which is what our theme calls the problem of repression.
To put it bluntly, in this aspect of uneasiness, you can't convince the Taurus, it's impossible to reassure the Taurus, so we say that the Taurus is difficult to suppress.
Understanding this logic, let's turn to Taurus' own problem.
After the Taurus suffered some setbacks and failures, or special and more serious experiences, the Taurus was ostensibly easy to get out of, but in fact could not come out.
From the perspective of reason, Taurus will convince itself to develop for the better, so to develop well, you must first clean up the negative influences in your heart.
All they can do is shield with reason.
It is also such a logic that "if you want to live a normal life, if you want to do a good job, you must first let go of those bad ones", but in fact, those bad ones are still bad, they have not disappeared, they are just blocked by the Taurus.
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Then in terms of maintaining normal development and life, Taurus must work hard, such as shielding those negative influences, but this matter is actually very difficult, because it is equivalent to Taurus itself fighting against itself, and then the result must also go in the direction of good.
For example, Taurus and a person talked about love for three years, the next two people broke up, time passed a few months, you ask Taurus are you still sad? He would say not sad, it has passed, is it really over?
No, all he said was that he felt that he had blocked out the negative impact of this incident on him.
So it is not easy for Taurus to resist the psychological tone of the downturn, on the contrary, the difficulty will be increased by themselves.
So when will Taurus deal with those negative effects? That is, after the transformation of the Taurus, the premise of the transformation is that they are better and stronger than before, such as the change of thinking mode, and then the practical points such as higher positions, earn more Q, and live a more stable life.
But these practical things, whichever one they are, take a long time, or some opportunity, to implement.
So in real life, we will find some Taurus seemingly pessimistic but optimistic, seemingly optimistic but pessimistic.
This repetitive psychological tone is testing, torturing themselves, in other words, he himself has not figured it out, and others have no way to help him.
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So how can Taurus help itself? In fact, this matter is not difficult for taurus, especially for taurus who is about to self-awaken.
Taurus is still very good at reflection and thinking, then at this point, as long as Taurus friends are willing to contact or learn new things, study some past examples, summarize the essence of some thinking ideas, then he will slowly communicate.
Although most Taurus are focused on matter, taurus cannot awaken themselves when the material conditions are not yet full.
But this is only one of the limitations, the real limitation lies in the internal, the internal self-transformation and awakening.
That is to say, as long as a golden bull, his thinking and thoughts are not connected to the source of wisdom, then even if his material conditions are full, he cannot let himself be detached.
He will also do something that goes against the wisdom or damages the pattern.
In the end, don't just look at taurus stubbornness, you also have to understand and ponder what the essence of Taurus stubbornness is, only in this way can you guide Taurus out of the stubborn circle.
In fact, many times, the Taurus will not let go of themselves, more or less pretend, because they worry too much, and once the Taurus can let go of themselves in front of you, it means that he has really taken you as his own person.
This is a good judgment, Taurus regardless of male and female, age, let go of their own they are also a child.
Of course, loneliness is not a bad thing for Taurus itself, believe this, because in times of loneliness, your mind will be improved and expanded.
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