Du Changjiang and Dai Jingjing husband and wife two people have been working outside for many years, in fact, people who work outside are waiting for the New Year's Holiday to go home, and this sudden homecoming is also because of a difficult reason.
The couple took a general express train from Shanghai to their hometown of Fuyang.
Husband Du Changjiang heard his wife Dai Jingjing say to him, I went to the bathroom.
This went for a few hours, slowly Du Changjiang happened something wrong, shouted outside the bathroom after a few times no one answered, anxious Du Changjiang found the flight attendant to assist.
When the flight attendants opened the bathroom, they found that the bathroom was empty, and in broad daylight, a large living person disappeared out of thin air.
This incident also attracted the attention of the staff on the train, and after searching the train several times up and down, Du Changjiang's wife Dai Jingjing was still not found.
Just when everyone was anxious, a bad news reached Du Changjiang's ears, and his wife Dai Jingjing found it, but she was already dead.
Following the police, Du Changjiang came to the side of the railway tracks a few kilometers away from Nanjing Station.
After Du Changjiang's inspection, the woman who died was indeed his wife Dai Jingjing.
Du Changjiang obviously did not intend to end his wife's death like this, so he called a lawyer and took the railway company to court, demanding compensation for the compensation costs of his wife's death.
The reason was that he did not believe that his wife had died by jumping out of the window, and that there must have been a safety hazard elsewhere in the train toilet, causing his wife to accidentally fall off the train.
In order to refute Du Changjiang's point of view, the railway company tried the method by example, found a female flight attendant with a similar figure to Dai Jingjing, and personally drilled out of the 12.5 cm window.
It turned out that as long as the head squeezed out of the car window, the whole body easily slid out.
In order to put an end to chance, the railway company hired a male attendant who was a little stronger, and although the experimental process was a little painful, it finally drilled out of the window.
"If passengers want to commit suicide, no matter how well our facilities look, there's no way to stop passengers from committing suicide," the railroad staff said.
In the face of Du Changjiang's questioning, the railway company then asked: "You are her husband, did you not find her abnormal?" ”
Such a sentence can be said to wake up the dreamer with a word.
The couple who have been working diligently and earnestly have neither foreign debts nor enemies, so why did Du Changjiang's wife commit suicide for no reason?
He also committed suicide on the way home.
Such a remark also attracted the attention of the police, and people began to realize that there were too many key messages hidden behind the suicide of Dai Jingjing.
When Du Changjiang was asked about this, he lowered his head and told a secret that was difficult for him to say.
It turned out that the two returned to their hometown this time not to visit their families or change jobs, but because of a fact that Du Changjiang could not accept: his wife Wasjingjing had an affair.
Du Changjiang took his wife home on behalf of Jingjing this time in order to deal with the marriage problems between the two.
After working outside the home for so many years, the couple's relationship also changed from the beginning like glue to cold and indifferent, and then Dai Jingjing had an affair.
At first, Du Changjiang did not know about this matter, or his younger sister accidentally discovered it, and only then did he make everything public.
Dai Jingjing did not dare to face the two old men in the family and his two children.
Du Changjiang himself may not have imagined that his wife paid such a heavy price in order to escape from himself, and originally wanted to keep Dai Jingjing for the sake of his family, but he did not expect Dai Jingjing to bid farewell in this way.
Du Changjiang also has a hint of guilt at the same time, if it is not forced by himself, then the generation of Jingjing may not die, but as long as a person has the heart to leave you, it will also leave.
This incident also teaches a lesson, but such things are not together.
On the evening of May 6, 2018, Liu and his girlfriend Zhang Mou walked to the Zijiang First Bridge one after the other.
After walking for a while, Zhang suddenly stepped on the guardrail of the bridge, grabbed the guardrail with one hand, and pointed at Liu with the other and said: "I don't think clearly." Then he jumped into the Zijiang River.
When he met Liu, Zhang originally had a happy family, had a good relationship with her husband, and the two had a pair of lovely children.
After Zhang and customer Liu met, the two soon developed a lover relationship.
What makes Liu difficult to accept is that Zhang also maintains contact with other members of the opposite sex, which makes him unable to control his inner disgust and argues with Zhang.
After that, Zhang's attitude towards Liu began to become cold.
Then there is the above-mentioned Zhang Mou's river jumping incident.
"I was about two positions away from Zhang, and I thought she was scaring me, so I didn't pull her."
After Zhang jumped off the bridge, Liu said he was "frightened."
The exposure of extramarital affairs and the bitterness of lovers have become the last straw that crushes Zhang's inner defense line. She jumped from the bridge into the fast-flowing Zi River.
In the face of Zhang's extreme emotions, the lover Liu Mou appeared unresponsive, picked up Zhang Mou's bag and walked under the bridge, neither calling for help nor calling the police for a while.
After Zhang's death, her relatives filed a criminal private prosecution on Suspicion of Intentional Homicide by Liu, with a civil lawsuit attached.
In today's society, the relationship between men and women can be said to be extremely complex, some men are obviously in good condition but it is always difficult to find the object of their choice, and those men who are clever and careful are not short of women. It seems that unexpected things always happen in this society.
The most taboo thing in marriage is infidelity.
The maintenance of marriage has a certain relationship with loyalty, which means that how much trust each other has, how high the sense of security in marriage is.
An insecure marriage cannot be sustained, so the loyalty of husband and wife to each other is an important reason for sublimating each other's feelings.
Two years ago, a classmate of my children's parents was in a fight over divorce.
Usually, I didn't see how the two of them quarreled, but after a while I learned that the reason why I suddenly divorced was because the child and her mother cheated.
When the cheating was found, when the man asked for divorce, he couldn't stand it again, didn't want to divorce, didn't let go at all, the two people quarreled in the world, there was no quiet time at all.
In the end, she was divorced, there was no division of property, and she was not allowed to see the children, coupled with the open and secret discussion of the people around her, which made her unbearable, and finally she was insane.
Zhang Jia, 42, has just gone through divorce procedures with her ex-husband. The reason is simple, she cheated.
After signing the divorce agreement, when Zhang Jia went to find the man, the man who said that as long as she was divorced, he would take her to his side and would give her a formal name began to prevaricate.
His face was filled with an attitude of "willing to play with me, then play together, if you want to make me responsible, don't talk" attitude.
Zhang Jia realized that he had never loved himself at all, but was just lusting after his own body.
Zhang Jia then remembered her ex-husband's goodness, in that marriage, the daughter was obedient, and the ex-husband did not treat her financially.
Zhang Jia's mind now is to reunite with her ex-husband, and Zhang Jia still thinks that her ex-husband can look at the child's sake and forgive himself.
But how can a man tolerate such a thing?
When she divorced, Zhang Jia also did everything to the extreme, not only fiercely asking for a large amount of money, but also for her daughter not to drag her hind legs.
He simply gave up custody of his daughter.
Perhaps Zhang Jia at that time also felt that he would be able to give birth to the crystallization of love with the man who cheated.
There are hearts and pleasures in extramarital affairs, but these are short-lived, and most of the time, people in them have to hide these feelings in their hearts and carefully experience them, after all, extramarital affairs can not see the light.
When there is betrayal in marriage, in addition to forgiveness, that is, divorce, it seems that there are only these two choices.
It's just that these two choices are difficult to decide, and most people will fall into another strange circle, that is, they are always in the choice, between forgiveness and divorce, entangled day after day.
Advise those who are about to cheat not to betray their marriages, otherwise, it will not be too late until they truly regret it.
Too many people tell us from their own experience that people who betray their marriages often end up being sad. So, even if you're disappointed with your marriage, don't touch an affair lightly.