Twins are what many families want to have, and even some couples have exhausted various methods to conceive twins, but in the end they have not been able to achieve their wishes.
Although the birth rate of twins has increased in recent years, the overall probability of having twins is relatively low.
Therefore, if anyone has twins, it is really the neighbors who will happily follow each other.
Kai Kai and Xin Xin are twin sisters, and after the birth of the two sisters, the whole family is happy like eating honey. Grandparents are even more flaunting: look, my family's two twin princesses.
Happy in this way under the care of the family, healthy growth. But 4 years later, an incident suddenly broke the warm and happy life of this family.
When he was 4 years old, his sister's heart was accidentally lost, and the whole family went crazy looking for it on the street. The methods of searching for revelations, newspapers, alarms, etc., have been used, but there is still no result.
Since then, my grandparents have rarely laughed again, my parents have washed their faces with tears every day, spent every day in pain and self-blame, and my sister Kai kai has not only become silent, but also mentally confused all day.
Twenty years have passed, Kaikai has grown into a big girl, and has begun to work, but the heart is still the heart disease of the whole family.
Once, Xinxin's colleague inadvertently told her that she had seen a girl who looked very similar to her before, and after hearing it, Xinxin immediately thought of her lost sister, so she inquired about the whereabouts of the girl and found this girl who looked very similar to herself.
After communicating with the girl, Kai Kai learned that the girl was abducted and later adopted by a couple. It also confirmed that she was her lost sister.
Later, after a paternity test, it was confirmed that the girl was his biological sister. The whole family was overjoyed by this result and wanted to take the lost daughter home, but the girl refused on the grounds of repaying her adoptive parents.
In addition to the similarity in appearance to Kaikai, the two have almost completely opposite personalities, not at all like twins.
Although the sisters were born to a mother, they grew up in different environments, received different ways of education, and had very different personalities and behaviors.
Kai Kai, because he grew up living in the shadow of his sister's loss, his personality became withdrawn, he did not like to talk, coupled with the influence of his family, the whole person has always treated life with a negative attitude.
But her heart was different, and she received enough love from her adoptive parents, although she knew that she was not their own child. But she lived happily, and people were sunny and cheerful, positive and optimistic.
Many people think that twins will be more similar in all aspects in addition to appearance, but in fact this is not the case. Twins are also divided into identical twins and fraternal twins.
Identical twins are genetically identical and will be more similar in all respects, but fraternal twins will not be like this.
And even if they are identical twins, the two live in different environments for a long time, and their personalities and behaviors will show great differences.
This also shows that the environment is more important for a person's growth, more critical than who gave birth to it and who raised it.
The matter of openness and heart not only warns parents to take good care of their children and prevent them from being taken advantage of by bad people.
At the same time, it also reminds parents of the importance of the environment to their children's growth: the acquired influence that determines the child's life is far more important than the innate learning.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to the impact of acquired education and family environment on their children, and do not destroy the life of another child because of the loss of one child.