"Zhonghenghua Media International" has now launched the "Around" column, telling the extraordinary stories of ordinary people, looking through the fireworks in the world, perceiving the warmth of human nature, and carrying forward the positive energy of society.
The wisdom of life lies in gradually clarifying and filtering out those impurities that are not important, while retaining the most important parts.
After half a life, through everything, wash away the lead, and slowly understand:
Low-quality life, high-match personality, in order to live a cumbersome life, live out the best state.
Low-ended life
The ancient Greek philosopher Epicorticta once said that happiness in a person's life should come from reducing dependence on foreign things as much as possible.
When people reach middle age, when you have seen the state of life and the state of the world is cold.
Everything we try so hard to get has become the biggest obstacle in life, and we feel that our souls have nowhere to go.
Not happy nor happy. Or happiness is only for a while, happiness is only for a while. It is then filled with the emptiness of the soul.
There is a concept of "paradox of choice" in psychology.
"Happiness means having freedom and choice, but more freedom and choice doesn't lead to greater happiness." Conversely, the more choices there are, the less happiness there will be. ”
When we are young, we are all greedy for material abundance, which is the need of life.
To meet physiological and safety needs. Human nature is understandable, and we encourage youth. Man is self-sufficient and self-satisfied.
Behind it also reveals the excellence of a person's ability. Ability to take care of yourself, but also the ability to take care of your family.
Hold up a heavenly responsibility for your family. This is the most basic responsibility of human nature.
But people reach middle age. Man must learn to subtract from life. Discard the inconsequential things and focus on the true qualities of life --- spiritual life.
High personality
The poet Rilke said, "When the soul loses its temple, rain will drip on the heart." ”
The person who is truly rich in his heart never shows off everything he has,
People with a rich spiritual world do not need to belittle others to elevate themselves, nor do they need external recognition to satisfy vanity.
Ye Shengtao went to teach after becoming famous, and only four words were written in the experience column: "Primary school teacher".
Ji Xianlin called himself a teacher throughout his life: "My job is mainly to climb the grid. ”
When Yang Dai refused to publish the press, he only said with a little humor: "I am just a drop of water, not soapy water, and I can't blow bubbles." ”
I have heard the saying that every piece of wood can become a Buddha, just remove the extra parts.
If the soul is deserted, life will be tacky.
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