In the hearts of many parents, children have just entered the first and second grades, may feel that it does not matter, the time is still early; when the child is in the third and fourth grades, the grades are average, they may also feel that as long as the child works hard, everything is still too late; when the child enters the fifth or sixth grade, facing the pressure of the beginning of the small ascension, this time the child's performance is still not improved, and even lags behind many other children, then the parents may become extremely anxious. However, at this time, if parents want to help their children to have greater improvement and breakthrough, it may be too late. You know what?
If you want your child to have a career in the future, then education has become an important guarantee for children to be able to dominate the thousands of troops in the college entrance examination army. Therefore, parents are paying more and more attention to the education of their children.
However, with the introduction of many policies such as double reduction, college entrance examination diversion, and ordinary occupation ratio, some parents may become more confused about their children's education and future.
The change of policy may change the future life path of many people, which may be a good thing, but it is unknown, and people always have some anxiety about unknown things.
Today's policies have reduced the burden on children, but they have not alleviated parents' worries about their children's future expectations. Because most parents still want their children to embark on the path of college entrance examination. However, now, on the one hand, the cancellation of off-campus training, on the other hand, the implementation of policies such as college entrance examination diversion and ordinary occupation ratio may make many parents' expectations for their children disappointed.
The diversion of the college entrance examination may mean that about 50% of students in the future will not be able to enter the ideal university smoothly, and can only choose to enter the society and enter all walks of life in society. Many parents may have overlooked the benefits of doing so, so many parents become more anxious.
Nowadays, there is no extracurricular training, and children cannot be made up, so if you want your children to continue to enter the university, then family education is more important.
Not only that, parents should strive to do a good job in their children's family education from an early age, starting from the child's primary school stage. Although the learning of the primary school stage is the basic knowledge, but these have laid the foundation for the child's future learning career, the primary school stage not only needs to learn a lot of basic knowledge, lay a solid foundation for the future; more need to cultivate children's good learning habits, work and rest habits, and living habits, so as to better help children in the future learning to gain advantages, which should be reflected in the family education in daily life.
Although the college entrance examination has been implemented today, the child's academic performance can actually be seen from the primary school stage, and there is a trend of diversion. Which year of primary school is the watershed in a child's academic performance?
A primary school homeroom teacher with more than 30 years of teaching experience spoke his heart. New parents may wish to take a good look at it.
In the hearts of homeroom teachers with more than 30 years of teaching experience, the third grade of primary school is the watershed of primary school education. When children are in the third grade, children are prone to various problems both physically and psychologically, which leads to a large gap in children's learning. Children who can adapt well to learning may perform well, while other children who cannot adapt may have plummeted their grades.
If parents do not help their children well and successfully get rid of the third-grade effect, then the child's grades may not be able to improve, and eventually lose self-confidence and become self-abandoned.
Why is the third grade effect? Why is the third grade of primary school a big watershed for children's primary school?
First of all, in the first and second grades, just entering the primary school stage, we don't have too many expectations for the children, but we hope that the children can smoothly transition from kindergarten to primary school. During the first and second grade periods, students have no homework and no exams, and there is no gap between students during this period, and parents do not know the specific situation of their children.
Neither parents nor children have too much anxiety about academic performance, but after the third grade, the children not only have homework, but also begin to have exams, and the gap between children is also manifested. At this time, parents will also know the gap between their children's academic performance, so they will gradually start to worry about their children's achievements.
Secondly, when they first entered the primary school stage, the children's first and second grades were mainly based on mathematics and Chinese, but after the third grade, the main subjects were increased to English. Some schools do not pay attention to English subjects at all in the first and second grades, so many children may have poor English scores after reaching the third grade, which will also cause some anxiety in students.
Third, the first and second grades are mainly based on pinyin literacy, but after the third grade, the language will add an essay. Composition is a very headache for many children. Children's writing ability is weak, and it will also be pulled apart by a large gap.
In addition, because many parents will popularize some knowledge to their children when their children are young, in order to help their children make better transitions, the starting point is good. But because of this, children have just entered primary school, have a certain knowledge base, and when learning, they may not study hard, and they can still achieve better results.
However, as the children reach the third grade, some of the knowledge that the children have learned before has been used up, and then, the children have developed some bad habits such as not listening carefully to the lectures, and at this time, the children have no foundation, and may not be able to understand a lot of knowledge, so they are gradually pulled apart.
How can I help my child get through the third grade?
If you want your child to better spend the third grade effect, the focus of parents' education of children should not only pay attention to teaching children some basic knowledge, but should focus on cultivating children's learning habits and learning attitudes in all aspects.
From the beginning of the child entering the primary school, we should focus on cultivating the child's good learning habits, and after helping the child develop good habits, this is very helpful for the child's future learning, which can benefit the child for a lifetime.
Otherwise, parents overemphasize the importance of knowledge, although they teach their children a lot of knowledge, but they may also let children think that knowledge is too simple when they are in class, and there is no problem in not listening carefully, so that children can develop a lot of bad habits, and eventually lead to poor children's grades step by step. Not only that, but it may also cause children to be bored with school under excessive learning pressure.
At present, the Ministry of Education has explicitly prohibited schools from educating children in advance, which is actually to prevent children from not listening carefully to lectures after early education.
For the sake of our children's future, we can't just stand in front of us and be short-sighted. Educating children on basic knowledge is the responsibility of teachers, and parents should not overstep their bounds to educate children with various knowledge, but should cultivate children's good learning habits and learning attitudes. Help children plan their time correctly and reasonably, and instill the correct concept of learning in their children.
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