Maybe everyone is like an island, in today's noisy world, it seems more comfortable to go alone than to be crowded.
But more people still like the happiness of "three or five friends fighting the sword to go to the end of the world", they are afraid of eating alone, afraid of shopping alone, afraid of watching movies alone, afraid of loneliness and solitude.
Murakami Murakami once said: Whoever likes to be lonely, but does not like disappointment.
I wanted to go shopping for clothes on the weekend, and I asked a few people with anticipation and was rejected; I had a serious cold and wanted to let my friends go to the hospital with me to get a drip, but no one had time; there was a great art exhibition in the city center, and I wanted to find a like-minded person to see it with, but I couldn't find a person who might be willing to accompany me.
Therefore, we can all learn to do such small things as shopping, going to the hospital, and watching art exhibitions in the back; even big things such as picking wedding dresses, buying a house, and traveling long distances can be completed by ourselves.
Everyone grows while disappointed, and gains while losing.
Slowly, you will feel that a person can actually be wonderful, and it is really cool to do a lot of things alone.
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One is very free
Friends who went to school in Beijing did not go home for the New Year because of the epidemic, and completed the experimental task that can only be completed in two or three months in half a month.
Every day when her bedroom was empty, she learned to leave a small lamp for herself before going to sleep. Every day she ate and slept alone, and she slowly went alone to eat barbecue, eat hot pot, watch movies, and go shopping.
On the day of the Lantern Festival, I went to eat hot pot alone, and although I could still feel lonely, I was able to live alone without treating myself badly.
Today I took a leave of absence to buy a very cute plush bag and said very good rua, very decompressed.
No one is suitable for one person, but there is always someone who can make one's life wonderful.
Living alone, don't care what you want to eat at noon, living alone, you can freely arrange your own time, living alone, is an incomparably free soul.
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One is fit to think
It is said that people are impetuous, in fact, the surrounding environment is too impetuous, because compared, we are more likely to become anxious.
I had a friend before, he had a lot of good brothers, and he always ate and drank together and talked about life.
The brother said that he would invest in a catering industry next year, the friend was eager to move on the catering industry, and the other brother said that he was going to get married next year, and the friend began to worry that he did not even have a girlfriend.
Habitually compared to other people, living with other people, we can easily lose ourselves and lose the ability to think for ourselves.
Sometimes it is necessary to properly shield the outside world's voices and find a direction that suits you.
Give yourself a little time alone every day to think about what you really want and what kind of life you are suitable for, instead of following the flow and following in the footsteps of others.
People always have to live their own way, not a copy of others.
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Habitual solitude, a person going to the playground to feel the strong cold wind, the evening moonlight as a slight companion, the world seems to have only their own running and breathing sounds.
Habitually alone, a person goes to the library to find the book he wants, sits behind a bookshelf, slowly turns the pages, and has long been immersed in the sea of books.
Habitual solitude, going out to eat alone at noon, going straight to your favorite restaurant to order your favorite meal, eating fast or slow, and enjoying your own rhythm of lunch.
Not afraid to be alone and enjoy a great time alone.
—About the Author—
Wen Qing, who writes with heart, loves photography
If words can bring a little thought, accompany you through the long years