I never imagined that one day, I would see a live death.
A net red blogger from Hunan, "Luo Kitten and Cat", committed suicide a few days ago.
With more than 700,000 fans, she drank pesticides during the live broadcast and died in vain.
The loss of young life is already regrettable.
What is even more unacceptable is that this is a complete tragedy.
On the day of the suicide, she updated the last video, confessing that she had been depressed for a long time and was hospitalized for two months.
Subsequently, she opened a live broadcast to say goodbye to fans.
A person who really wants to commit suicide, will not open the live broadcast, she is calling for help.
She has the desire to die, but she also has the desire to live. All this is just telling others: I am sick, help me, pull me.
But when she held the drink mixed with pesticides, what she saw was this statement:
"Drink it!"
"It can't be urine in the bottle, right?"
"Drink what you want."
These coaxing sounds, like pushers, mixed with great malice, pushed her crumbling on the edge of the cliff into the endless abyss.
Without hesitation, she looked up and drank the liquid from the bottle.
After that, she strangled her neck in pain, and her expression was very uncomfortable.
The booers in the live broadcast room, with indifference that does not care about themselves, jointly kill a life.
Her friend said in an interview that she did not really want to kill herself, otherwise she would not dilute the pesticide with a drink, and she would not call the 120 emergency number after drinking it.
She drank the pesticide with arrogance and gambling.
It is not an exaggeration to say that it was a murder.
Some people say that the Internet is true or false, how do I know if she is a show?
But once a person is put on a shelf, it is difficult to get down.
People who hover on the brink of life and death will lose hope for life because of malice.
People who do not want to commit suicide, under coaxing and instigation, will end their lives on impulse.
After she drank the pesticide, a shocking comment:
Hahaha really drunk!
I can even imagine this person behind the phone, with a contented and vicious smile, looking at himself with three words and two words, and killing a life.
She was begging for help, but someone wanted her to die.
Those words were like a sharp knife, pierced to those who asked them for help.
She died, falling under the malice of the spectators.
They will not grieve for her passing. After watching her death, they dispersed like a tide and joined the crowd.
Only the desperate remained.
In social psychology, there is a word called "bystander indifference."
That is, when an emergency occurs, many onlookers treat each other coldly, and what everyone should be in charge of has become unmanaged, and even instigated.
Remember Wu Yongning, who fell from the building at the limit challenge?
For the first time, he posted a video of his high-altitude adventure online and received unexpected attention.
In the comment area, the comments of "Niu X", "666", and "The Courage of the Artist" gave him a dose of fierce medicine to the obscure.
The conditions of the crowd forced him to fight with his life again and again to carry out more dangerous challenges.
It was a "death crowdfunding."
"Can you climb higher?"
"Next time climb xx building!"
They pursue curiosity and excitement, and even love to watch the scene of Wu Yongning's loss of hand.
The video he gets the most attention from is his experience of nearly falling off a cliff.
No one told him to stop, and under the revelry of the onlookers, Wu Yongning boarded a high-speed train bound for death.
Death finally came to the door. During a high-altitude challenge, he was physically exhausted and unfortunately fell to his death.
From a legal point of view, it was he who killed Yongning.
From the human and moral level, every person who watches and coaxes is a "murderer".
It is not difficult to remind Wu Yongning in good faith to take safety measures and not to tip for such dangerous live broadcasts.
But the people hiding behind the screen didn't, and they kept applauding his dangerous behavior, as if they wanted to see him have an accident so that they could witness a live death.
The reason for this is that they think that the lives of others have nothing to do with themselves.
They treat the suffering of others as a show, from which they derive curiosity and satisfaction.
At the beginning of this year, a woman in Henan committed suicide by jumping into a river.
In the crowd of onlookers, an angry scene appeared.
A man recorded the scene with his mobile phone, shooting it while shouting "You're jumping, what are you waiting for?"
The woman was provoked and jumped directly off the bridge and fell into the water.
But the instinct to survive still made her struggle for help.
After witnessing all this, the man actually said:
This woman can water!
In the tone, there was a strong sense of disappointment.
It is necessary to see a life from struggle to death in order to satisfy his dark psychology.
As for how the woman's family would grieve, he didn't care at all.
There is no sympathy and kindness for life, only indifferent gaze and cruel encouragement, the evil of human nature, which is frightening.
One study showed that the duration of impulsivity in impulsive suicides is 13 seconds, and if they survive these 13 seconds, most of them will give up suicidal flashes.
At this time, the language of the onlookers can almost determine a person's life and death.
Previously, a 20-year-old boy committed suicide by burning charcoal on Weibo.
In the process of charcoal burning, he obviously had attachment to the human world, and wrote such a message: I am not dead, can I?
The comments section was filled with vicious words such as "No, no" and "you don't die wasting my traffic", which snuffed out his hope of final life.
A warm word could save him, but they killed him.
I am saddened not only by the loss of young lives, but also by the powerlessness of them who could have been rescued but ruthlessly extinguished.
The Ragtag Group writes that once an individual becomes a member of a group, he is no longer responsible for what he does, and everyone reveals his unfettered side.
The evil of the onlookers lies in the fact that they do not know their own evil and can kill people.
In Hunan, there was a suicide incident of a family of three.
Before the tragedy, Weibo user @Fitto posted a suicide note on Weibo, saying that the family owed a huge amount of usury and "would go to that place with my parents."
Tens of thousands of netizens forwarded Weibo, calling the police according to the clues in the suicide note, and trying to prevent the tragedy from happening.
Soon, the police at the police station rescued a family of three who tried to commit suicide.
@Fitto reported ping an on Weibo: I love this world because there are still you in the world.
This story, instead of ending here, slid into an uncontrollable situation.
Some people have pulled out that although they are in debt, their daily consumption is not poor. And the girl also revealed her address in the suicide note, which is obviously a self-directed scam.
Soon, a flood of insults ensued.
A family that had just been rescued from the brink of death collapsed.
10 days after being rescued, they committed suicide in the high-speed service area, killing two people and injuring one.
The family of three, who had been rescued by strangers' remarks, eventually fell under the verbal criticism.
How ironic is that?
Those who watched the evil words have countless plausible reasons:
"I'm just commenting, how are they so vulnerable?"
"Am I honestly wrong?"
They don't necessarily want people to die, but the ultimate direction is death.
This kind of speculative remarks are often pronounced in our mouths inadvertently.
I once saw a test.
The program team invited a few people to read the text like this:
"I loved a teenager for 1574 days, of which 27 days were noisy, 825 days were waited, and now I don't even have the opportunity to wait."
"I didn't eat dinner, I worked overtime until a little, and when I got home, I was dizzy, so I hope that someone can see through my heart, understand my feelings, and accompany me without abandonment."
"I often cried for hours on end, crying until my hands and feet were numb, and sometimes I was like no one else..."
When reading "Love a Teenager", the men who were tested were overjoyed and felt ashamed to continue reading.
It wasn't just him, everyone laughed.
Then they began to comment casually:
"Too young to look like you haven't experienced life."
"It's written by a single dog."
"People are so precocious now!"
But the next scene made them all fall silent.
The smiling man read: "When you see this Weibo, I am gone, I survived 1584 days, and finally ended in the early morning of this morning..."
His expression was very solemn, and the cards read by the testers behind him, without exception, were the words left by others before they died.
I thought it was a story of "social death", but I didn't expect it to be the last distress signal sent by others to the world.
As a result, in the eyes of people who don't know, it has become "pretentious", "funny", and "not a big deal".
Human sorrow and joy are not connected.
How many times have they heard similar comments, and finally their hearts are dead?
We'll never know.
When you want to speak, remember that you are dealing with a living person.
Your thoughts in an instant may determine the direction of a life.
The distance between good and evil is often only a piece of paper.
Don't laugh at those who are on the verge of collapse, casual speculation and indifferent onlookers will only push them to the bottom.
Everyone has darkest moments in their lives.
Some were silent, some were crying for help.
When they are in trouble, even if we can't do professional assistance, we still have something to do.
Someone standing on a tall building can at least shout "don't jump."
Someone who has a light idea on the Internet can at least tell him to "live well".
These tiny gestures of kindness sometimes have the power to save a person.
Don't underestimate the power of language.
Indifferent spectators, from ancient times to the present.
But what we need is always people with good intentions.
May you and I be unashamed when faced with the choice between good and evil. When someone else needs it most, you'll be the one who can pull him along.
Source: Table's outlook on life
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