Can people who have experienced love runs together have a perfect ending?
This is a concern for many people.
Yesterday afternoon, Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen posted their marriage certificates on Weibo, and finally officially announced their marriage.
Why say "finally"?
Because from being together to today, the two of them have been in love for 9 years.
In these nine long years, frankly, many people have even begun to have no expectations of them; and from the clues, they have predicted the end of their possible breakup.
It also made many people start to question, will Du Haitao be the next Ji Lingchen?
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Is it just about taking what you need?
The nine-year love run was finally completed, and many artists and netizens sent their blessings.
In addition to the blessings commented on Weibo, there are also a lot of ridicule.
"The male protagonist is not red, remember to get married, afraid that the girl will dump him??"
"It took so long to get it, love it!"
"Well, get married without a job, and don't pretend to love much!"
These unpopular voices have not appeared for the first time.
In the entertainment industry, they are probably the most frequently rumored couples who break up.
When Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen were just together, no one was optimistic about this relationship at all.
In 2013, when the two announced their love, most people's first feeling was that they took what they needed, not true love.
What's more, comparing them to "Beauty and the Beast" has led to a lot of unfriendly speculation:
Some people say: Haitao can't catch up with Wu Xin before he retreats to the second place.
Some people also said: Shen Mengchen is just thinking about fire, binding Haitao speculation.
Even last year, there were many revelations, saying that the two were not in harmony and that Du Haitao did not want to get married.
It seems that in any way, they are not a match made in heaven.
When the doubts were the most serious, the two could not bear the pressure and had broken up in the middle.
That breakup was initiated by Du Haitao. He hopes that Shen Mengchen will no longer be attacked by the network because of his relationship.
After deciding to break up, for three months, none of them were in touch.
However, two people in love can say that they can divide.
During that time, Shen Mengchen suffered from anorexia and lost weight to a record low of more than 90 pounds.
When mentioning this matter on the show, Shen Mengchen still couldn't help his inner grievances and said to Du Haitao:
"I'm so miserable, I can't eat anything, I have anorexia psychosis, you know?"
Du Haitao's eyes were also moist, and he felt remorse and guilt for this incident:
"I don't want her to suffer so much, she shouldn't have suffered so much."
But fortunately, although the two people have experienced these tribulations, they finally came together.
It is such a couple who are not optimistic, step by step to live love into a fairy tale, and live a life into an idol drama.
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No one could have imagined that in the variety show "Daughters in Love", the daily interaction between the two was a large-scale dog food scene.
Du Haitao's kindness to Shen Mengchen made many people look at him with surprise and gradually bumped their CP.
Anyone who has watched this show knows that Du Haitao treated Shen Mengchen as Shen Mengchen said on Weibo: "When I met you, I became a small gongju. ”
They call each other "obedient."
At this year's New Year's Eve party, at the moment of counting down to zero, Du Haitao crossed the host and the star group, ran to Shen Mengchen's ear and said "obedient, happy new year", really to be melted by their sweetness.
As soon as the two met, Haitao immediately hugged Shen Mengchen, who was afraid of cold, into his arms, and constantly encouraged her between words.
Whether at home or at work, as long as he is around, Du Haitao prepares warm water for Shen Mengchen every day.
When getting out of the car, Du Haitao will always help her open the car door and protect her head to prevent injury.
Once, the two could only get together at the airport for 5 minutes, and Du Haitao was stunned to take advantage of this gap to meet Shen Mengchen and accidentally fell down on the way.
In addition to being considerate in life, when Shen Mengchen needs support and encouragement the most, Du Haitao will always be around, silently comforting her and giving her the courage and motivation to persevere.
When Shen Mengchen is unhappy, he will try his best to make her happy, without hesitation, encourage her, praise her, support her...
However, every relationship requires two people to go in both directions.
In the daily life of getting along, why didn't Shen Mengchen carefully love Du Haitao?
Du Haitao, who is chubby in the eyes of others, is always told by others to lose weight, but in Shen Mengchen's eyes, he is the most adorable man.
She would hold Du Haitao's face and say: "Promise me to be obedient, don't lose weight, fat and cute, thin will be left ugly."
Every move of Du Haitao, she will immediately say thank you and obediently; when interviewed, Shen Mengchen is always praising Du Haitao, he is particularly good, and there are many advantages...
Du Haitao chose the official announcement at 18:13, which was Shen Mengchen's birthday.
Perhaps, it is these details that can be personally felt by both sides that can make the relationship between the two fearlessly go forward for nine years.
For 9 years, the two have been "obedient" to each other.
Liao Yimei said: "We are all very lonely, encounter love, encounter sex, it is not rare, what is rare is to meet understanding." ”
They are like two scarred people who meet on earth, heal and understand each other.
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Love long-distance running, is there a secret to success?
Some time ago, in a talk show "Listen to My Sister", Shen Mengchen revealed that her biggest trouble was being urged to marry:
"You may be urged to marry by your parents and relatives."
"But I am urged by my parents, relatives, friends, audiences, netizens, day and night..."
"Do we still need to witness? No, we just need to get a permit. ”
As we all know, if two people have been together for many years and have not been able to get married, then the end of the love run seems to have only one way to break up.
Because on the road to marriage, some people have been looking forward to preparing for the future, and some people are planning to leave.
Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen have also faced the stage of marriage promotion on the whole network.
During the recording of the variety show "Dear Inn", Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen had a conflict, and Liu Tao asked Ji Lingchen when he planned to get married?
Ji Lingchen was vague and did not answer the call.
Liu Tao hugged her unevenly and told Ji Lingchen that some girls waited and ran, "Before she was 30 years old, you didn't propose marriage, and after she was 30 years old, she really didn't want to marry you."
Ji Lingchen immediately said that he would definitely propose to marry Kan Qingzi before she was 30 years old.
However, Que Qingzi waited for a "you like the sea, I loved you" breakup statement, which made people sigh.
Even Hu Xing'er Huang Zongze, the couple who had been in love for eight years, could not escape such a spell.
The love is separated by mountains and seas, mountains and seas can also be flat, and difficult peace is the human heart.
The most taboo to get married is to drag and consume, often it is to consume the freshness is gone, and the impulse to get married is gone.
In feelings, it is more terrible than accepting the end, the resultless wait.
People who really want to marry you will also give you a home no matter what.
In Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao, we see:
In addition to feelings, it is also important to take responsibility.
In fact, the most important thing that is needed is not the judgment of time, but how the parties choose and how to maintain.
On the road of two-way travel, they are very grateful to each other and have not disappointed themselves.
I hope that every imperfect person can find the perfect fit for their other half.