On the road to chasing our dreams, we are often reminded to "aim high", but today, I want to tell you a more core secret - that is, "pattern determines destiny". Not all dreams can be turned into reality, but an open pattern can allow your dreams to have infinite possibilities.
Imagine you're standing on a giant stage, surrounded by colorful lights and endless auditoriums. Your dream is to show your most dazzling self on this stage. However, do you realize that the boundaries of this stage are actually determined by your pattern?
Pattern, it is not only the boundary of your vision and cognition, but also your attitude and way of dealing with life and facing challenges. A person with a big picture has no boundaries in their hearts, their minds flow freely like a river, and their actions are as unrestrained as the wind. They dare to chase their dreams and face failure because they know that every attempt is an opportunity to grow.
On the contrary, a person with a small pattern is confined to a small circle of thinking, and their actions are confined to a given framework. They are afraid of the unknown, of change, because they feel that once they step out of that circle, they will lose their sense of security. However, it is this fear of the unknown and resistance to change that makes them miss countless opportunities and limit their heights in life.
So, how do you expand your landscape? The answer is not overnight, but we can start from the following aspects:
First, be curious. Be curious about the world and have a desire to explore the unknown. Only by continuous learning and accumulation can we broaden our horizons and improve our cognition.
Second, dare to challenge yourself. Don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of being ridiculed. Every attempt is an opportunity to grow, and every failure is a learning experience. Only by daring to challenge ourselves can we break through our limits and realize our dreams.
Finally, keep an open mind. Don't be stubborn, don't reject new ideas and concepts. Only by keeping an open mind can we be receptive to new knowledge and information and better adapt to this changing world.
It is not an easy thing to expand the pattern, but as long as we are willing to work hard and continue to learn and grow, we will be able to have a broader vision and a broader stage of life.
Let's start from now on, and strive to improve our own pattern! Let our dreams no longer be confined to a small circle, but be able to fly freely on this broad stage!