No matter what scene a person encounters, he needs to keep his heart quiet and accept the gift of fate. Everything is the best arrangement, everything is the best practice of oneself. Life is like this, either this is not smooth, or that is not smooth.
When we like a person very much, we will find that the closer we are to the other person, the stronger the inner uneasiness will be. That kind of worry, that kind of caution, that kind of gain and loss, will manifest itself on the psychological level, and even make yourself feel that this is wrong? In fact, life is such a process, we all need to accept and enjoy.
We see that some people are living in a good state, but maybe it is also a chicken feather behind it? No one is perfect, everyone has their own mission, everyone has their own strength, everyone has their own life value. We don't have to let ourselves always feel like this or that's not going to work.
When we make a person unhappy, we will think: where is this to make the other person unhappy? Why is the other party unhappy? What is the other party angry with us? Thinking about this and that, I ended up going around myself. It makes everyone unhappy. Life is inevitably full of all kinds of unhappiness, but don't let yourself suddenly feel a kind of sadness.
What is life? Life is a journey, from this point to that point, in between, you build your own life value.
A person is always looking forward to being able to harvest fully and become the look of liking and envy in the eyes of others, so that there will be a special face, but there are always those who are not willing to make them feel very depressed. There's always a little bit that makes you feel something is wrong. What's behind all the comparisons? It's your own jealousy.
When a person is jealous, he will be very unhappy inside, and this unhappiness will make him feel that this is simply a shame for himself. Life is the pursuit of happiness and self-confidence, but it is really a difficult thing to find that a lot of happiness and self-confidence have not been experienced for a long time.
I believe that everyone has such an experience: when you find that you are always paying attention to yourself and many things that have not been satisfied, your inner world will begin to become restless, and even make yourself feel that life is too boring. A boring life will always make you feel that the world is too bad.
But the next moment someone tells you: One of your wishes has come true. When I heard these words, my inner world began to become happy, and I even felt that everything was so beautiful, everything was so enviable. This is a process, this is a process that makes you feel full of the value of life.
So, sometimes I wonder: Why do the client's psychological problems arise? What is the reason behind this? Why can't visitors experience the joy of life? Why do clients always feel like they are victims? Why is there such a deviation in the client's cognition? What's behind all this?
When you continue to think about these questions, you are actually thinking from the perspective of the visitor. Every counselor is constantly trying to break through themselves, and there are even many things that need to be experienced by themselves. On the road of pursuing ourselves, we have always felt that we must continue to improve, continue to learn, and continue to make progress.
Every day's state of life is a new day for yourself, and in a new day, you can fully tap your subconscious. Where is man's talent? It is when doing this that you are happy and happy, and you are happy. At that moment, I was very happy.