As the saying goes, a woman's heart is a needle in the sea
Many men have made great efforts in order to get the woman they love. However, there are very few people who finally get what they want, some people have never received the woman's heart, and some of them have gained and lost, like a bunch of sand lost between the fingers, no matter how hard they try to hold it, but they are not satisfied.
It's not hard to grab her heart. Women are sensitive and sensual, which many men don't see and don't pay attention to.
In fact, if men want to grasp a woman's heart, it is actually easier and simpler than a woman to tie a man's heart, because women are sensual, and men do not have this feature, most men do not have a brain, only have the lower body thinking.
Regardless of the above, men are also braver and purer than women in the pursuit of love, but these alone are not enough. As a man, if you really want to grasp the heart of the person you love, as long as you do the following three points.
What women want is not much, but can you do it all?
01, give her enough sense of security
In my eyes, the three words of security are like a beacon standing on the coast, and its light guides your love boat to the other side of happiness safely.
In relationships, the woman has always been out of the weak side, and she is more insecure than the man.
For example, a man only says that he loves a woman, but he has not used practical actions to prove his vows for a long time, or while saying that he loves this woman, he is entangled with other women, and ask how many women are willing to accept such a man, let alone give their hearts to this man.
Remember that there is no shortage of people with brains in the world, women also have their own judgment, and only when you treat her sincerely and give her enough security will she give her heart to you without scruples.
If you lack such a good medicine in your feelings, it can only mean that your feelings are just a theatrical performance in the end, delaying each other's youth, and being irresponsible for yourself.
02, respect her
Dale Carnegie once said: If you want to be respected by others, you must first respect others
This maxim is adapted not only to interpersonal interactions, but also to love and marriage.
Many men don't actually respect women enough, and a man who doesn't respect women is not only shameful, he won't get the heart of any woman.
Respect is a prerequisite for loving a person, and for women, following a man with a dead heart, respect is indispensable. If you can't give her even the most basic respect, no matter how much honey you put on your mouth, a slightly more normal woman will not give up her heart in a confused way.
Women are very sensitive in their feelings, if she can't feel your care, your respect, your love, even if her love for you has not dissipated, she will decisively let go of your peace.
Women are weak and intelligent at the same time, and they know that only those who truly love her will give her enough respect. If the respect is not talked about love, how can it be said to grasp her heart?
03, love needs to be careful
I believe that many men, have had such an experience, from time to time by women to ask whether they love her, every three or five will ask, even every day to ask, presumably most men in such a questioning at first is happy and sweet, but over time began to get bored and tired.
Remember, don't breed any impatience, this is a kind of test for a woman, and it is also that she can't feel your love, and will ask and argue over and over again whether you have always loved her and have not changed.
If you are really impatient, but you love her in your heart, then you have to change so that she can feel your love, rather than her repeated questions to determine your love.
She often asks questions to prove a lack of security, or whether your love for her is not as careful as it used to be, more perfunctory. If that's the case for you. If you don't change yet, then sooner or later she will leave.
Not many women will be with a man who does not love herself, whether a man is attentive to her, she can feel it, even if she does not say it, her heart is more thorough than anyone.
Grasping a woman's heart is very simple, the intention is good, this so-called intention is sincere and unpretentious, not a whim, or after getting it can be perfunctory.
Love someone to give her all you, women want to be very simple, as long as you really love her, really treat her, she must be able to feel. There is no shortcut to love, send your love, pay your true heart and enough kindness, and finally love with all your heart, the woman's heart will fall into your hands sooner or later!