There are billions of people in this world, naturally there are people with what personality and what temper, some people have strong empathy ability, it is easy to appreciate the difficulties of others, can see the difficulties of others, and then try to understand or forgive others, and some people are naturally more indifferent, except for those who are very close to him, such as his own son, others can not go into his heart, how the suffering of others does not matter to him, all choose to ignore, Even if this person has entered their family's household registration book, even if this person has become his family, he still maintains such an attitude, after all, even if it is a relative, there are also relatives who are distant and close, but such a personality will definitely bring a lot of shock to this family.
There are some mothers-in-law who have always regarded their daughter-in-law as an outsider, but they will not treat her with the same polite attitude as outsiders, but try their best to make things difficult, even when the daughter-in-law is confined, they will still choose a perfunctory attitude to treat, even if the daughter-in-law has gone through the ghost gate for this family, people always say that the beams formed during the confinement, a woman will remember for life, this sentence is very reasonable, after all, this is a woman's most vulnerable, When they need to be taken care of the most, it is not appropriate to settle the knot, and people must also bear the price for their past actions.
Liang Yu originally did not deal with his mother-in-law much, even if there was a husband in the middle who kept mediating, but there were some resentments that could not be revealed in one or two sentences, especially during Liang Yu's confinement period, the mother-in-law did not even bother to cook, and the egg and root intestines in the noodles were considered luxurious, this matter Liang Yu has always kept in mind, until the mother-in-law is sick, and she also needs her daughter-in-law to take care of it.
01. There was a contradiction with the mother-in-law at the beginning.
Liang Yu counted the time he had been married to Wan Feng's family for 10 years, and in the past 10 years, the two people had quarreled, whether they were angry or not, no matter how fierce the quarrel, the two people had never proposed a divorce, and they all knew in their hearts that they could not do without each other, so no matter how the divorce was impossible, so liang Yu's few reasons for the idea of divorce were because of her difficult mother-in-law.
When Liang Yu just got married, the mother-in-law did something extremely difficult for her to accept, according to their local customs, the 3rd day after marriage to return to the door, the mother-in-law quietly replaced the things they prepared in advance, shoddy, for this liang Yu's parents also specially called, asking Liang Yu whether Liang Yu was wronged in Wanfeng's home, and has been enlightening her, let her not choose to be patient because she loves Wanfeng too much, Liang Yu feels that these words of her parents come inexplicably, when they first saw Wanfeng, It is also extremely satisfied, the parents heard that the daughter did not know what happened, in order not to add trouble to her, in the end still did not choose to say it, Liang Yu later or in the mouth of his brother, knew what happened, Liang Yu felt that the mother-in-law's approach is very bad, even if it hurts money, it can not be like this, she has always said something, but the mother-in-law said of her in turn: "You see, just married over will give me this mother-in-law is the face, then what to do after that, Wan Feng good management of your daughter-in-law, Teach her what rules are. ”
The mother-in-law has been saying that Liang Yu is not good, has been avoiding his own impolite behavior, the two people had a big fight, the mother-in-law even said that since Liang Yu is married to the person in their family, it has nothing to do with her previous home, honestly stay in this home, don't always run outside, be a rule-abiding person.
Liang Yu was shocked by such words, blood relations in the mother-in-law's words is so easy to cut off, Liang Yu loves his home very much, but also according to reason, but simply can not withstand the mother-in-law's nonsense, in the end of course, Wan Feng took on everything, to coax two women, and bought gifts to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Wan Feng has done his best, unfortunately the results are very small, the two women are still intolerable, especially when Liang Yu is confined.
02. Confinement feud is something that cannot be forgotten for a lifetime.
Liang Yu in pregnancy spicy sour all want to eat, she has always felt that she may be pregnant with twins, did not expect that it is true, children and daughters, Liang Yu has been very happy, and later because of the improper fetal position, Liang Yu suffered the crime of the boss when giving birth to the child, after coming out of the operating room, has been telling Wan Feng that she must be good to her in the future, otherwise I am sorry for her sacrifice today, but the mother-in-law said that you are not made of gold, what do you do in this way, and now people are really not as good as before. Liang Yu, who had just given birth to a child, did not have the strength to argue with him.
Originally Wan Feng was ready to take leave to take care of Liang Yu and the child at home, but the company suddenly sent him on a business trip, or designated, Liang Yu let Wan Feng not delay the work, Wan Feng also entrusted Liang Yu to his mother, before leaving also stressed that Liang Yu is now weak, must be a good supplement to nutrition, of course, the two children can not be delayed, Wan Feng said not to directly ask a month sister-in-law, was rejected by the mother-in-law.
But the mother-in-law does not want to take good care of Liang Yu, Liang Yu still has to wash his own clothes, there is no saying that he can't catch a cold during confinement, this is an excuse to shirk his responsibility, he can do what he can do, don't expect her. The rice made by the mother-in-law is not salty to death or there is no taste at all, but also said that she herself is old, do not want to eat on their own, sometimes a pack of instant noodles to send the past, Wan Feng called the money, all to the mother-in-law, a day to Liang Yuhua 20, Liang Yu felt that the child should eat breast milk, if she is malnourished for the child is not good, the mother-in-law will add an egg to it, Wan Feng has come back once in the middle, the time was notified in advance, the mother-in-law immediately made a big table of good dishes, the mother-in-law's approach made Liang Yu feel very uncomfortable, She also told Wan Feng that Wan Feng was busy again, but after Wan Feng left, how should her mother-in-law be, and even wanted to confiscate Liang Yu's mobile phone, Liang Yu directly let his brother drive himself and his two children back to his mother's house, the consequences of this practice can be imagined, the mother-in-law began to chatter again, let Liang Yu herself think about which family she is in now.
03. The mother-in-law panicked.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law two people have been intolerable, Wan Feng's biggest headache is the matter of the two of them, there is a saying in this world called heavenly good reincarnation, Yuezi Qiu Liangyu has always been firmly remembered in his heart, so he has never given his mother-in-law any good looks, and it just so happens that the mother-in-law is sick again, just to the day when Wan Feng is constantly traveling, the family is left with her and her mother-in-law, Wan Feng knows that these two people can't get along, and before leaving, he specially emphasized: "My mother is sick, you serve well." "Rest assured, I will eat what she eats during confinement, and I will take good care of my mother-in-law." The mother-in-law listened to this and began to panic, Liang Yu of course put how the mother-in-law was to her, with the same process as it was, returned it unchanged, if the mother-in-law dared to complain, Liang Yu used the mother-in-law's own words to block his mouth, the evil breath in Liang Yu's heart finally came out, not to mention how happy, the mother-in-law because of her illness, has also been falling below, the son is not by his side, can only endure, Liang Yu of course also thought about how to deal with his husband.
Others are hard to add to your home, of course, with enough sincerity, sincerely want to be a family with you, especially a daughter-in-law, they tend to be more careful, because everything here is actually strange to her, she needs to start a new family from scratch, the first thing to do is to be good, of course, I hope that every mother-in-law can appreciate the difficulties of this time of daughter-in-law, after all, they have also had such an experience, Knowing how deep a bad mother-in-law can leave a shadow, women should have better realized the difficulty of women, not in turn to let themselves become the exploiter, let themselves become the most disgusted look.
So to learn to be considerate of others, this is the real way for a family, is the best way to let the family embark on the ultimate happiness, open the towel lamp towel also to remove.