"Do you mind that Alyssa Jia once had a marriage and had children?"
"I don't mind, that's part of her life, love her, love her all." 」
This is Xiu Jiekai's affectionate confession to Jia Jingwen in the face of doubt.
On November 17, 2018, Xiu Jiekai and Jia Jingwen held a wedding in Bali, which was simple, without excessive decoration and without such grandeur.
Only some relatives and friends and their three daughters witnessed their happiness.
Xiu Jiekai healed Jia Jingwen's frosted heart and spoiled her into a little girl who did not understand the world.
Jia Jingwen also gave birth to two lovely daughters for Xiu Jiekai, who became a knight of their family and guarded the four princesses in the family.
Some people say that great love is not the icing on the cake, but the charcoal in the snow, not to enjoy the glory and wealth together, but to keep you from the trough and pull you up from the abyss.
If Jia Jingwen had not met Xiu Jiekai, perhaps today's Jia Jingwen would be another state of life.....
1.
Ms. Jia originally had superior family conditions, and her father opened a restaurant in Taiwan called "Tianjin Wei".
The sound of this restaurant was very hot at that time, and very popular stars had eaten there, so Jia Jingwen had added film and television celebrities like Lin Qingxia and Jackie Chan since she was a child.
Jia Jingwen's appearance is recognized, once said that Taiwan's beautiful women, Lin Chiling above 1 meter 7 is the most beautiful, and Jia Jingwen below 1 meter 7 is the best looking.
Jia Jingwen has a strong interest in acting since she was a child, and her cheerful personality is very likable.
Her neighbors persuaded her parents to send her to act, but her parents refused their kindness on the grounds that the family conditions were ok.
At that time, Jia Jingwen should study abroad according to her parents' wishes and become a school bully, but if she develops according to this plot, everything will become a bubble in the future.
Jia Jingwen was discovered by star scouts when she was 16 years old, and sure enough, everyone's eyes were the same, and Jia Jingwen finally stepped into the entertainment circle of her dreams.
At this time, Jia Jingwen's parents could not say anything even if they were unwilling, and they could only go by Jia Jingwen's nature.
Jia Jingwen, who has just stepped into the entertainment industry, has no resources, and she thought that she could play in the circle for a while by relying on her parents as an economic source behind her back.
But it backfired, and in 19 years, Jia Jingwen's family fell in the middle of the road.
Her father's restaurant was in financial difficulty due to operational problems, and in order to maintain the operation of the restaurant, her father had to mortgage the family's property.
But all this was in vain, and the restaurant eventually went out of business, leaving the family to live in a small rental house.
Returning from the clouds to the dirt, Jia Jingwen's father fell ill with lymphoma because he could not bear the pressure, and the Jia family not only had to bear huge debts, but also had to bear high medical expenses.
In order to relieve the pressure at home, Jia Jingwen began to try her best to earn money.
During that time, she had almost no rest days, running between the various crews, no matter how small the role, she played, just to pay off the family's debts as soon as possible.
Despite Jia Jingwen's efforts to earn money to treat her father's illness, her father still could not bear the torture of illness and death.
The death of her father has become a regret for Jia Jingwen, and the debts in the family have not even given her the opportunity to grieve, and after dealing with her father's aftermath, Jia Jingwen entered the group to shoot and pay off her debts.
Perhaps because her father has been blessing her, Jia Jingwen's career has taken a qualitative leap forward, and finally in the millennium, Jia Jingwen paid off all the debts of the family.
At the same time, she also got the opportunity to go to the mainland to develop, and she cooperated with Su Youpeng and Gao Yuanyuan in "The Tale of the Dragon Slayer in the Heavens".
She interpreted Zhao Min bluntly and flexibly, and became the audience's favorite actor.
Immediately after that, she starred in "Supreme Red Face" while it was hot, and Wu Meiniang became her most classic masterpiece.
At this time, she met the rich businessman Sun Zhihao and fell in love with him.
2.
Sun Zhihao is a famous playboy who has pursued female stars many times.
At that time, Ziwei Gege, who was popular all over the country, was Sun Zhihao's prey, but Lin Xinru had seen countless rich merchants, and Sun Zhihao did not take beautiful women into his arms.
After hitting the wall, Sun Zhihao turned his target to Jia Jingwen, who had a pure face.
So he met Jia Jingwen under the guidance of his uncle Liu Zhengzhong, and Sun Zhihao was very close to Jia Jingwen at the beginning of the period.
Every day will pick up Jia Jingwen to the set, flowers and gifts are not a problem, at this time Jia Jingwen was fascinated by Sun Zhihao's money cannonballs.
Coupled with Sun Zhihao's sweet words, Jia Jingwen soon fell into it and interacted with him.
Jia Jingwen's interaction with Sun Zhihao did not get much blessing, because Sun Zhihao's wind evaluation was not so good, and he had countless debts.
The woman trapped in love is confused, and Jia Jingwen, who does not listen to dissuasion, soon becomes pregnant.
At that time, it was disgraceful to get pregnant unmarried, and Jia Jingwen's pregnancy put her in a quagmire, not only Sun Zhihao's mother did not recognize the child in her womb, but even the public attacked her verbally.
She is no longer the pure and agile goddess on the screen.
After becoming pregnant, Jia Jingwen was bent on marrying into the rich, and she thought that only if she married Sun Zhihao, their relationship would be stable.
Are the giants so good? In order to stop all this, Sun Zhihao's mother said that after Jia Jingwen's child was born, she must go to a paternity test, and after testing the children of their grandson's family, she can enter the door.
The final result was to declare victory with Jia Jingwen marrying into the Sun family.
Jia Jingwen, who became Mrs. Sun, found that everything was different from what she thought, although they were husband and wife, they basically did not see each other.
Spending days and drinking outside, the beautiful women next to her have changed one after another, and Jia Jingwen saw this and advised Sun Zhihao to keep a low profile.
Sun Zhihao is the kind of person who can't hear others say that he is not good, so he often uses wine to beat up Jia Jingwen.
Jia Jingwen began to look for opportunities for a comeback, and in 2006 she took over the role of "Sing a Song When Sad", challenging herself to play a psychopath and partnering with Huang Lei.
There are some more intimate scenes in the play, so that Sun Zhihao can't accept it, and once again punches and kicks.
For a long time after that, Jia Jingwen's career fell into a low point.
In 2009, Jia Jingwen finally wanted to open, she did not want to maintain her image of a happy wife, she put her marriage naked in front of the public.
She and Sun Zhihao filed for divorce and confronted Sun Zhihao in court.
The classic "War for Women" has since begun.
Jia Jingwen publicly said that she had been abused by the family, and her daughter Wutong Sister had been sent abroad by Sun Zhihao, and she had not seen her daughter for more than five months.
Sun Zhihao was even more ruthless, exposing Jia Jingwen and Huang Lei's ambiguous text messages, and accusing Jia Jingwen of being a person who admired vanity.
The two of them came and went, and no one won the other, how could a weak woman who went it alone defeat a chaebol with a team of lawyers?
After more than a year of tugging, Jia Jingwen finally got the custody of her daughter WutongMei.
Correspondingly, she paid 26 million yuan to "buy" her daughter back.
At this point, this luxurious marriage ended here, and the two of them no longer had a relationship.
For this marriage, it is a game for Sun Zhihao, but for Jia Jingwen it is a nightmare!
3.
Jia Jingwen, who experienced the chaos of the war, returned to her hometown in Taiwan and licked her wounds alone.
During this time, she devoted herself to spending time with her daughter and family, making up for those broken times.
As her mood slowly improved, Alyssa returned to socializing, and she began to step out of the room to party with friends.
In 2014, Jia Jingwen met Xiu Jiekai at a dinner party, and Xiu Jiekai is a good friend of Jia Jingwen's brother.
At the party, Xiu Jiekai took good care of Jia Jingwen, and her friends saw Xiu Jiekai's thoughts and left the scene one after another on the pretext that they had drunk too much at the end of the dinner.
Later, the whole room was left with Jia Jingwen and her brother, as well as Xiu Jiekai.
They talked about work, ideals, and their life experiences, and Jia Jingwen also shared her life experience with them because of her age.
After three rounds of drinking, Xiu Jiekai made a bold move, he touched Jia Jingwen's forehead, "You drank a little too much, go home early and rest!" ”
The action of touching her head to kill made the slightly drunk Jia Jingwen instantly wake up, and she looked at the seductive brother in front of her in disbelief.
Since then, Xiu Jiekai seems to have opened the door to a new world, often asking Jia Jingwen to come out on dates and dinner.
Jia Jingwen knew Xiu Jiekai's feelings for her, but the previous failed marriage made it impossible for her to get out of the previous haze.
And Xiu Jiekai is also nine years younger than Jia Jingwen, and in Jia Jingwen's heart, she has always regarded him as a younger brother.
But Xiu Jiekai did not think much of these, he knew Jia Jingwen's concerns, he was not in a hurry, he only accompanied Jia Jingwen to slowly heal her past misfortune.
Not only that, Xiu Jiekai often brought some toys and gifts to Wutong Sister to let Wutong Sister feel his kindness.
Jia Jingwen saw all this in her eyes, she did not want to delay Xiu Jiekai, and told him frankly: "I am not ready to accept a new relationship now, the previous marriage has hit her too hard, and now she is very insecure." ”
Xiu Jiekai saw that Jia Jingwen had been immersed in pain, and he was even more distressed, and vowed to pull Jia Jingwen back to the sun.
Every festival after that, Xiu Jiekai will accompany Jia Jingwen's mother and son, send them surprises and bring happiness, and looking at the smiling faces of Jia Jingwen's mother and daughter, Xiu Jiekai feels that everything he has done is worth it.
In order to encourage Jia Jingwen, Xiu Jiekai said to her that she is very happy now, and she must learn to face the current situation, only if she is good, Wutong Sister will be good.
Xiu Jiekai is like a beam of light, the long-term illumination will gradually melt the iceberg of Jia Jingwen, and Jia Jingwen finally stepped out of the inner haze and stood in the sun.
On May 5, 2015, Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai announced their marriage on Weibo and generously posted pregnant women's photos.
The man who loves you will make your life sparkle and make you the envy of the whole world.
4.
After marriage, Jia Jingwen was spoiled by Xiu Jiekai and became a princess, and Jia Jingwen, who was a big affair in the family, did not interfere.
Xiu Jiekai regarded Wutong Sister as his own, and he was eager to pour all his love into her, just to make up for the father's love she had missed.
Wutong sister is also very friendly to Xiu Jiekai, every year on Xiu Jiekai's birthday, Wutong sister will send blessings on time, generously express their love.
Later, Jia Jingwen gave birth to two daughters for Xiu Jiekai, named Bao And Bo Niu.
Xiu Jiekai, who has three daughters in the family, is like a knight, and he wholeheartedly guards the four princesses in the family.
Sometimes Xiu Jiekai has to go out to work, in order to make Jia Jingwen's mother and daughter live comfortably at home, he will clean up the home and disinfect all his daughter's toys.
They will also put sticky notes in their homes, telling Jia Jingwen where everything in her home is to ensure the daily life of their mother and daughter.
These small things are enough to see Xiu Jiekai's "status" in the family.
In 2018, Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai held a make-up wedding in Bali, and at the wedding, Jia Jingwen said a lot of words to Xiu Jiekai, with gratitude and love.
"I used to be an insecure person, and since I met you, my world has been illuminated."
"Thank you for your love for my eldest daughter, thank you for taking care of my family, I will use my most sincere heart to manage our marriage well." 」
Xiu Jiekai even responded to Jia Jingwen with "I will always love you", and it is unquestionable that Xiu Jiekai has done it all!
In 2019, Jia Jingwen won the Golden Bell Award for Best Actress, and it was also this year that she reconciled with her ex-husband Sun Zhihao, who had caused her scaly wounds.
At the graduation ceremony of Wutong Sister, Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao took the first photo after ten years of divorce, and it was Xiu Jiekai who took this photo.
Sun Zhihao quickly married the young model Lin Ruoya after Jia Jingwen got married, and now they all have a new life with the passage of time.
Under the guidance of Xiu Jiekai, Jia Jingwen let go of her past obsessions, reconciled with Sun Zhihao, and smiled and hated each other, which was the pattern of Xiu Jiekai and Jia Jingwen.
Today's Jia Jingwen, with a happy family, a happy marriage, and a career she likes, she finally lived the way she wanted in her forties.
After thousands of sails, the princess finally waited for the knight who could cut through the thorns for her.
Jia Jingwen's experience is a good interpretation of no unhappy marriage, only unhappy couples.
The basis of love and marriage is loyalty and trust, which begins with the heartbeat, loyalty to love, trust in each other, and mutual sacrifice are the perfect marriage relationship.
The right person will spoil you as a child and make you have childlike happiness, and the wrong person will make you talk to yourself like a madman.
How important it is to meet a person who is desperate to hold an umbrella for you on a rainy day, and how lucky it is to choose the right person in this rolling red dust.
If Xiu Jiekai and Jia Jingwen had not met in this life, then all this would have been rewritten.
What a privilege to meet in this life....