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When Ms. Su was looking for a partner, because she did not see the other party's personality, she finally married a phoenix man, after getting married, she was kidnapped by the phoenix man's morality every day, or it was taken, Ms. Su chose to endure for the sake of marriage and harmony, originally thought that forbearance would get the understanding of her husband, and the result was that her husband had to make inches, and her husband actually hit the house before her marriage, so that Ms. Su gave the house to the little uncle for marriage, and Ms. Su refused to live or die.
As a result, the phoenix male husband directly asked unhappily: "Your suite is not lived, idle is also idle, why is it not willing to give my brother a marriage room, are all family, is it not right to help each other?" ”
Ms. Su responded directly: "Your brother is not my son, I have no responsibilities and obligations, divorce, you don't want this morality to kidnap me." ”
After Ms. Su finished speaking, the phoenix male husband panicked.
Let's take a look at this story.
Ms. Su / 32 years old
I am 32 years old, my surname is Sue, I have been married to my husband for two years, I am a very good woman, I not only found a good job through my own efforts, I also bought myself a full house before marriage.
So I had a 150 square meter house before I got married, but I haven't lived in that house since I got married, and I originally wanted to rent it out, but I was afraid that others would dirty my house, so I didn't rent it out, I was idle, and if I had time, I would clean it.
My husband and I met in the same company, and I didn't have any feelings for him at the time, but after spending a long time with him, I found that others were not bad, and then I was with him.
After being together, he took good care of me every day, but I found that he was a little stingy, but I didn't care, anyway, I wasn't short of money myself, he wasn't willing to spend money for me, I could spend my own, so I didn't feel anything about it.
But no one around me suggested that I be with him, because being with a man in a neighborhood would not be happy in the future, and would not pay for me after marriage.
But I think that I have the ability to earn money myself, why should I spend men's money, do I have to spend men's money to live more wonderfully? Besides, he is also stingy with me because of his poor family conditions and lack of money, and since this is the case, I don't think there is any need to worry about these things, and it hurts feelings to worry too much.
Later, after talking with him for more than a year, the two of us also entered the marriage hall, when getting married, he originally did not want to buy a marriage house, because he knew that I had a house of his own, so he wanted to take my suite to make a marriage room, but I did not want to, although I was generous, this suite was bought by me who had worked hard to save money, I could not use it as a marriage room, in case of divorce one day, what if the house did not come back? I still have to think about this point, so as to save myself from causing trouble when the time comes.
At that time, my husband was speechless to me and thought I was very calculating, but he couldn't do anything with me, and later he had to pay for a wedding house.
After marriage, I can live well, but after a while, my husband revealed his original form, he is with me, not sincere at all, but only for the sake of me to make money, will be with me.
At that time, he asked me for money every day, every time he asked me for money, the excuse was different, I didn't want to give, but he always said it very reasonably, and in order for the feelings of the two people not to change, I could only indulge him again and again.
But the more I connived at him, the more he went too far, and the more he asked me to take the money, and the money he took from me was not used by himself, nor was it used for business, but for his parents and brother, because his parents and brother did not have much money, and in order not to let them suffer, he took my money to subsidize.
When he was not married to him before, he always gave his own money to subsidize, but since he got married, in order to reduce his pressure, he directly took my money to give them.
When I learned of this, I was furious, and I asked him why he did this, to be a phoenix man? Is it that hard to be a good person?
He said: "I am a person, I subsidize my family because they are important to me, so I have to raise them, so that I can feel very filial and qualified." ”
When he said this, I was very annoyed in my heart, obviously he was subsidizing, but he said it so well, I had never seen a man so excessive.
I've been with him for so long, he's never spent a dime for me, and whenever I asked him to buy me something to come back to eat, he also asked me to pay it back, I didn't mind, but after a long time, I was also very annoyed, there was no need to worry so much between, but he didn't take me as a thing at all, everything had to be divided, so I was particularly disgusted with him.
These are not the most excessive, the most excessive is that he often asked me to give the idle house to his brother, but I did not want to, because I could not be so stupid, nor could I live in vain for others.
Every time he was rejected by me, he was very angry, often scolded me, said that I was an ignorant person, and I ignored him every time, because I didn't want to argue with him, so every time I chose to walk away.
Although he was rejected by me many times, he still often ran to me to give the house to his brother without a face, he asked so often because he reached the age of marriage, but his brother did not have the money to buy a house, in order to let his brother have a suite to get married, he kept asking me, but every time he asked, I would refuse once.
Later, he was really impatient, so he directly asked unhappily: "Your suite is idle and idle, why don't you just refuse to make a marriage room for my brother?" ”
When he said this, I was also annoyed, and then I also responded directly: "Your brother is not my son, I don't have that responsibility and obligation, and now I am very disgusted with you, so I decided to divorce you, maybe divorce is a relief for me, so that I don't have to endure your moral kidnapping anymore, and you don't want to ask me for it in the future."
After my husband heard me mention the divorce, the whole person panicked, and then immediately knelt down to beg for my forgiveness, and said that as long as I was willing to forgive him, he would not ask me for it again, but I felt that there was no need, because even if I forgave, he would not change, after all, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move, so I think it is better to divorce, saving me from having to pay for others every day.
Conclusion
In real life, there are a lot of phoenix men, phoenix men are generally born in a very poor family, they are in order to change their lives, every day is very hard, to the age of marriage, but also hope that they can marry a rich woman, so that you can let the whole family live a good life, their pressure will not be so big.
But Xiaobian hopes that men are best not to be a phoenix man, because the phoenix man will not be followed, even if he follows, it will not last long, and one day he will break up.