As exs, it's best to not bother each other when the relationship is over.
The other person should no longer appear in our lives, and we should no longer participate in each other's lives.
Be like strangers to each other, don't have any more contact, don't have any more to do with each other.
Normally speaking, the ex should be like this, but there are always some times when, although they have broken up with each other, they still have feelings, and they still want to turn back and be able to come back again.
It may be that we are still in love and want to return to each other's side, or it may be that the other party still has feelings and does not want to miss us.
If we don't want each other to end here, we can fight for it, and if the other person wants to turn back, we can see how we think, and we must see if the other party is sincere.
Not all exs really want to come back, may not just be lonely, may just not find a better, and whether a person is sincere, it is actually not difficult to judge, people who really want to turn back, the behavior will be obvious.
Solve the problems of the past, very sincere.
Two people will break up, of course, it will not be for no reason, usually for a reason.
The reason why you choose to separate is that when a person wants to come back, but does not mention the problem of the past, then he probably does not care about your feelings and does not think about making some changes.
People like this, he is mostly not sincere, even if they get back together, they will still encounter the same problems.
The person who really wants to return to your side and be with you well, before coming back, he must have already recalled your past many times, and he has already thought about how to resolve the knots in your heart and let you freeze your previous suspicions.
Anyway, if you were separated because of a misunderstanding, he would have told you about the misunderstanding, if you had a disagreement over what, this time he would have been willing to let you go, and if he had not done well enough, he would have apologized first.
He knows very well that if you don't solve the problems that make you mind first, you generally won't be willing to give him another chance.
Only when he first deals with the problems that have been left behind, so as to show his sincerity, so that you no longer have any contempt for him, you will be willing to believe him again, and it will be possible to re-accept him.
Really, he will not only recall the past, but also be particularly serious, not perfunctory at all, and will make you very at ease.
Very tenacious and will always be very persistent.
If a person asks you to reunite, he casually mentions it to you, and after you do not agree, he quickly disappears and is soon with others, and his behavior cannot be taken seriously.
He's just bored and wants to try it, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't succeed.
In his heart, there is no longer your place, and he doesn't feel that without you, it really doesn't matter.
After separating, he really recognizes your goodness and thinks that you are very important, he will also take care of his self-esteem, but in addition, he will also feel that there is nothing, more important than saving you.
He simply can't care so much, he will only keep the initiative to find you, want to keep in touch with you, want to meet with you, and always tell you his heart, pour out his thoughts, let you give him another chance.
Too eager to continue to be with you, in order to achieve this goal, he will really make a special effort and will not give up lightly.
Even if you reject him and say that you have some concerns, he will still be very patient, and he will want to use his actions to touch you a little bit, to eliminate your worries, so that you are really willing to believe him again.
This time, you will really find that he is really eager, and his heart to be with you is exactly like when he first chased you, even more sincere than then.
It's better for you, I'm afraid you won't want to.
Whether the other party is sincere or not, the frequency of finding you is very critical, and the other party's behavior is even more so.
There are only some verbal expressions, no half-effort, no caution, he wants you to go back may be true, but it may not be that he really likes you and is eager to spend the rest of his life with you.
The person who loves you, whether it is the beginning, or wants to reconcile with you, he must be more generous to you and more concerned.
It will not seem particularly arrogant, nor will it appear to be very impatient, it will only care about you, it will care about your feelings, and it will really do something for you, spend some money for you, give you some gifts, and be willing to coax you.
He knows that he has already made you sad once, and only if he is better for you than before, he may make you change your mind.
In order for you to really be willing to fall in love with him again, he will really do his best and will not leave himself much leeway.
All he thinks is not all kinds of calculations, lest you not agree, you will lose a lot in vain, you can't get it back at all, but you must save you, regardless of all costs, so that you can feel his heart for you.
From beginning to end, he will be very willing to spend time for you, and he will be very willing to spend time for you, never appear to be very domineering, only appear to be very afraid, afraid that he will not agree to where he is not doing well enough.
Feelings in the world, if separation is only a momentary impulse, and then love, in fact, there is nothing wrong with it.
I really want to turn back, we still love the person, when the other party has expressed something, we don't have to embarrass him, just quickly accept each other's wishes, and continue the front edge with the other party.
After that, cherish this return and try to make each other as long and happy as possible.
As for saying that, if a person does not come with sincerity, even if he still likes it a little, it is best to forget it.
People who do not have a sincere heart, even if they start again, will only find it difficult to continue to walk.
It is better to divide it again, but when it is divided for the first time, it is better to directly point it out, one by one, two wide, and each running for the future.
The years are long, and there must always be some sincerity, and the feelings will be easier to maintain.
Text/Tan Meng
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