Chen Dan, 29 years old this year, was born in Liutang Township, Xiangyin County, Hunan Province, with a spicy personality and a typical Xiang girl.
5 years ago, after Chen Dan graduated from Hunan Normal University, the road to the workplace has been bumpy, and she has left for various reasons after finding several jobs in a row, and she can't help but fall into extreme distress. Seeing that Chen Dan was sullen and unhappy all day because of work problems, her boyfriend Yu Da thought of Fa'er to make her happy and encouraged her not to give up. Under the persuasion of Yu Da, Chen Dan gradually raised his eyebrows.
Yu Da works as a copywriter in a well-known real estate company in Tianxin District, Changsha City, with a stable job and a low salary. Watching her boyfriend come out more and more day by day, but he still can't get out of the predicament, Chen Dan can't help but worry that Yu Da will leave her. What touched Chen Dan was that Yu Da not only did not snub her at all, but was more considerate and caring for her.
In March of that year, with the full support of Yu Da, Chen Dan took the Hunan Provincial Civil Servant Recruitment Examination. In order to pass the customs smoothly, she bought a large number of reference materials and locked up in the house every day and night to read and review. In the exam at the end of April, Chen Dan's score ranked second, and the unit she applied for had 3 places. Chen Dan thought to himself that he should be able to realize his dream of being a civil servant this time.
However, the conclusion of "asymmetrical breasts" on the medical examination sheet ruthlessly shattered her dreams. The applicant unit used this as an excuse to brush Chen Dan down.
I got so good grades, but I was not hired because of such a ridiculous reason as "breast asymmetry", which is obviously discrimination against women! The more Chen Dan thought about it, the more uneven he became. After she consulted the relevant information on the Internet, with the encouragement of many netizens, she angrily challenged this unreasonable regulation. "China Women's Daily" took the lead in reporting it, and nearly a thousand media outlets across the country reprinted it.
In March of the following year, under pressure, Hunan Province issued a document to cancel this provision. Subsequently, CCTV and other well-known media also made follow-up reports, and for a time, Chen Dan became famous all over the world, and an advertising company also took the opportunity to hire her.
Chen Danwan did not expect that the "breast storm" would eventually make such a big fuss, and she did not expect that the marriage she made would eventually be greatly affected by it.
One day, Yu Da happily accompanied Chen Dan to the mall to buy a wedding ring. On the bus, a man always looked at Chen Dan's chest. Yu Da glared at him angrily and scolded, "What to see!" As soon as Yu Da's voice fell, the man replied, "Why is it so fierce?" Isn't she the one whose breasts are asymmetrical? I've seen it on TV earlier..."This immediately attracted the eyes of the passengers in the car, and everyone talked about me one after another...
It doesn't end there. After arriving at the mall, someone recognized Chen Dan. A girl seriously asked her about the civil service examination, and another girl asked her questions related to breasts, chen Dan felt that they had no malice, so he answered. This made Yu Da, who was beside her, very annoyed, and angrily accused her: "Why are you so faceless?" Is this kind of thing very glorious..." Scolded by Yu Da in public, Chen Dan felt very faceless, quarreled with him, and the two broke up unhappily.
The two had been in a cold war for several days. Chen Dan heard that Yu Da was uncomfortable, so he took a day off and rushed to Yu Da's residence to see him. As soon as he entered the door, Yu Da scolded her in a nonchalant manner: "What are you going to do?" Who told you to come?" Chen Dan was so angry that he immediately left. Later, she learned that since she became "famous", Yu Da's colleagues always had to joke about the "breast incident", and some people joked: "Whether the breasts are symmetrical or asymmetrical, the breasts that Yu Da likes are good breasts!" Yu Da was very annoyed by this. What made him most angry was that after work before, he was preparing to go home, and Yang Ge, who was the most iron-hearted with him in the company, suddenly pulled him aside and said, "I bet Wang Hai for 2,000 yuan, and he said that your girlfriend's right breast is bigger, and I said that your left breast is bigger."
You tell us the answer, which side is bigger..." Yu Da angrily scolded: "Boring!" Then the head walked away without looking back.
After learning the details, Chen Dan felt extremely uncomfortable in his heart, if it were not for her, Yu Da would not have suffered humiliation! She rushed to Yu Da's dormitory again. Yu Da was washing clothes, and Chen Dan silently took the basin and washed it. Seeing his girlfriend's haggard appearance, Yu Da's heart also softened, after all, he was deeply in love with Chen Dan, and he reached out and took Chen Dan into his arms...
One day at the end of May, Yu Da and Chen Dan went to a hotel on Bayi Road in Changsha City to book a wedding banquet, Chen Dan asked for a discount on the price, and the staff said: "This is already the most preferential, unless it is a celebrity, then you can ask the manager to give another discount!" " After Chen Dan listened, he jokingly said, "Am I a celebrity?" A lot of media reported on me!" The staff looked at her carefully and then said loudly, "Oh, I know you, you're the girl with the asymmetric breasts!" As soon as the words were finished, many staff members gathered around to see "Strange". In the end, half a discount was not won, but Yu Da and Chen Dan were "tasted" by a group of staff. When he went back, Yu Da, who was holding back a stomach fire, said to Chen Dan angrily: "Even if others are bored, you yourself are so perverted, breast asymmetry is very glorious, right?" I'm afraid that others won't know your identity..." Chen Dan was also very aggrieved, and the two of them had their own opinions and had a big fight!
After that, although Yu Da wanted to be with Chen Dan, his mood was often affected by breast storms, and almost every reunion became a painful memory for him. At the end of July, only 10 days before their wedding, Yu Da proposed to Chen Dan to break up, and he said bitterly: "I love you very much and want to be with you well, but I care about what others say, and when others talk about you in front of me, I can't be calm." If we don't break up, I may be depressed to death..." Chen Dan couldn't find a reason to oppose, perhaps, breaking up was really a relief for Yu Da!
There is no trust where there is love, the two boyfriends have broken up one after another, Chen Dan terminated an unreasonable rule in Hunan in the admission of civil servants, but his nightmare began.
At the end of the year, the company's boss fired her squid on the grounds that she was "too famous and influenced her work". Love was not smooth, work encountered obstacles, Chen Dan was very painful in his heart, and even once had the idea of "suicide". After a period of depression, she quickly stood up again under the encouragement of friends and loved ones. Just after New Year's Day, she came to Panyu City, Guangdong Province, and successfully entered a clothing company as an assistant general manager.
Chen Dan is beautiful and holds an important position, and there are many people chasing her in the company. Soon, she and Liu Ke, a department manager of the company, fell in love. In order not to let "breast Fengbo" affect this relationship, Chen Dan has been hiding his experience. However, once, Liu Ke unexpectedly asked her: "You have a sensational breast incident in Changsha, do you know that girl?" Chen Dan's heart sank, and he pretended to be surprised and said, "How can I know people?" Later, when Liu Ke talked to her about this topic, she either changed the subject or was silent.
The two had been dating for less than two months, and Liu Ke proposed to break up. He said: "In fact, I have long known that you are the heroine of the Hunan breast incident, to tell the truth, I am not afraid of this, but what I can't stand is cheating, I don't want to love a girl who also lies to her lover."
Chen Dan wanted to cry without tears. After that, before Chen Dan interacted with other men, he frankly told the other party his "identity", although some people did "stop" because of this, Chen Dan still found a "brave" man.
This man's name is Cai Dong, is the logistics manager of a supermarket, but also a Hunan native, in Panyu for 6 years, there are houses and cars, the conditions are quite good. At the end of May, the two moved in together.
When talking about love, Cai Dong seriously said that he would definitely marry Chen Dan. However, after the two lived together, he never mentioned marriage again. In July, Chen Dan couldn't help but remind him that after Cai Dong listened, he was silent for a long time before he said, "Have you ever had any illness before?" Otherwise, how can two good breasts be asymmetrical?" Chen Dan didn't think much about it, and replied: "I'm in good health, don't say seriously ill, a cold is rare once a year, breast asymmetry is normal...."
The next morning, Chen Dan hurried to work, went out to find that the mobile phone was not brought, she was busy going back to get it, just walking by the door, she heard Cai Dong calling people. Cai Dong said: "My girlfriend urged me to get married, but I am afraid, her breasts are asymmetrical, in case there is any disease in the body, I can be in trouble in the future.... In order to dispel Cai Dong's concerns, Chen Dan took the initiative to ask for a marriage examination. On the weekend, the two came together to the Maternal and Child Health Hospital for a physical examination.
A few days later, the results came out and both were in good health. But Cai Dong was still not at ease, he carefully read Chen Dan's physical examination book and said, "Why didn't you check your breasts?" What is the breast for a marriage check? My breasts were not sick again. Cai Dong said unhappily: "If you don't check your breasts, what is the use of marriage examinations?" Chen Dan wanted to have a big fight with him, but finally resisted, and she and Cai Dong went to the doctor and asked for a detailed examination of the breast.
After the test results came out, the doctor said, "No problem, it's normal!" Cai Dong interjected: "Doctor, have you examined carefully?" Her breasts are asymmetrical, will this be a disease..." The doctor laughed and said, "Most girls' breasts are asymmetrical, this is not a disease, normal!"
Chen Dan originally thought that after this inspection, the doubts in Cai Dong's heart would be dispelled, but a few days later, Cai Dong said to her: "Marriage is a lifelong thing." Let's go to the big hospital in Guangzhou to check it again. Although Chen Dan was very angry, she still endured the anger and followed Cai Dong to a large hospital in Guangzhou for a physical examination. The results once again showed that Chen Dan was in good health. Cai Dong was finally relieved. The two immediately began to prepare for the marriage.
At this moment, Cai Dong saw a news item in the newspaper about the misdiagnosis of some large hospitals, including the hospital where they were examined. As if he had been hit by evil, he often said to himself, "How can a good breast be asymmetrical, and what is not a disease?" It must have been a hospital misdiagnosis. ”
In mid-August, Cai Dong said that he was going to Beijing on a business trip and hoped that Chen Dan would go with him, but Chen Dan was too busy to leave at work, so he refused. The night before Cai Dong left, Chen Dan woke up in the middle of the night and saw Cai Dong taking pictures of her breasts with a digital camera! Chen Dan angrily asked him what he wanted to do. Cai Dongzhiwu for half a day, and finally admitted that he wanted to use the camera to photograph the breasts and bring them to Beijing to find an expert "diagnosis?" Chen Dan was so angry that she couldn't say a word, she didn't expect Cai Dong to believe her so much, she didn't expect his doubts to be so heavy! Such a person, even if they are married, where will there be happiness to speak of together? A week later, Chen Dan calmly proposed to break up.
After breaking up with Cai Dong, Chen Dan was even more disappointed in love, vowed never to fall in love again, and devoted himself to work.
One day, Chen Dan took a train to Changsha on a business trip and met a businessman named Li Jian. Li Jianchang is a polite man who owns a medium-sized hotel and a decoration company in Changsha's Furong District. After learning of Chen Dan's "true identity", Li Jian showed great enthusiasm for Chen Dan, took good care of her in the car, and when he got off the car, he reached out and snatched Chen Dan's duffel bag and carried it on his shoulder, which was very gentlemanly. During Chen Dan's stay in Changsha, Li Jian would drive her to run errands every day, and then take her around the beautiful scenery of Changsha, taste the food of Changsha, and take good care of Chen Dan, which made Chen Dan quite moved.
A few days passed quickly, and when he learned that Chen Dan was leaving Changsha the next day, Li Jian was unusually reluctant. The next day, when he sent off, he delivered a large bouquet of roses to Chen Dan, stared at her affectionately, and said softly: "I like you very much, I want to be with you, I hope you don't reject me!" Chen Dan originally had a good feeling for him, but repeatedly hurt emotionally, so that she no longer believed in love. She took the bouquet in a daze, said nothing, and turned to the train.
After returning to Panyu, Li Jian's phone calls continued every day, greeting Chen Dan warmly and attentively. What moved her even more was that one morning, when Li Jian called her, he learned that she had a bad appetite, so he asked her what she wanted to eat, and Chen Dan said casually: "I don't want to eat anything, but the chopped pepper fish heads in your shop are good!" Who knows, 4 hours later, Li Jian actually appeared in front of her, carrying the head of the chopped pepper side fish in his hand. He flew to Panyu just to bring the dishes she wanted to eat... What could be softer than this to impress Chen Dan? At that moment, she excitedly hugged Li Jian.
Soon, as his feelings warmed up, Chen Dan quit his job in Panyu and returned to Changsha to serve as vice president of his decoration company. In several contacts and exchanges, Chen Dan felt that Li Jianxin was careful and considerate, and more importantly, he did not mind his identity. She had thought that Li Jian was the one who could bring her happiness. However, it didn't take long for her to feel that Li Jian's feelings for her were not as simple as she thought.
Once, Li Jian asked Chen Dan to accompany him to a banquet for several customers, at the banquet, when Li Jian introduced Chen Dan's identity to others, he did not say that she was his lover, nor did he say that she was the vice president of the company, but said: "Chen Dan is the big star of our company, she is the girl who challenged breast symmetry..."As soon as he heard that Chen Dan was a sensational "breast celebrity", several men immediately came to be interested, and they wanted to touch the cup with Chen Dan, and some yellow paragraphs were said in their mouths.... In the end, Li Jian successfully signed a business contract with them, but Chen Dan was on fire and felt as if he had been treated like a monkey.
Another time, a customer doubted the strength and credibility of the company, Li Jianjian pointed to Chen Dan and said to him: "This you know, Miss Chen Dan, a big celebrity who challenged the breast symmetry of the Hunan civil servant examination, she is now the vice president of our company, so many large companies dig her, she is not going, she is willing to stay in our company..." A seat immediately dispelled the other party's concerns, and finally successfully negotiated this business. Every time he meets with someone, Li Jian likes to "highlight" Chen Dan's identity to the other party, which makes Chen Dan feel very awkward. One day, she said to Li Jian angrily, "I'm your girlfriend, and you have to take into account my feelings when you talk, and if you're still like this, I won't be with you." After that, Li Jian slightly relented.
One day at the end of March, Chen Dan went to Li Jian's hotel to play, and as soon as he walked to the door of the hotel, he saw that her photo was enlarged and placed there, and there was a line next to it: Miss Chen Dan, the image consultant of the store! There is also a note below: 2004 Person of the Year, The First Person to Challenge the Breast Symmetry of the Civil Service Examination. Chen Dan also thought that she had seen it wrong, she rubbed her eyes, and she was smiling at her in the photo! She was extremely angry, and walked quickly to the store, ready to settle accounts with Li Jian, but when she went in to see, she was even more angry. It turned out that Li Jian had placed many newspapers and periodicals with relevant reports on Chen Dan on the reading shelf, and the news on the Internet was also downloaded and placed there, and even a close-up of her breasts... Dan's lungs were about to explode, what did Li Jian really mean, how to do something like this?
She immediately found Li Jian and angrily accused him. Unexpectedly, Li Jian did not panic at all, but instead said with his head: "This is not a bad thing." Now everything must have characteristics and fame, I publicize it like this, you don't lose anything, and it is good for my business, why not enjoy it? You don't know, since such a publicity, every day to see the lively customers in the store, the business is also better..... Before he could finish speaking, Chen Dan only felt the blood rush upwards, and without thinking, he stretched out his hand, slapped him hard, turned and rushed out of the hotel.
After calming down, Chen Dan reflected on this relationship again, she admitted that Li Jianping was really good to her, but she couldn't stand Li Jian using her sensitive identity again and again to hype her business, although she also knew that this was not a scandal, but the breast was a sensitive topic after all, Li Jian did this, it was tantamount to lifting her skirt to let people look at her private parts, which she couldn't stand. At the beginning of April of that year, after some thought, Chen Dan left Li Jian.
Now, Chen Dan "hides" and works at a company in the eastern suburbs of Changsha. That "breast storm" not only affected her work and life, but even her marital love was also deeply affected by the aftershocks. Although she believes that she has not done anything wrong, the four relationships that she has put a lot of effort into will eventually die out under the "shadow of the breast". Whenever she thinks of this, she always can't help but fall into the abyss of pain, she doesn't know, when the next relationship appears, should she reach out and grab it? Can you have a happy marriage and a warm family before the age of 30? This is also the #头条 she can't foresee and can't answer herself #