There is a hot topic in Zhihu: "What is the most important ability of a person?" ”
This question reminds me of Gu Ailing's experience of falling in the final.
In the women's freestyle slope obstacle course final, her first jump landed steadily with a difficult move of 1080 with two hands, and received a high score of 69.90, ranking third.
A beautiful opening, coupled with super ability, everyone feels that this gold medal is none other than her.
However, her second jump was unexpected, and she fell heavily on the snow.
The score of 16.98 makes Gu Ailing's ranking lag a lot behind.
In the face of many of the world's top masters, everyone is worried that her mentality will be affected by the mistakes she just made.
But under such a huge pressure, Gu Ailing carried the pressure, played steadily, and counterattacked to pick up silver.
While the whole network celebrated for her, #Admire Gu Ailing's Big Heart# also rushed to the hot search.
Many netizens left messages to sigh:
"How did this big heart practice?"
"The ability to resist pressure is too strong!"
After reading her counterattack experience, let's return to the above question: What is the most important ability of a person?
Nothing more than that, to bear things.
Things are uncertain, no matter the game or life, no one can be smooth.
You will always encounter problems that are caught off guard, and you will always experience unspeakable situations.
When things come, you can't hold on, the years will eliminate you; if you can hold on, the years will decorate you.
As the writer Su Qian said:
"People, don't need to have so many superiority, can carry things is talented." 」
Not panicking, being able to carry things in case of trouble, is a person's greatest ability.
Panasonic founder Konosuke Matsushita once told a story.
One day, his company came to a job seeker named Saburo Kanda.
Saburo Kanda is a graduate of a prestigious university who excelled in school and ranked second out of hundreds of interviews.
However, due to a problem with the computer that announced the results at that time, Kanda Saburo did not appear in the top ten list.
When Panasonic learned of this, he immediately asked Kanda Saburo to inform him of the good news.
However, After knowing that he had fallen off the list, Kanda Saburo committed suicide by jumping off a building.
Everyone regretted that they had missed a talented young man.
Matsushita shook his head and said:
"Fortunately, our company did not admit him, and such a person cannot achieve great things."
How can a person who does not have the courage to withstand failure do sales? ”
Sometimes, I have to lament the impermanence of fate.
Although everyone's life is different, no matter who it is, it will be ridiculed by fate.
Once you bow your head, no matter how strong your ability is, you are doomed to be the defeat of life's subordinates.
Self-media person @Ha Uncle shared a story.
A few years ago, Uncle Ha had a neighbor from his hometown, Uncle Chen, who used all his family's savings to open a restaurant with a friend.
At first, the restaurant was visited by many people.
However, the good times were not long, due to poor site selection and improper management model, in less than three months, not only lost most of his life's savings, but also owed hundreds of thousands of debts.
Faced with tremendous pressure, Uncle Chen chose to commit suicide, leaving Aunt Chen and her two daughters crying to death.
I remember Yu Hua once said:
"Among the younger generation in China, there are many excellent people, but too few people can carry things."
In a lifetime, people will inevitably encounter unhappiness.
Problems that are difficult to solve at work, contradictions large and small in the family, unpredictable encounters in life...
The older you get, the more you'll find yourself taking on.
If you can't hold back and give up, it's your whole life that's crushed.
"Am I number one?"
"Yes! You are the first! ”
On the evening of the 14th, Xu Mengtao, a "four-time ski veteran", won the gold medal in women's aerial skills in freestyle skiing.
After winning the championship, she roared angrily at the sky, and tears came out of her eyes.
From the appearance of the Vancouver Winter Olympics to the Beijing Winter Olympics on the highest podium, Xu Mengtao waited for 12 years.
In the interview, she cried:
"I finally did it, and God saw my efforts."
Yeah, at any time, don't lose confidence in yourself.
Can bear the pain, endure the difficulty, will eventually usher in the cloud open the moon one day.
Xu Mengtao, who entered the national team in 2007, has participated in three Winter Olympics so far.
He finished sixth at the 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics and silver at the 2014 Sochi Winter Olympics.
After two Winter Olympics, Xu Mengtao put all her energy into the 2018 Pyeongchang Winter Olympics.
But the weather was unpredictable, and she made a mistake when she landed on the field, and she missed the medal.
The pressure of body and mind almost made Xu Mengtao choose to retire.
At that time, she couldn't help but burst into tears on the spot, full of regret and unwillingness.
If you put these on ordinary people, you may no longer be able to support it.
But after trying to control her emotions, Xu Mengtao decided to continue to insist.
Some people may think that she is professional and it is easy to stick to it.
But what many people don't know is that the injuries caused by previous games have accompanied Xu Mengtao for more than ten years:
Rupture of the anterior cruciate ligament of the right knee, tearing of the medial collateral ligament of the right leg, rupture of the anterior cruciate ligament of the left leg, meniscal excision of the left knee and left leg...
She once shared one of these experiences:
"I was hitting general anesthesia and shivering on the bed.
At that moment, I was wondering if I could continue to insist on it, could I do it? ”
It turns out that Xu Mengtao did it!
As soon as she recovered from the operation, she devoted all her time and energy to "devil training":
In the summer, there is no snow field, so I jump from the high platform to the pool, thousands of times, until I feel "desperate";
After practicing "diving", physical training on your own, although boring, but for several years as a day, never stopped...
She carried level by level, inch by inch, and possessed an incomparably powerful physical state and extremely skillful motor skills.
Kung Fu pays off, 2022 Beijing Winter Olympics, Xu Mengtao won the championship in one fell swoop.
As she herself said:
"I may not be the best person in this project, but I'm definitely the one who can stick to it the most until the end."
Those who carry things, eventually achieve things; those who chase dreams, finally realize their dreams.
In this life, people cannot always be smooth sailing, and no one will easily succeed.
Behind all the beauty and excellence, there are unknown tribulations and sufferings.
I have heard the saying: "Suffering is never terrible, what is terrible is the heart that is frightened by suffering and goes straight back." ”
In the face of suffering, do not complain about yourself, do not escape from the stumbling, one day all the hardships you have experienced will be forged into dazzling medals.
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Writer Itai said:
"In life, grievances, troubles, and bitterness are inevitable.
The important thing is that you have to turn over, because pushing away the dark wall, there is always a blue sky on the opposite side. ”
In this world, there will be no obstacles that cannot be overcome, there will be no difficulties that cannot be crossed, only a heart that dares not to face it.
Maybe it was a moment of breaking sand, maybe it was once losing its armor, but as long as the firm heart is still full of hope, every effort is upward.
The road to the top of the mountain, none of which is straight.
How much pressure you can withstand, how rich the harvest will be.
When you hold on to everything and look back, you will find that the vastness of the original life and the reach of the future all stem from your persistence.
Finally, I end with a quote from the poet Rilke:
"Where there is any victory in life, holding on means everything."
Source: WeChat public account "Youshu"
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