In the variety show "Miss Beauty", the host asked Yang Chaoyue and Yamy whether the two had contact in private after the dissolution of Rocket Girl, Yamy broke the news that Yang Chaoyue almost did not reply to WeChat messages privately, and explained to her that she replied with her mind.
Later, Yang Chaochao confirmed what Yamy said, saying that he thought about replying many times, and only after many days did he find that there was no reply, and because of this, he was deleted as a friend.
After reading this story, I quickly took out my mobile phone and looked at whether anyone in the contact recently deleted me, fortunately it was a false alarm. Yu Jijun has a very strong say in "I can't read it back", after all, I am such a person.
Under what circumstances do you usually "not read back"?
1. Obsessive-compulsive disorder
Yu Jijun has a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder, see the message will unconsciously point out, must eliminate all the small red dots, sometimes obviously doing other things, but see the little red dot can not help but point, after clicking one and thinking about the next one, the result is to forget the message that needs to be replied to.
2, I was busy with other things at the time
Sometimes when you hear the WeChat message notification, you will subconsciously go to see it, but this topic still has the possibility of continuing to talk, because I was busy with other things at the time, afraid of talking endlessly, and did not want to give the other party an impression of not replying, so I simply would not or put it aside for a while, and then turned around and forgot.
Bao Mom with baby bao dad believes that this topic is very touched, especially there are relatively young babies at home, from time to time to take care of the baby, chatting and talking without reply, there will often be a situation that has not been read back.
The same is true for artists, many times time is not allowed to freely dispose of themselves, one moment to go on stage to perform the show, the other to be interviewed, has not read back this kind of thing believes that in their circle should be a common thing.
3, do not know what to reply to
Yang Chaoyue and Yamy talked about a thing before talking about "can't read back", Yamy saw Yang Chaoyue's magazine on the cover of the photo to send Yang Chaoyue over, when Yang Chaochao replied with the three words "hahaha", these three words are already very happy for Yamy, because usually Yang Chaoyue does not reply.
Yang Chaoyue can reply to these 3 words is actually already progress, after all, this topic is really not knowing what to reply to, from the current development status of the two people, Yang Chaoyue's development is better than Yamy, and when combined, Yamy is the captain, somewhat embarrassed feeling.
Yamy said that this matter can also be seen that she does not want Yang Chaoyue to reply to anything, but naturally wants to share this matter with her, just like we see something that we have a common memory with a friend or something related to seeing him, just a kind of sharing, and neither side needs to deliberately entangle to get a reply.
4, really do not want to reply
The above three are the attitudes of people who are more familiar, for some people who are not familiar with or do not like it, "can't read back" does have the meaning of not wanting to ignore you, some messages, some people really do not want to ignore him, do not want to reply to him.
For example: never chat and only let the bargain like, keep talking about other people's gossip, repeatedly ask the same questions, have nothing to do, brag and brag, keep brushing the screen, make statements that make you uncomfortable, and so on.
Can people who use their minds to reply to messages still be friends?
For Yu Jijun, in addition to the WeChat of a very few people who do not want to reply, for some necessary work messages Yu Jijun will not have a situation of not replying, and other "read and cannot reply" are actually really good friends.
For the main reason why these friends "can't read back" there may be all three above, which can be said to be the worst temper left to the closest people. In front of real friends, you can not deliberately pander to please, you can do whatever you want, such friends are actually quite worthy of deep friendship, because they are very real.
For friends, they will not alienate you because you do not reply to the message, even if you often do not reply to the message, even if you do not contact for a long time, the next contact, the next meeting is still as close as before, this is a real good friend, for them, they can understand your "can not read back".
Just like Yamy and Yang Chaoyue, Yamy knows Yang Chaoyue's personality and formal style, and also understands that she does not want to ignore herself and deliberately does not reply to the message, can read each other's "reply with the mind", the two have not met for a long time, private chat does not reply much, but the relationship is still the same when on the same stage, this is the real understanding of each other's good sisters, is the real friendship.
The explanation of "mind reply" seems quite ridiculous, but in fact, in the current era of news, it is quite real, and sometimes it is really tired and exhausted, I don't want to do anything, I don't want to think about anything, I just want to lie in my head and finish everything.
"I can't read it back" is actually only suitable for friends who understand themselves closely, and there must be basic workplace courtesy for leaders, elders, and work partners, otherwise it will give others a feeling of disrespect. Leave a message to share who your "I have read it back" is aimed at, right?