Shakespeare once said: "Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a honey word in the peach blossom garden, not a light tear, nor a hard compulsion, love is based on common foundation." ”
If a man really loves you, then he naturally wants both of you to be okay and will take you into account first when he thinks about things. And the man who doesn't love you, he hasn't thought about you at all, and he doesn't care about a lot of things.
Therefore, women must not feel that men are very tolerant of you because they love you, in fact, he does not love you, only men who really love you, but may care about these things. Caring enough to make you feel like he doesn't love you, but on the contrary, the man in this situation loves you deeper and more true.
1, care whether you work hard
Every day with a mixed attitude to work, the mind only thinks about what to eat after work, where to play, such a life is comfortable, but there is no future in sight. Nowadays, society is constantly improving, friends and colleagues around you are also improving, if you have such an attitude to work and life, then sooner or later you will be eliminated, you may not even be able to keep your own work.
If a man does not love you, he naturally does not care about this, whether you are good or bad has nothing to do with him, and he will not think about the future for you. Only the man who loves you will care about these things, will think about the future, of course, he does not want you to be eliminated by society, he certainly hopes that you can have better development, he hopes that you can live better and better, instead of living all the time.
2, care whether you spend money rationally
Some women feel that men who care about her spending money just don't love her, so they are very angry. In fact, it may not be like this, everyone is an ordinary person, there is no family property, every penny is hard earned, but now many women consume very irrationally, see what is on the Internet, whether they need it or not, whether their money is enough, even if they borrow money on the Internet, they have to buy it, on the surface they are bright and beautiful, in fact, they owe a lot of money.
So, sometimes men care about you spending money and not letting you buy things randomly, not because of stinginess, not because they don't love you, but because they love you very much, so he hopes that you can consume rationally, if it is really what you need, he will take the initiative to help you buy. He wants to have a future with you, so he doesn't want you to keep going wrong like this, he will care about this matter because he cares about you. If he doesn't care about you, he won't care about you at all.
3, care about your shortcomings
Everyone has shortcomings, but some people will correct them in time when they find out, and some people don't pay attention to them at all. A man who coaxes you with nice words all day and never says you are bad once, such a man coaxes you to be happy, but he does not love you.
A man who really cares about you naturally hopes that you are getting better and better, instead of liking you with hypocritical words all the time, some words he knows that you will be unhappy to hear, but he will still say, because although he will tolerate you, but the people outside may not tolerate you, what he says is actually for your own good.
Sometimes love is not something that can be explained in a sentence or two, it is not easy to meet a man who loves him deeply at the right age, and it takes courage to love someone deeply.
If a man cares particularly about these 4 things, it means that you have a very important position in his mind. Wondering if a man really loves you, the details of life and the way he treats you tends to be more credible than love words.
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