It can be said that Gao Yalin is one of the most advanced thinkers in the entertainment industry.
In the 1990s, Gao Yalin opened the first local restaurant in Shandong to introduce "Xinjiang cuisine" and also appeared on local TV news.
Not only that, he also partnered with friends to do online ordering before the invention of domestic food delivery software.
In addition to the research on "eating", in that era, Gao Yalin also developed his own car anti-theft device, which is more advanced than the current production.
Logically, with the above achievements, Gao Yalin can completely live a "man-to-man" life.
But why is he still struggling in show business?
Well, let's take a good look at his mental journey.
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In 1972, Gao Yalin was born in a family with a strong artistic atmosphere, his father was the director of the Zibo City Cultural and Labor Troupe in Shandong Province, and his mother worked as a choreographer in the troupe.
Gao Yalin had an older sister on top of her, but because her parents were too busy at work to take care of her, they sent her to her aunt's house for foster care.
When Gao Yalin was born, he was also sent to the third aunt's house for foster care like his sister.
When he was young, every weekend, the third aunt held him, and the eldest aunt held his sister, sending Gao Yalin and his sister to reunite with their parents.
Although Gao Yalin has an optimistic personality, after all, he is young and is very sad about his parents' long absence in his growth.
So many years later, Gao Yalin believed that the husband and wife must have a person who had to sacrifice their careers, otherwise they would not be able to devote their energy to taking care of their parents and children.
Most of the parents of that era pursued stick education, but Gao Yalin's parents believed that this method of education was wrong.
Gao Yalin has his own memory, he and his sister have not been scolded by their parents, let alone beaten.
The atmosphere of his childhood life was warm and rich, so that in the future, he had the courage and the courage to do what he wanted to do.
Since he and his sister were taken home, although their parents spent little time with them, the artistic atmosphere at home has always been strong.
Gao Yalin has loved playing guitar and singing since he was a child, and has played volleyball for 6 years.
After the second year of high school, Gao Yalin became the main force of the school volleyball team, and his ability was strong enough to guarantee Beijing Sport University.
He thought that the future of Kaobitus was unlimited, but his father did not think so:
"You are now convenient, but you will be a volleyball coach in the future, even if you do a good job to go to the national team, you can't play in your thirties, you are still a volleyball coach, you have seen the head in your life." 」
Father obviously knew him very well, knew that he hated a life that could see the head at a glance, and began to follow the temptation:
"Do you want to try the literary route?" If you study photography, it is possible that you can't pass the North Film Exam. Maybe you went to Beijing, you may have become a photographer, or a director, or an actor..."
Gao Yalin listened and listened, then followed his father's path and began to imagine the days after being admitted to the North Shadow.
He confidently filled in the North Film Choreography and Directing Department, but unfortunately his name fell to Sun Shan.
He did not believe in evil, so he planned to repeat the study for a year and fight the Northern Shadow again the next year.
However, in the face of Gao Yalin, who wanted to repeat the study, the principal was very dissatisfied.
Not dissatisfied with his qualifications, but with his overly "artistic" long hair.
The headmaster asked him to cut it, and he didn't cut it.
"Cut it!"
No cutting!
One after another, the two quarreled.
Gao Yalin was angry and stopped reading.
Without repeating the study and not being admitted to the school he wanted to go, Gao Yalin had only one last road left in front of him.
That's joining the army.
Because he could sing and dance, he was originally assigned to the electronic confrontation battalion and was selected to go to the military region's literary and art propaganda team.
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The following year, he was admitted to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts and became classmates with Hong Jiantao, Li Bin, and Sun Tao.
Soon after entering the school, Gao Yalin was a poor student in the eyes of the teacher, and he could not make up sketches, and he was still nervous about performing on stage.
In contrast, Hong Jiantao, who is in the same dormitory, is the "son of heavenly choice", not only understands people's feelings and sophistication, but also comes from a child star.
Hong Jiantao's rich acting experience is not to say, the family is still very rich, Gao Yalin's whole class has eaten and drunk on him.
One of the things that Gao Yalin was most impressed by was Hong Jiantao's shocking act on the day he first arrived at the bedroom.
On the day of the new student's admission, Hong Jiantao entered the dormitory with a shoe box.
As soon as the shoe box was opened, well, it was all money, enough for 50,000 yuan.
At that time, I blinded a few poor roommates, who not only had never seen so much money, but also had never seen money in a shoe box.
Although Gao Yalin's family is well-off, his living expenses are similar to those of other poor students, and Hong Jiantao is so rich that he soon became a "focal point" among the students.
Gao Yalin and Li Bin's brothers often rubbed Hong Jiantao's meals, and several of them became the best partners in college.
Near graduation, the Air Politics Repertory Theatre came to the military arts and prepared to select a few students to play some small roles in the drama "Bing Sheng Sun Wu".
After the curtain fell, the Air Politics Repertory Theatre felt that although he lacked acting experience, he was serious about his acting career to some point, so he felt that he was a talent that could be created, and handed An "olive branch" to Gao Yalin.
After graduation, Gao Yalin and Hong Jiantao both became members of the Air Politics Repertory Theatre.
But the difference is that Hong Jiantao, because of his rich acting experience, soon gained a place in the Air Politics Repertory Theatre.
Gao Yalin was lacking in human affection at that time, and in the years when he first joined the group, he had not been reused, and he was always assigned to insignificant roles.
In the 90s, the salary of the dragon set was unimaginably small, so that Gao Yalin could not support himself.
He had to do something else to make ends meet.
At that time, he had a friend who was opening a clothing store, and when the two met, Gao Yalin slapped his swollen face and put on one of his most beautiful clothes.
His friend saw his clothes light up and asked where he bought them and if he could help him buy them.
Gao Yalin had a clever move, thinking that this was also a way to make money, and he should go down.
In fact, the clothes on his body were not expensive, but they were bought casually in a remote shop in Wangfujing.
After that, Gao Yalin was responsible for helping his friends buy goods in Wangfujing, transporting them to other places to sell, and began to buy and sell upside down clothes.
People are always like this, they earn a little, they want to earn a little more.
While pouring clothes, he also sold wine.
In the process of selling wine and selling, Gao Yalin gradually understood the sophistication of human feelings, and also added skills to his future performances full of life.
Such a life is unstable after all, Gao Yalin thought of a trick - to open a hotel.
One is because the hotel's income and expenditure are stable, and the other is because he loves to eat too much.
Gao Yalin loves Xinjiang food and wants to open a Xinjiang-style restaurant.
He searched and searched all over the country, and finally decided on the site of his hometown in Shandong.
He first asked a friend to choose a chef in Xinjiang, and then found a three-story building in Shandong, from decoration to operation.
When the store first opened, it was also on the news channel of Shandong TELEVISION.
After seeing the TV station call his restaurant "the first restaurant in Shandong to introduce Xinjiang cuisine", Gao Yalin was very excited, and even excited to serve the food himself.
Then he began to wonder, can he make an online order?
He met a big sister who made his own web page, and the two of them began to engage in online ordering, the big sister provided technical support, and he went out to the hotel to support.
In that era when there was no ordering software in China, Gao Yalin's thinking could be described as very advanced.
But after half a year, the two no longer cooperated, the reason is still too high cost, not cost-effective.
Business in the shop is booming, and the profit at the end of the first year is also very good.
But the problem is elsewhere.
The hospitality of Shandong people is not vain, as can be seen from his family.
His family often brings friends and family to their restaurants to eat, because they are opened by themselves, the taste is good, the business is good, and they don't care about the cost when they eat and drink.
One after another, most of Gao Yalin's profits for a year were "eaten" by his family.
Forget it, this restaurant is still closed.
Gao Yalin said as he helplessly helped his glasses.
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Soon after, he began to think about car alarms again, and almost became a scientist.
At that time, his friend brought an American-made car alarm, and he looked at it, thought he could change it better, and started to modify it.
He made a remote control device, which can be set outside the car to preheat or cool in advance, if the remote control device is not allowed, someone steals the car and drives away, the car will automatically lock the car and stop.
But it was the 90s, and there were very few private cars, and if you wanted to sell them, you had to find public cars.
At the beginning of the market, Gao Yalin was full of energy and personally went to the factory to supervise the work and sell it nationwide.
But at that time, this alarm was considered "chicken ribs" by most people, and for half a year, Gao Yalin often ate "closed door soup".
On a cold night, Gao Yalin drank piping hot liquor and thought of his "actor dream" when he graduated.
Under the influence of alcohol, he made a bold decision to study directing.
On the show, Gao Yalin said the reason for further study:
This is the way back I left for myself, if I can get in, I can direct myself, and the students in the class are also directors, and they can also use me to act.
In 1998, the General Political Department commissioned Professor Lu Xuegong of military art to train a group of young directors.
The entry requirements are quite stringent:
Graduated from a professional performance college, more than 5 years of work experience, under the age of 30, unmarried, only 6 people are recruited.
Lu Xuegong is the class teacher of Gao Yalin University, and under his recommendation, Gao Yalin successfully squeezed into the door of the directing department.
In 2000, Gao Yalin was close to graduation.
At this time, the director of the TV series "Hero of the Troubled World" found him and hoped that he would play the role of "Yan Yi".
The role of "Yan Yi" allowed the director and the audience to see his professional ability, but also "imprisoned" him.
Over the next two or three years, he played the villain of more than a dozen plays, during which he did not have a single positive role to find him.
It wasn't until the "Family with Children" crew found him that Gao Yalin began the road of transformation.
When Song Dandan knew that he played "Xia Donghai", he was very resistant:
"This is a villain, how can I let him play it, I want to smoke him as soon as I see him!"
Later, when he entered the play and saw him with a soft personality, Song Dandan did not resist, but he still wanted to smoke him.
When filming the first part of "Family with Children", Gao Yalin was just 28 years old, and he was about to be called Daddy by 9-year-old Yang Zi and Zhang Yishan, and you can imagine how active the atmosphere on the set was.
When filming the second part, Gao Yalin did not want to go, it felt like coaxing a child, annoyed to the head, but a little reluctant to these three "children".
With the empty alleys after the broadcast of "Family with Children", Gao Yalin also became a household name.
In 2005, he and his friends went to a tea house for tea, and there were originally seven people in the group, but it turned out that there was a girl with a gentle and quiet personality, who was a friend of one of them.
The girl, Named Shi Wei, was a fledgling actor, 11 years younger than Gao Yalin, sitting quietly beside them and not interjecting.
The first time Gao Yalin saw her, he wanted to marry her home, because she grew up on his aesthetic point from top to bottom.
Gao Yalin thought that she was already a star, so she should also show some excitement.
But she didn't, she just looked at him calmly for a few moments and continued to drink tea.
Gao Yalin was anxious, so he tried to invite these friends to take her out to play, and the number of people decreased one by one, and finally only asked her out.
Gao Yalin, who has reached the goal, begins the routine when Wei:
I don't have that much time for you and my feelings to heat up slowly because of my career, and I can only tell you that I like you a lot. If you agree, I will call you tomorrow and answer it, and if you don't want to, you will answer my call.
When he said this, it was already past eleven o'clock in the evening, and he was sending her home.
When he arrived home, it was already past twelve o'clock, and he immediately called Shi Wei.
Shi Wei thought he had forgotten something and answered the phone.
As a result, Gao Yalin began to play Lai:
You see you answered my phone, = it's the next day.
In this way, Gao Yalin "pit and abducted" to the people he wanted.
In order to smile at Bo Shiwei, he bought her a three-bedroom house before marriage, and the signature was only her, which was her premarital property.
He also planned and directed a comedy film "Chasing Love" for her, with her as the heroine.
This is Shi Wei's first work and her work.
Because in his view, there must be a person to make sacrifices after marriage, whether it is a career or whatever.
Because in this line, if both people only care about their careers, parents and children cannot take care of them, and he does not want parents and future children to repeat the life of his childhood waiting for his family to come home.
In 2008, with the wishes of relatives and friends, the two stepped into the marriage hall.
But they never want children, on the show, Gao Yalin said the reason for not wanting children:
I always think that I must be a very spoiled child, if I have children, I am willing to stay with children, if there are children, I will not be able to work at all.
After marriage, without children, he focused on his career and family.
Shi Wei couldn't cook at first, and Gao Yalin's mother didn't like her for a while:
"A daughter-in-law who spends a lot of money to marry back will not even cook a meal."
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem for eternity, but Gao Yalin has solved it very well.
When her mother verbally attacked her, Gao Yalin first spoke from his wife's point of view:
She's still young.
The mother said:
"Then she will always have a time to grow up, and she will always be a mother to teach her children in the future."
After Gao Yalin thought about it for a while, he felt that there was some truth, so he took a euphemistic approach to coax Shi Wei:
Women cook beautifully, and you are gifted and intelligent at first glance.
Shi Wei was deceived again, because of a sentence to become a chef.
Men learn a little, Gao Yalin's "pit and abduction" dafa is suitable for all ages.
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