Dong Qing said: "Everything in the world is encountered. When cold meets warmth, there is rain; when winter meets spring, there is age; when heaven meets earth, there is eternity; when people meet people, they have life. ”
Huang Qiuyan met Jet Li, and she didn't know whether it was fate or robbery.
At the age of 13, Huang Qiuyan met Jet Li, who was two years younger than herself, in the Beijing professional martial arts team.
At that time, she was a rich and wealthy family, a poor boy, a woman's natural maternal protection desire prevailed, and "loving him" seemed to have become Huang Qiuyan's vocation.
Send him food and drink when he is poor; keep his family business for him at his peak; accompany him to a foreign country when he is lonely...
As she said, "We practiced together for twenty years, the relationship developed naturally, life was plain, although there was not so much romance, but as long as I was with him, I would be very happy because his temper and personality were very good." ”
Huang Qiuyan's wishful thinking did not exchange jet Li's dead heart, a "Dragon in the End of the World" made the Small Family suddenly fall apart, and the emergence of Li Zhi directly caused it to fall apart.
Now many years later, the once beautiful Li Zhi has become an untrimmed child and her mother, Jet Li has become the "old predecessor" in the mouth of the small fresh meat, and Huang Qiuyan has also walked to her own homecoming in a half-dream and half-awake.
I would like to ask: Has she had a good life all these years?
01.
In 1961, Huang Qiuyan was born in Beijing into a family of literary and artistic artists, his father was the choreographer of the Military Region's Cultural and Labor Troupe, and his mother was one of the best dancers in the Song and Dance Troupe.
With generous salary subsidies, a favorable growth environment and the infiltration of art and culture, her childhood life can be described as "very comfortable".
Jet Li, who was two years younger than her, was miserable.
He has no prominent origins and no high-profile background, but is just a silhouette of a family whose father died early and whose mother was struggling to pull her children.
Five children with five mouths, and a pair of old people on top, in order to run the family, Li's mother can only find ways to save money, wearing torn clothes and picking up old shoes is normal.
Jet Li is just when he is growing up, the little man has to pick up the leftover clothes worn by his sister and brother, in order to cover the pants pocket style on the women's pants, he often covers the side of the crowd with embarrassment, and his self-esteem trembles strongly in front of reality.
At the age of 11, Huang Qiuyan was sent by her parents to the Shichahai Martial Arts School in Beijing, and two years later she joined the professional martial arts team.
In just a few years, he has won the Beijing Wushu Competition Snake Fist and Double Sword Awards, and it is not an exaggeration to say that she is a "strange girl".
In 1971, at the age of eight, Jet Li entered the Shichahai Sports School and became the same brother and sister with Huang Qiuyan.
The clever appearance, the ability to understand and the tragic life made Huang Qiuyan feel pity, she always intentionally or unintentionally helped the Li family, and usually helped Li's mother to work and secretly stuffed money to the other party.
Huang Mu did not understand after reading it, these two people were not biological siblings, there was no need to bother so much.
In the face of questioning, she replied, "The conditions in his family are relatively poor, and his mother has raised several children to grow up, which is actually very bitter." ”
In this way, while the two were training together, they cheered each other up and helped each other, and the teenager's arms became stronger little by little, and the girl's spring heart was also fluttering a little.
The weather is unpredictable, due to long-term overload training,
In 1979, Jet Li had to leave the sports school to find another job, but a year later the film and television circle extended an olive branch to him.
Inland plans to prepare for the filming of "Shaolin Temple", the male protagonist must not only look good, but also have to be brave and strategic.
After layers of screening, Jet Li stood out.
At that time, Huang Qiuyan still had to walk the old road, and she may not realize the power of this movie, nor will she know how big the future stage of her sweetheart is.
In 1982, "Shaolin Temple" was broadcast.
How hot is it? In that era when information was not developed, from small towns and villages to the outskirts of cities, almost everyone had seen this movie, and the ticket price of a few cents earned a full 160 million.
Even Wang Baoqiang left home to learn martial arts because of "Shaolin Temple", which led to a later step to ascend to the heavens.
Huang Qiuyan was happy for Jet Li in her heart, but she couldn't help but secretly feel hurt.
In the second half of 1982, "Shaolin Temple 2" began filming, jet Li recommended her as the heroine, so Huang Qiuyan entered the circle.
The reason why I did this is not all because of love, but more because of gratitude, "I think I broke up with others at that time, and I was very sorry for others." 」 After introducing her as the heroine, my heart was solid, because I succeeded, and I also hope that you will succeed! ”
Two years later, the two co-produced "Shaolin Boy" again, and the "Three Phoenixes" played by Huang Qiuyan was charming and affectionate, and many viewers liked her.
Not only did the audience like her, she also liked herself.
During that time, the two were in full swing, while experiencing the pain and joy of filming, while feeling the rise and fall of "love".
As in the past when she was training in the sports school, Huang Qiuyan took good care of the little master and disciple, and the little master and brother also accepted this love peacefully.
Until 1985.
That year, when filming "North and South Shaolin", Jet Li accidentally fractured his bones and suffered serious leg injuries.
Huang Qiuyan, who learned the news, accompanied her like a mother, and she immediately gave up all her work at hand and washed her hands to make soup for the other party before and after saddle, which can be described as doing her best and working hard.
The mother on the side looked at it and said to Jet Li, "This woman has a Wangfu phase, and you have bad luck when you are injured, you can marry this woman to rush to ChongXi." ”
On the one hand, he felt ashamed of the other party's care, on the other hand, he was convinced of GanMa's speculation, and he hesitated to marry Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan.
02.
The marriage was not expected at first.
Although Jet Li is no longer the poor boy of the past, the age difference between the two and the personality that do not match make Huang Mama really pinch a sweat,
"Are you two the right fit?"
Huang Qiuyan, who has been overwhelmed by love, will not care about these, "I have practiced and studied with him since I was a child, my feelings are very deep, and the age problem will not affect each other's lives." ”
And just like that, they got married.
On the wedding day, there were no parents of both sides, let alone a banquet of one hundred tables in the Ten Mile Ocean Field, and some were just a pair of Bi people simply taking a form. Think about it, what girl wouldn't want to be a petite princess at a wedding?
The wedding is simple, and the wedding is more low-key.
In order to better take care of the family, Huang Qiuyan gradually retired and let her husband Jet Li act as a forward.
This means that all the stage lights mostly hit others, and only her back and loneliness belong to her.
Fast forward to the 1990s, affected by the fever of going abroad, Jet Li ran to Los Angeles with his wife and children, eager to open up a world.
Like Wang Qiming in "Beijingers in New York", he was very uncomfortable when he first arrived in the United States, and he was even more stretched after taking out a loan to buy a house, and Huang Qiuyan's lack of work naturally did not help anything.
Her second daughter was born in 1989.
A family of four living in a foreign country is very uncomfortable, in addition to taking care of the children, she also has to settle the family affairs, the disadvantage of "male lord outside the female lead" is that once you accept the setting of "housewife", you have to willingly "taste" the suffering you should suffer.
At this moment, an event that affected Huang Qiuyan's life happened.
03.
In 1989, Luo Wei invited Li Lian to perform in "The Dragon in the End of the World", which was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. If you can use this to kill back in China, the fame and strength will be greatly enhanced, and Jet Li can also regain the dignity of a kung fu superstar.
He agreed without hesitation.
Huang Qiuyan did not say a word, although she was about to face a foreign country after less than three years of marriage, she still went with him.
During the filming, Jet Li met Li Zhi, the woman who won the miss Asia championship, which was rated by Ni Kuang as a sexy special object of "50 years of rare beauty", and thus entered the other party's heart.
Jet Li described Li Zhi this way, "After meeting her, I found that my love for her was so deep that I could give all my fame and status. But I didn't feel that way about the last relationship, and I didn't understand what love was at that time. ”
Until many years later, he still could not suppress his inner love and enthusiasm.
He threatens to know him better than his own mother and sister, and that he has an unexpected heart for his views on everything.
On the other hand, Huang Qiuyan's feeling is light.
"I have eighty percent love for Lee Chi, but only twenty percent for her."
When the two relationships are clearly marked with numbers, everything seems so cold.
What had once been a dead heart and a single-minded effort to stay with him had become so worthless.
Huang Qiuyan's efforts completely lost the East Flowing Water.
Soon Jet Li filed for divorce.
Although Huang Qiuyan on the other end of the phone was like five thunderbolts, sobbing sobbing that she could not speak, she still agreed to the other party's request.
If the person you love deeply doesn't get love in yourself, what else can you ask for?
After the divorce she lived in the United States with her two daughters. Because I didn't have the money to pay the mortgage, I simply moved to the basement.
The turbulent and wandering days made Huang Qiuyan suffer a lot, and the once proud little princess became a sad and pitiful low-level person.
It is said that during that time, she often ran to the church to cry and complain, facing the pressure of life and the torture of love, it was inevitable that there would be times when she could not think.
But even if it is painful, she will not say bad things about Jet Li to outsiders, only attributing everything to fate.
Later, a well-meaning person took her to her basement, and this stay was 10 years.
In the past 10 years, Jet Li's life has also been turned upside down.
After the divorce, he expressed his heart to Li Zhi, and the other party did not immediately agree, but reached a ten-year contract with him.
"If you still love me as much as you do after 10 years, then we're together."
In this decade, Jet Li has never let go of his love for Li Zhi.
After Li Zhi failed to do business in the sea, he decisively signed himself to Xiang Huaqiang. The money exchanged to help each other get through the difficulties, and their love has become deeper in this storm.
Li Zhi's failure hurts, but Huang Qiuyan is not so lucky.
After a few years of wandering, she sent her children back to China and worked alone in a foreign country.
In order to earn money to survive, she studied beauty in a friend's shop. While attracting customers, while learning skills, after saving some money, he opened a barber shop and lived the life of ordinary people.
04.
Occasionally, Huang Qiuyan will return to China to visit her children and the deceased.
When I met Jet Li's mother, she would always take care of her as well as before, talking like a mother and daughter about home and talking about the mountains.
Whenever the mother-in-law complained that her son should not divorce her, Huang Qiuyan would always comfort the other party, "Lian Jie has his own ideas, you must not blame him." ”
One can't help but wonder: What is the power that can make this woman face the blow so peacefully?
Someone once commented on Jet Li's concept of love, "Thin affection and deep affection can go hand in hand without contradicting one person's body." ”
It is true that before falling in love with Li Zhi, he was not too good for Huang Qiuyan, and the friendship between them was more like making up and repaying;
After falling in love with Li Zhi, he was loyal to one person with a dead heart, and how many warblers and swallows in the entertainment industry only passed in front of his eyes, never put it on his heart, and that deep affection belonged to later generations.
Now Jet Li is already more than half a hundred years old, and whenever he is interviewed by the media, he always forgets to mention his wife, saying that she has paid too much for the family, and her kindness cannot be repaid for a lifetime.
Li Zhi is great, but is the Huang Qiuyan who was left behind pitiful?
If she hadn't met Jet Li, she might have trained in sports school for a lifetime without getting into the circle.
Or maybe find an honest and stable person to marry and have children.
No matter what kind of ending, it will not suffer a lot of hardship.
Grievances and intolerance, Bi Lizhi is only a lot more.
Fortunately, the supreme treasure belonging to Huang Qiuyan arrived late.
When she opened a barber shop in the United States, she met Mr. Wang, the owner of the restaurant, who was also divorced, and when he divorced, he gave all his property to his ex-wife, and then ran to the other party to take care of the ex-wife after he fell ill, and the infatuation was very similar to Huang Qiuyan.
She originally did not intend to continue her marriage, but suddenly it was like the door of her heart was opened. It is difficult to accept it when fate taps its heart.
In June 2005, Huang Qiuyan married Mr. Wang in the United States.
After marriage, the two ran their own stores and rented a house in San Francisco. Although life is not very rich and expensive, it is also comfortable and comfortable.
There was no suspicion, no trepidation, and all the humility and grievances were swept away.
In 2015, the crew of "Shaolin Kid" reunited.
This time Huang Qiuyan and Jet Li both came. The media was eager to capture the embarrassment of the two men, and even more to see how they would react when they were together.
Unexpectedly, Huang Qiuyan not only wore sunglasses throughout the whole process, but also had little intersection with Jet Li, and even took group photos far away.
There were four people in the middle, as if hiding mountains and seas.
Maybe she didn't want to hide something, but she was afraid that leaning together would make those old memories come out again, or become the talking point after tea, not only to find herself unhappy, but also to make the other party uncomfortable, why bother?
Watching from a distance and living quietly may be the best gift for that period of time.
"If I hadn't met you, where would I have been?" How are your days? Is life to be cherished? Maybe knowing someone, living an ordinary life, I don't know if there will be love sweet? Let the time rush by, I only care about you..."
Throughout Huang Qiuyan's life, it is like Teresa Teng's "I Only Care About You".
The love and hate of her youth was exchanged for the regret of the first half of her life, and she was still wishful thinking about Jet Li after all.
Fortunately, in the second half of his life, he found true love, so he did not waste this passion.
I hope she can be truly happy!