On February 12, 2022, in Shanwei City, Guangdong Province, a woman's boyfriend was eating out and met an old lady who came to beg, they were unwilling to give alms, and the old woman actually said that they were bad eggs.
Originally, the woman saw the old lady walking up to them with a large iron bowl, thinking that she was hungry and wanted to ask them for a hot meal.
So when the old lady came to them and did not speak to them, she took the initiative to pick up the plate containing the dishes and prepared to pour some dishes for her.
Unexpectedly, the old lady actually said to her, "I have eaten enough, I need some money." ”
She opened her purse and took out three one-dollar bills and put them into the large iron bowl that the old lady had taken, but the old lady still did not know enough, thought she gave less, and returned the money to her.
She asked the old lady how much money she needed, and the old lady said, "You give 20 yuan, it's really not possible to give 10 yuan, only give three yuan, you are too stingy, right?" ”
Just as she was pulling money out of her bag and getting ready to give it to the old lady, her boyfriend stopped her.
His boyfriend saw that the old lady was chattering, and the tone was hurtful, worried that something would happen, and as a result, it would be difficult to argue in the end, so he took out his mobile phone to record the old lady's every move.
When the old lady saw the woman's boyfriend, stopped the woman from giving her money, and pulled out her mobile phone to shoot, the old lady became angry.
She said to the woman's boyfriend, "You're such a badass. ”
The old lady's words amused the woman, and the woman laughed.
The old lady begged fruitlessly and turned to leave, only to go out and take two steps back and say to them, "Badass." ”
Afterwards, the woman's boyfriend posted the matter to netizens and said that giving alms, giving more to less is his own business, and he cannot export hurt people because he gives less.
For this matter, several netizens said: "This kind of old man is very hateful, don't give her money, her family is very strong." ”
Another netizen said that many people had been scolded by her for not giving away money to the old man, or because there were too few gifts to give.
After understanding this matter, it is not difficult for us to see that this old man does not understand that giving is the truth of affection and not giving is duty.
When others give away their belongings, they think that she is an old man, and they are still begging outside at night, and they think that she is pitiful, so they give her gifts.
And it is not the responsibility of others, there is an obligation to give her the property, after all, it is not related to her, other people's property is also hard-earned money, why give it to her? But she didn't understand that.
Otherwise she would not have been able to export her wounds after begging fruitlessly, which did not deserve pity or sympathy at all.
Respect for the elderly and love for the young is a virtue that many of us young people possess, provided that the old man's words and deeds are worthy of respect.
Just like the old people who pick up waste on the street, although they turn over the garbage every day, their income is not high, and they even barely solve the problem of food and clothing, and they have no income, but they deserve respect.
Because although they are scavenging, they at least rely on their own efforts, through their own labor, and not like the old man who came to beg, who relied on showing pity to gain sympathy and let others give alms.
If you meet an elderly man with able-bodied limbs who comes to beg, will you give them a gift?
