Wu Zhihong: The fundamental driving force of life lies in leaving.
Children will one day grow up and leave the arms of their parents.
The Cheng family in the TV series "Holiday Warm Yangyang 2" has 2 daughters, they are Cheng Man and Cheng Shu, the two sisters have been born beautifully since childhood, but their personalities and abilities are completely different.
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Xueba is the label of Cheng Man (played by Liu Tao) from childhood to adulthood.
Cheng Man was born in an ordinary family in the northeast, his father Cheng Sanmin (played by Ni Dahong) is a reindeer player, and his mother (played by Ni Ping) is just a housewife.
From childhood to adulthood, Cheng Man is someone else's child, and he never has to worry about his parents when learning. As the second eldest in the family, Cheng Man has an older brother above him and a younger sister named Cheng Shu (played by Zhang Jiani) below.
In such a family with many children, Cheng Man has both the pressure to surpass his brother and the responsibility of taking care of his little sister. So she developed a strong personality.
Character determines destiny and also establishes her excellence. She knew that in such an ordinary family, only reading could change her destiny.
From primary school to graduate from a prestigious university, Cheng Man has walked very smoothly on this road. In her bones, everything needs to be worked on her own.
Because her parents didn't have the capital to help her. In her bones, she actually dislikes the customs and habits of her hometown, especially the two-person transfer. Because the voices of the two people often disturbed her reading environment, she wanted to leave her hometown even more.
Relying on his own efforts, Cheng Man was more determined to go out and see the larger world.
She did it too, becoming a strong woman. Cheng Man is a senior executive at a large company in Shanghai, with a daughter, and a nanny at home.
Wayward Cheng Shu chapter
Cheng Shu is the old man in the family. Born from a young age, she is more delicate and lovely, more beautiful than her sister Cheng Man. At the same time, he is also the most favored child in the family.
Cheng Shu's personality is lively, and he often coddles his parents and asks his sister for help when he encounters things. She was a girl who lived freely.
Cheng Shu has been a scumbag since he was a child, with poor academic performance and a bit of admiration for vanity. Single-mindedly want to be an actor.
Cheng Shu did not work hard enough since he was a child, and he loved vanity, and was often looked down upon by his sister Cheng Man. In fact, in her bones, she especially hopes to be recognized by her family, and she hopes to be able to raise her eyebrows in front of her sister.
This is also why Cheng Shu will deliberately let Kong Lingqi (played by Chen He) perform a duo turn in front of his sister. Seeing her sister being teased, she blossomed.
Cheng Shu became an actor in Hengdian as he wished, but he delayed his career because of his feelings. Because of the actions of her ex-boyfriend Wei Qi's company, Cheng Shu can no longer be an actor.
After the failure of the horizontal drift, Cheng Shu took the 7 million yuan from the sale of the house, returned to his hometown in discouragement, and opened a homestay.
Cheng Shu is a casual girl, and the biggest purpose of opening a homestay is to hope that everyone can find such a human wonderland. The idea is to blend into nature.
eccentricity
Cheng Man and Cheng Shu, the daughters of the 2 Cheng family, have 2 different treatments, which are naturally biased by their parents.
Susan, the author of "Original Family", said: When a person sees his parents dislike him when he is a child, he will not hate his parents, but feel that he is very poor to be unloved. The eccentricity of parents, the price is that the children are silently bearing.
Cheng Man's price is reflected in the parent-child relationship between her and her daughter Tian Shuang. Because Cheng Man has not received unconditional love from his parents since he was a child, only peace of mind and excellence can be exchanged for attention.
Cheng Man wants to be the pride of his parents in his bones.
Therefore, she is harsh on Tian Shuang's education, and she does not know how to spoil children. She thinks that she treats her child harshly, and sending her to a prestigious university is love, but she ignores the child's inner feelings.
Although the family hired a nanny, she still let her daughter wash the dishes by herself, and from an early age, she asked her daughter to be independent, exercise her life and spiritual independence, and prepare for future study abroad.
Cheng Man's strong and strict education of his daughter stems from his inner escape from the original family. She didn't want to live a tedious and uneventful life in her hometown. She's going to stand on a high place and be a shining person.
Cheng Man has been a child who does not have to worry about his parents since he was a child. In the eyes of her parents, her eldest daughter is beautiful, confident and capable.
Parents are like this, often favoring small and incompetent children.
As soon as Cheng Man returned home, his parents turned on the quarrel mode. Especially the father Cheng Sanmin, when he saw the eldest daughter return, he immediately had to leave home again.
The parents did not warmly embrace their daughter Cheng Man, who had not been seen for a long time, and the parent-child relationship was very distant.
Over the years, Cheng Man has become accustomed to working alone, and he is also accustomed to taking money to show filial piety to his parents. She didn't have much of a relationship with her parents.
Compared with the coldness of the eldest daughter, the parents are very fond of the younger daughter. First look at his father, Cheng Sanmin, who will secretly take a passbook to fund his youngest daughter Cheng Shu, who has failed in business.
Seeing that his younger daughter Cheng Shu was "bullied", he immediately waved his horse whip over, and he gave all his fatherly love to his younger daughter.
After seeing Liao Ran (played by Yang Jie), he immediately changed his mind. At a glance, liao ran's business ability and character were seen, and he tacitly accepted him as his son-in-law.
Who wouldn't want to have a father like that?
The same daughter, in front of the mother, the treatment is also very different. In the face of the younger daughter, although the mother criticizes the daughter in her mouth, she does not give face at all.
In fact, in front of the eldest daughter, he has been speaking for his little daughter. She knew that the eldest daughter was soft-hearted, and used her own routine to let Cheng Man offer to help her sister pay off her debts.
The youngest daughter Cheng Shu has a close relationship with her parents, and has the help of her older brothers and sisters since she was a child, and she has also been favored by her parents.
The favored are always fearless. It is because of the harvest of countless love and luck that Cheng Shu has the willful confidence and capital.
Different fates
Two daughters who grew up in the same family, because of their parents' eccentricity, have also created their different views of fate and love.
To a certain extent, although Cheng Shu's career is not as good as her sister Cheng Man, in fact, she is happier than Cheng Man. There is a handsome ex-boyfriend who is dedicated and chasing the abuse, and there is also a rich fan who has been chasing love for thousands of miles.
There is also a pair of parents with a horse whip who always have to wipe her ass for her. There is also a hard-mouthed sister and a staff member who is serious about righteousness.
There are 2 men in Cheng Shu's life, and they are very good. Ex-boyfriend Wei Qi, for Cheng Shu also pushed off the drama contract, because Cheng Shu said a word, he bought a house for her. Although the down payment is half of each, it is also full of sincerity.
Later, the two people separated due to a misunderstanding.
Cheng Shu's life has another fan, he is the chef Liao Ran. Liao Ran also has an identity, is the boss of a milk tea company, worth at least 8 figures, typical of the rich.
A person who graduated from a prestigious university is willing to come to such a remote homestay. Liao Ran naturally came to pursue love.
When Liao Ran was studying abroad, it was Cheng Shu who gave him spiritual encouragement and comfort.
Liao Ran is not only a successful man in his career, but also a dedicated man, who has only talked about 2 girlfriends, all because of the end of a long-distance relationship.
With a man like Liao Ran silently guarding around, Cheng Shu is definitely a happy woman.
Spoiled by her parents since childhood, Cheng Shu does things casually and arbitrarily, and she is also a little willful in her handling of love. Finally, he had his own true love. Her fate was very different from her sister's.
Cheng Man's first marriage was very unhappy. After she and Tian Kejian got married, their values were inconsistent. Cheng Man likes to go to big cities to work hard and give her daughter better educational resources.
Tian Kejian likes the ease and blandness of his hometown and does not like to work hard.
An artist without works, this is also Cheng Man's evaluation of Tian Kejian. In her bones, she looked down on her unmotivated ex-husband.
Cheng Man, who is strong and confident, is also harsh on love, and it is even more conditional.
In the handling of feelings, she does not have the casual arbitrariness of her sister Cheng Shu, and is more of a trade-off of reality. Because she can't afford to lose, there are no parents behind her back to cover her.
In terms of career, Cheng Man may be stronger than Cheng Shu. In love, she definitely lost to Cheng Shu. The stronger the woman, the more vulnerable she is inside.
The original family is sometimes also an original sin, and the parents' unconscious eccentricity also creates different fates between the 2 sisters.
Cheng Man is also the only one who can redeem and heal himself.
The road, to walk on your own. Bitter, to survive on your own. Life does not wait for the glory of the out. Only spelled out as wonderful as Cheng Man.