What is temperament, and is there a relationship between appearance and temperament?
The first impression of a person is definitely good looks, or beautiful or ugly, or mediocre.
And the temperament of this thing, can not see, can not touch, purely give people an aura, can feel the energy emitted by this person from the inside out.
Speaking of temperament will make me think of a person - Zhang Aijia
Zhang Aijia was born in 1953, this year has been 68 years old, this age of people, no one has been able to escape the erosion of the years, wrinkles can be seen everywhere on the face, but the temperament in her bones, but has never faded, but with the increase of age more and more precipitation, glow.
Some people may not be convinced, thinking that it is just because she is a star, and must have spent a lot of money to maintain herself, can it be the same as ordinary people.
If you think so, it is really underestimating others, good maintenance can only be said to be a small repair, a good inside will always have a pillar, supporting themselves, lasting, brilliant.
In her relationship, there are two stories that cannot be avoided.
Speaking of the song "Childhood", the first impression is definitely Luo Dayou, few people know that the original song of this song is actually Zhang Aijia.
In 1977, the two met when they collaborated on "Shining Days", and Luo Dayou was not well-known in the music industry at that time, and he had already begun to write songs for her.
Her first two music albums, "Maybe" and "Childhood", have songs carefully created for her by Luo Dayou, especially "Childhood", "The Story of Time" and so on, which are widely circulated.
Zhang Aijia said: "Luo Dayou's unique view of things and his madness about music are the most heartwarming to her. ”
Caizi and beauty are always the most reminiscent of floating, and they also naturally came together, during the year and a half of love, Luo Dayou wrote her a lot of songs, the feelings are sincere, the songs are also warm, and the love between the two is also as one of the songs "Little Sister" said: "We have a warm past, a confused present and an unknown future." ”
After separating from Luo Dayou, Li Zongsheng came to her side, and she had this magic power, which attracted the two music godfathers to be fascinated by her.
In 1985, the 40th anniversary of Taiwan's end of Japanese colonialism, Zhang Aijia gathered more than 60 well-known singers to co-compose and sing the famous public welfare song "Tomorrow Will Be Better".
It was here that Zhang Aijia discovered Li Zongsheng, who could only sing at this time.
Later, Li Zongsheng created the album "Busy and Blind" for Zhang Aijia, and also starred in the movie "The Most Missed Season" together, playing a couple.
Even though they never admitted to a relationship, gossip kept coming out, and everyone could see that they had experienced many stories together.
Years later, at the 2006 Li Zongsheng concert, Zhang Aijia attended as a guest, and on the stage, she asked him: "Have you ever loved me?" ”
Li Zongsheng did not answer, in response, choked and sang a song "The Price of Love":
Let's go, let's go, life inevitably goes through painful struggles
Go, go, find a home for your heart
I have also been sad and weeping, and I have also been heartbroken, which is the price of love
In addition to these emotional rights and wrongs, Zhang Aijia also tried her best in her personal career, in addition to the identity of the singer, she is also an actor, director, screenwriter, producer, using her own methods to interpret different identities.
Filmed comedies such as "Best Partner", co-starred with Zhou Runfa in "The Story of Ah Lang"; "My Grandpa" won the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress; when starring in the movie "BiyunTian", he won the Golden Horse Award for Best Supporting Actress, etc., "The Long Day" won the Film Award and so on.
In total, more than 100 films have been shot, leaving an indelible mark on the Chinese film industry.
She said this when she won the Lifetime Achievement Award at the Asian Film Awards: "When I joined Jiahe, my boss told me: 'You're not pretty, you're not on camera.'" But God gave me a lesson of being diligent, and I was more diligent than others. ”
Just as she said, she did not stagnate because of her physical disadvantages, but chose to use diligence to make up for her shortcomings, and constantly cultivate herself, so that she would eventually become such a temperamental beauty.
Throughout Zhang Aijia's life, casual and indulgent, he has talked about countless loves, sung countless songs, made countless movies, and lived the life he wanted.
We ordinary girls do not need to compare with the stars in appearance, we can find it back elsewhere, we don't have to worry about our appearance, our appearance will eventually grow old with age, and the temperament is something that everyone can learn through the day after tomorrow.
Wear makeup
Wearing makeup is related to aesthetics, and aesthetics is a skill that takes time to develop.
If you are not confident enough in your own clothing, you can start with imitation, you can refer to some fashion magazines, or look at some big V specially for wearing and makeup, see more, imitate more, and gradually there will be aesthetic insights, and eventually you will find a style that suits you.
In "The Female Devil Head Wearing PRADA", although the female devil miranda is more than 50 years old, she really deserves the aura of the female devil.
Makeup and costumes perfectly set off her capable, heroic and unapproachable queen temperament.
And when Andy first entered the company, she was an ordinary girl who didn't know anything, wearing makeup and wearing casually.
Finally, under the tutelage of Miranda, she eventually became a strong woman in the workplace with an aura of one meter and eight meters.
Body
Many girls have developed various bad posture habits when they are studying, such as head extension, hunchback, improper walking posture and so on.
This kind of will especially affect the temperament, just imagine you see a person walking always with his head down and his back, how will you think, is it that this person feels particularly unconfident, no spirit.
Many people think that girls who practice dance are very temperamental, yes, a large part of the reason is related to their posture.
Long-term dance practice allows them to maintain a posture of raising their heads and chests, and this state of stretching out will give people a visual feeling like a flower blooming, and the temperament will naturally unfold with the body.
Here I recommend a dance course that can be taught by myself, "Beautiful Ballet", B station has it, as long as you can stick to the practice, the effect is appropriate.
This is the founder Mary, can you imagine this is a mother who has given birth to three babies?
Fill your heart
Having said the external changes, the next step is the most important point.
This is the most important point, if a person has no ink in his stomach, no experience, the inside is inevitably empty and poor, and the reaction on the outside is that there is no appearance, emptiness, and even no table.
"Wrapped in a coarse cloth, there is poetry and bookishness in the belly."
This sentence comes from Su Shi's "Farewell to Dong Chuan", even if you wear coarse cloth and linen clothes to spend your days, but the talent cannot be hidden, this temperament will naturally make people look brilliant.
No matter what stage of life you are in, having goods in your belly is always the most important, which is the most important confidence to support you.
This commodity can be your knowledge, it can be your experience, it can be your experience, they can all help you support the inside.
Work well, study well, live in the moment, and one day you will naturally look back and find that you have long been the person you envy.
- Happiness has a way, your emotional backing