In 2021, Hou Peichen turned 42 years old.
Married for nearly 10 years, when the mother is 7 years, when she faces the camera, she is still gentle and gentle, with the most perfect sitting posture, saying the most appropriate words. She is still the most perfect anchor.
In the newly broadcast "Mother-in-law and Mother", Hou Peichen abandoned the identity of the anchor and faced the camera as a wife, a daughter, and a daughter-in-law. In the camera, she subverts her perfection as an anchor, and she faces her husband with a chattering look.
She kept interrupting each other's work because of a breakfast. When the other party is eating, she is also constantly exploring the meaning of each sentence of the other party. What do you want to eat, how much to eat, what to put in, what not to put in, whether you still eat or not, can you finish eating?
Across the screen, you can feel tired.
The perfect Hou Patzen, is fake.
Imperfect Hou Patzen, is tired.
<h1>Native family </h1>
Hou Patzen's mother, Lin Yueyun, never married in her life.
When she got married, Hou Patzen threw her bouquet to her mother. She whimpered:
I want to give the bouquet to the most important person in my life, and my mother, who has never been married in her life and may not marry in the future, she has never taken a bouquet in her life, so I hope to continue the happiness.
Lin Yueyun had two relationships in her life, one was with Hou Patzen's father and the other was a husband with a wife. The other is an elder who married Hou Patzen and is also a husband with a wife, and this relationship lasted for 31 years.
Such a complex family environment, you can imagine what Hou Patzen faced from childhood to adulthood.
Her mother was very strict with her from an early age, asking her to always smile, telling her not to show her true emotions, and even forbidding Hou Patzen to resist.
Hou Patzen once said in an interview:
She's really fierce, and has strict principles, like going out and playing. Sometimes it's not that she doesn't let me out at all, but she may stipulate that, for example, if you go out today, you must come home at ten o'clock. It's late, and you don't want to go out next time.
When Hou Patzen was a child, he was even splashed with milk by his own mother because he resisted his mouth, and because he did not borrow the new toys of his neighbor's sister, he was scolded and punished for kneeling.
Even if Hou Patzen answers the phone and does not politely say "Hello, I am Hou Patzen", he may be slapped by his mother.
Hou Patzen, who was thus educated, became a typical flattering personality, she was very good at talking and praising people.
Her father said during his lifetime:
After separating from her mother, I often took her out to play, and her family liked her very much, and my wife did not reject her.
Even his father's wife said:
Acknowledge Hou Patzen, but never divorce.
The elder who grew up with Hou Peichen not only paid the tuition fee for Hou Peichen to go to college, but also led Hou Peichen into the palace of marriage with the role of father.
<h1>Perfect broadcast. </h1>
Growing up in such a complex native family, Hou Patzen is known for his elegance and gentleness. In particular, after she became the anchor, "sweet smile" became her signature action.
In 2001, she entered the Taiwan Television Internship and was hired as the anchor of "Zhongtian" English because of her fluency in English. In 2004, Hou Patzen became famous for his anchor news and became the host of Entertainment Asia. This year, she not only sat firmly in the position of the anchor of the era, but also won the championship of "Taiwan's 50 Most Watched Perfect Women".
During that time, even the aunt who swept the floor of the company was extremely fond of Hou Peichen and would bring food to Hou Peichen.
It can be said that since Hou Patzen's debut to the present, no matter what occasion and who she sees, she has always been in a decent state, and even the angle of her smile is extremely standard.
Of course, for her perfection, she was once spat at as fake by Xiao S, but even if Xiao S thought she was fake, she eventually became friends with her.
And Chen Qiaoen shouted at Hou Patzen in the "Spit Conference":
Sweet-smiling, gentle and virtuous girls, I have stopped acting, why are you still acting? Patty, relax a little, oh, the marriage is married, the task is completed, you can pick your feet.
Unfortunately, Hou Peichen is still Hou Peici.
As a friend of Hou Peici said:
I don't think she's two-sided, because she only has that side, the fake side of her, that has swallowed up the real her.
From childhood to adulthood, she no longer cares about her own high unhappiness, she has forgotten her true emotions, she is only left with the false side, the elegant side, the gentle side, the well-behaved side.
She swallowed up all her true emotions, leaving only the "good" side for others.
<h1>Passionate love. </h1>
Hou Patzen is the only girlfriend that Jay Chou has admitted positively.
Jay Chou went to Hou Patzen's program in order to promote the album "Seven Lixiang", which was their first official encounter.
In the process of recording the program, Jay Chou's eyes were always staring at Hou Patzen. Jay Chou stayed in that place for a month to promote the album. In that month, Jay Chou repeatedly went to the program hosted by Hou Patzen four times.
After that, every time they appeared together, they were sweet.
In February 2005, Jay Chou and Hou Peichen went to Daiguan Mountain together. Throughout the whole process, Jay Chou and Hou Peichen behaved intimately, and the positive photos of the two people were taken by reporters, and the relationship was exposed.
And this time Jay Chou did not hide it, he generously admitted the relationship, and said:
My fantasy college romance was like this, it was the first time I shook her hand, and I didn't expect the fate to come so quickly.
Unfortunately, such a sweet love affair lasted only one year, and in 2006, Zhou Hou's love ended.
After the relationship ended, Hou Peichen became the most decent ex-girlfriend. She maintained a bad word about Jay Chou, some of which were just blessings, just thanks, and she even said:
Thank you for him, everyone remembers me.
And DaiguanShan has also completely become Jay Chou's sad place.
A reporter once asked:
If you had a time machine, when would you like to go back to?
Jay Chou answered:
Will not go to Daiguan Mountain.
In 2011, Hou Patzen got married, and Jay Chou took his friends to all corners of Tokyo, but he refused to go to Daiguan Mountain.
For this love affair, Hou Peichen once said such a sentence:
At that time, I was very uneasy, although I was very happy, but I was very uneasy.
The complex original family, from a young age under the fence, makes Hou Patzen very insecure while insisting on perfection.
Just like those sensible children, because they are not dependent, because they are not pampered, because they do not get enough tolerance and love, so she can only become sensible and become in line with the requirements of adults.
Hou Patzen was too insecure in that relationship, and too lacking in courage. She didn't dare to gamble because she had no way back.
<h1>Get married and have children. </h1>
In 2011, Hou Peichen married Huang Baijun and became Mrs. Huang.
According to rumors, Huang Baijun has a net worth of 2.5 billion, looks Sven, has a cheerful personality, and is very gentlemanly and respectful of women.
Three years later, Hou Patzen was promoted to mother. She grew from a daughter to a wife and a mother.
This year is 2021, and Patrick Hou wrote before participating in the show "Mother-in-Law and Mother":
This year is 2021, 42-year-old I have been married for almost ten years, my mother has been seven years, my brothers and brothers are growing up well, and our family of four is safe and happy. I really, really, really happy and content.
But sometimes, I still want to say sorry to Ken, because work often requires leaving you and your children. Time with your duo is compressing. This time I decided to go back to the time of your first acquaintance with you, and on this journey, I will not be the host, I just want to be the wife Hou Patzen who explores the world with you.
Hou Patzen, who appears in the camera this time, is imperfect.
She didn't understand things, repeatedly disturbed her husband's work, she was very wordy, constantly repeating some words, some demands.
Many people say that it is too tiring to get along with such a Hou Patzen.
I feel very tired watching that get along. However, it was not until Hou Patzen joked in the camera that her husband was a "crayfish". What she said, he couldn't hear, what she did, he couldn't see, it was such a "little deaf and blind", I suddenly felt that our requirements for Hou Patzen were too high.
No one in this world is perfect, especially Hou Patzen, who grew up in such a complex original family, she cares too much about other people's feelings, cares too much about other people's ideas, so she is sometimes fake.
Because of the fake, you can swallow all your negative emotions and leave only a gentle smile.
She sometimes makes people feel particularly tired, because she is used to being tired, used to constantly thinking about what the other party wants, how the other party can be comfortable, she cares too much about others, so she is careful, so everything is fine, so not only is she tired, others are also tired.
<h1>The more perfect, the less perfect. </h1>
In "Hello, Li Huanying", Zhang Xiaofei has such a line:
My child, I just want her to be healthy and happy.
When Zhang Xiaofei finished saying this, Jia Ling burst into tears.
Mothers who truly love their children will not blindly demand that their children be perfect, will not let their children, blindly keep smiling, and will not ask their children to swallow the negative emotions they have.
Because, she will be afraid that the child will not be happy.
When a child is taught by his mother from an early age to be perfect, to smile, to be considerate of others, and even in the process, a child has slowly swallowed up his true self, leaving only the false side, the perfection that the child is shaped into is the greatest imperfection.
In this life, Lin Yueyun got a most "well-behaved" daughter. But, as others have said:
Everything you have today contains the tears of many people, please do not hesitate to count.
Among these many people, the child who made people feel tired and fake, did not shed tears.