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Frankly speaking, after watching "Actors Please Take Place", I am a little glad that Lan Yingying and Cao Jun broke up, whether it is careerism, or the personality of the two people, they are both so incompatible.
Cao Jun's appearance on the stage of "Actors Please Take Place" is Mu Ne, too low-key, and does not talk much. He co-starred with Tang Yifei in the episode of "Thirty Only", and if it were not for Dapeng Cue to him, he might not have spoken out for himself.
Originally, I saw him on the stage of "Actors Please Take Place", and there was a hint of surprise, after all, he was a childhood male god, who did not know him. But after watching several episodes, I was a little disappointed in him, and this disappointment did not refer to the acting skills, but that Cao Jun was too low-key.
How I wish he would dare to fight for himself, but he is still wooden, too obedient.
Cao Jun has no right to speak on the stage, he cooperated with Tang Yifei to perform "Thirty Only", he was completely taken away by Tang Yifei. Tang Yifei collapsed, can Cao Jun be okay? Cao Jun was completely biased by her. And after the performance, the four directors were all talking about Tang Yifei, but they forgot Cao Jun. The directors did not say, nor did Cao Jun, just stood obediently.
Later, Dapeng took the initiative to mention Cao Jun: "40 actors in the market rating, the first from the bottom is Cao Jun." ”
At this time, everyone noticed that there was another Cao Jun on the stage, and they began to feel sorry for him: how Cao Jun, who was once a child star, has now become like this.
Many of us have regrets about Cao Jun, but in addition to regret, Cao Jun still did not play the emotional card.
Director Er Dongsheng asked him if he could sustain his life? Cao Jun smiled and said yes, and then Director Er Dongsheng also took the initiative to ask him to add WeChat, saying that "there are things that can always find me." Cao Jun was polite, but I don't think he could have seized the opportunity. Still didn't leave any good impression on everyone.
Later, Cao Jun and Xiao Caiqi cooperated in "Wuji", Cao Jun was the best performer among the three actors, and the four directors also praised Cao Jun, but it was very embarrassing, that is, no one chose Cao Jun. There is drama in his eyes, there is still strength, but no matter what, he can't attract people.
Doesn't Cao Jun want to win?
He also wants to win, but he is too sensible and unassuming. His face was full of two words" "don't dare", he wanted to fight, he wanted to change his predicament, but it felt like he didn't dare. This personality trait led him to participate in "Actors Please Take Place", but it was just a formality, and everyone quickly forgot about him.
How did a generation of childhood male gods "Agarwood" come to such a point?
All I can say is that there are many things you have to fight for yourself, you have been brilliant, but if you don't fight for yourself, you will have nothing. Cao Jun's low-key and dull, his personality will become a "stumbling block" on his road to success, which is really a loss.
Let's look at Lan Yingying, she is completely different from Cao Jun, she is a person who writes "win" on her face. As long as Lan Yingying appears, it is easy for everyone to remember her. I have to say that now Lan Yingying's career is really getting better and better, and she and Cao Jun can be said to be very different.
Remember Lan Yingying's performance in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves"? It can be said that it is quite outstanding.
And she was very dare to say, she said that she was a wolf person, and said: "I want to show everyone, I can also control the whole scene through singing and dancing, I hope to show everyone I do a line like a line." ”
Lan Yingying is very confident, she is very tense on the stage, can control the whole scene, and she is the most dazzling on the stage. Her confidence and assertiveness will make you remember her at a glance, and her ambitions were questioned when the show aired, but what? The audience is most impressed, the purpose has been achieved, and besides, there is nothing wrong with a person wanting to win.
Comparing with Cao Jun, you will find that Lan Yingying and Cao Jun are completely two different types of people. How can two people with such far different personalities be suitable? One dares to fight, one dares not; one is developing better and better, and one is still standing still in place. It was not Lan Yingying's forces, but Cao Jun's really inappropriate relationship with her.
In "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", when the sisters chatted about their preferences for choosing a mate, Lan Yingying said: "I like the man who leads me." ”
Very domineering, but also in line with her concept of mate selection, Lan Yingying needs a man who can lead her to become better and better in her career. Obviously, Cao Jun was inappropriate. Cao Jun is a good husband, but not a good boyfriend, you are with him, you may feel that he is dragging you down.
Understand Cao Jun, and you will understand the truth that Lan Yingying broke up with him.
Many people regretted when they broke up, but now everyone understands: how can two people who are so far apart be together for a long time?
02
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > former "Mr. Punctuality" and "Miss Late"</h1>
When Cao Jun and Lan Yingying met and fell in love, they were in each other's trough period.
I remember that in October 2016, since the exposure of the relationship, they have been very low-key, but they have never lacked sweetness and surprise, their state of getting along, like ordinary couples, together to give each other nicknames, "Mr. Punctual" and "Miss Late", go out shopping together, but also work out together, accompany each other to grow.
They are great growth partners who can work out, sing, develop hobbies, live actively together, and make each other better people. But the problem is that Lan Yingying is going too fast, and Cao Jun is obviously not keeping up, and Lan Yingying's career development has become better and better in recent years, but Cao Jun is still standing still.
It's like a couple of two renters who have just graduated from college, and at the beginning, both of them are similar, and they can grow everything, and neither of them hates anyone. However, with the passage of time, the woman grows faster and faster, earns more and more money, and develops her career better and better; the man still stands still. When two people are farther and farther apart, even the best feelings between you will disappear without a trace.
Good feelings require equal growth, one goes too fast, one stands still, how can you last?
In October 2019, Cao Jun broke up with Lan Yingying on Weibo, saying that it was because they were too busy with each other, was busy really the reason? Or the two people are getting farther and farther apart. Lan Yingying's career development is getting better and better, becoming very busy, and Cao Jun, as before, has not improved in her career, how busy can she be?
It is not that the couple of "strong women and weak men" are not far away, but in addition to the differences in their careers, the personalities of the two of them are also completely different. It is difficult for you to put Lan Yingying and Cao Jun together, two different types of people, how to see are not very compatible. Differences in personality will also affect the three views of two people.
They were decent when they broke up, didn't argue, and respected each other.
Cao Jun was really good, Lan Yingying was going to fly higher, and he simply let her go.
In the past, Cao Jun may still be able to lead Lan Yingying, but how can Cao Jun, who has always been at a low point, lead her? Lan Yingying needs a partner who is stronger than her, and only men who are stronger than her can hold her.
03
Cao Jun is indeed a pity, but it is a pity that there is no use, and if he wants to turn red again, he can only seize the opportunity.
We all know that Cao Jun is a child actor, and I also watched him play "The Little Monk of True Destiny", and I really liked him at that time. And Cao Jun later acted in "Prime Minister Xiao Ganluo", "Nine-year-old County Taiye" and "Baolian Lantern", "Magic Mobile Phone", etc., he has cooperated with many famous actors, and he was indeed very popular. It's just a pity that the market is changing too fast, and Cao Jun can't keep up with the times.
Cao Jun said that after filming "Pauline Lamp", he went to college to precipitate himself. But what is it that makes people regret? You have precipitated yourself in the past few years, and the entertainment industry is full of talents. In addition, child stars are also quite embarrassing, just like Shi Xiaolong, once so hot, now it is not popular.
Child stars will be very embarrassed, and there are really very few who can really walk as smoothly as Zhang Yishan and Yang Zi.
I think the biggest problem with Cao Jun is "no dispute", you have been forgotten, but if you are still so low-key, then you are really difficult to be popular. Maybe Cao Jun wants to prove himself with his acting skills, but the question is what if you don't even have a chance? Many times, will there be a chance to fight on your own.
What should Cao Jun do?
Only by daring to fight and dare to speak more for themselves on the stage can the audience remember themselves.
"Actors Please Take Place" has been broadcast several times, and now that Cao Jun has entered the pending, who else remembers him?
04
Some people say that Lan Yingying is powerful, and I think she understands that she is not suitable for Cao Jun.
Attraction determines the beginning of an intimate relationship, and the degree of matching determines the development and outcome of an intimate relationship.
But if you are getting bigger and bigger in personality and career, how can it be long?
The only rule of love is probably even matching.
Understand this, you also know the truth about Lan Yingying's breakup with Cao Jun.
Many people with weak sense of security, they all want to find someone lower than their own rank to be with. But Lan Yingying does not belong to people with weak sense of security, she only needs a more powerful man to lead her. I hope that Cao Jun can work harder and luckier, although it is still in a low point at the moment, but to change his personality, only dare to say dare to do dare to think, you have a big pattern, your opportunity will come.
Cao Jun is 32 years old, it is difficult to imagine, I only hope that he still has a chance, can seize the opportunity.
Today's topic: Do you think Cao Jun and Lan Yingying are matched? Are their breakups doomed? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.