Although in "Yan Yu Fu", Qiu Yan has made some mistakes, but we have to admit that compared to those silly white and sweet heroines, such a person is really emotional.
Of course, the more Qiu Yan is like this, the more painful it is——
I have always insisted on a point of view, although I don't like people too much love brain, but we have to admit that girls who love brain are the happiest, because they have not experienced the hardships of the world, they will always be so simple.
Others can do this, but Qiu Yan can't, because of her growth experience, she can't be simple at all.
Although Aunt Liu was her birth mother, from childhood to adulthood, Aunt Liu never treated her kindly, and even when she insisted on marrying Qiu Yan to He Feng, she was interested in the He family lineage and wanted to use this marriage to seek a good future for her son.
If it is the men of the Qiu family who think like this, I can still accept it, after all, it was an era of male superiority and female inferiority, for a pedantic person like Qiu Yi, Qiu Yan, Qiu Min, or even the other two daughters of the Qiu family are just pawns to safeguard the interests of the family, nothing more.
But Aunt Liu thinks like this, it is more or less difficult to accept, as a woman, she understands the suffering of women better than anyone, but she also has to push her own daughter into the fire pit, how to look at it is a bit excessive.
However, it is not difficult to accept the causes and consequences of the connection, after all, after qiu Yan was born, Aunt Liu had already abandoned her, if it were not for Qiu Yan's hard life, this girl might have disappeared a long time ago.
Nominally, Aunt Liu was Qiu Yan's birth mother, but over the years, the whole Qiu family really treated Qiu Yan well, but it was the mother-in-law Han, who was good to Qiu Yan, even surpassing her own daughter Qiu Min.
Therefore, over the years, Qiu Min has always had a knot in her heart, that is, she is jealous of her sister.
Screenshot of the TV series "Yan Yu Fu"
As a heroine, Qiu Yan has been smart and witty since she was a child, not picking things, and not afraid of things, but it is precisely for this reason that Qiu Yan is not pleasing at home.
After all, in the traditional feudal family, people believe that a woman's talentlessness is virtue, and the girl's family only needs to be obedient, and a personality like Qiu Yan is difficult to be accepted by the family.
It is also for this reason that from childhood to adulthood, Han's energy spent on Qiu Yan was far more than on Qiu Min.
When Qiu Yan was very young, Aunt Liu pushed Qiu Yan to the Han family in order to save her son, that is, from that time on, she had already laid the fate of the mother and daughter for a lifetime.
(At that time, I had no intention of blaming Aunt Liu, after all, in that era, most women would choose to save their sons, but when the children grew up, she still only used her daughter, which was too cold-blooded.) ）
Every time Qiu Yan was wronged, Han Shi took pains to explain to her, teach her sincerely, and bitterly, just for the sake of qiu Yan to suffer less losses in the future.
In order not to let Qiu Yan become a cold-hearted child, Han Shi has been warming her with his love, teaching her to read and reading with her.
These things should have been done by Aunt Liu, but Aunt Liu has never done these things, and the so-called birth of grace is not as good as raising grace, which is the situation between Qiu Yan and Han.
The Autumn Family, which looks calm and calm, is actually a dark tide.
Old Lady Qiu seems to be kind, but in fact she is full of calculations; among the four brothers of the Qiu family, the eldest and the third and fourth are not in tune, Qiu Yi is also a pedantic literati who is stupid in reading, and she can't count on it at all, the three daughters-in-law have their own intentions, Qiu Yan can grow up in such an environment, how much effort Han has spent, we can figure it out with our toes.
When Qiu Yan became an adult, Han Gave Qiu Yan the best maternal love.
Before Qiu Yan got married, Han also saw He Feng, and after Waiting for Han's affirmation, Qiu Yan was relieved to marry; on the day of marriage, Han Shi gave her thousands of instructions, afraid that Qiu Yan would not be happy in the past.
After He Feng died, in the face of General He's accusations, Han Shi even argued on the basis of reason, fighting for the opportunity for Qiu Yan to withdraw from marriage, if it were not for Aunt Liu's demon, the latter things might not have happened.
Because Aunt Liu hid the eight characters, General He wanted Qiu Yan to be buried, whether in the He family or in the Qiu family, it was the Han family who was trying their best to fight for Qiu Yan.
Just when everyone thought that everything was a foregone conclusion and Aunt Liu was only thinking about how to fight for more benefits for her son, Han Shi was still working hard for Qiu Yan, persuading Qiu Yi to win the opportunity for Qiu Yan to enter the palace as a female official.
Although in the later story, the noble concubine rewarded the plaque, and when the matter of Qiu Yan's marriage was already nailed down, Han Shi did not give up her efforts, that day she prepared a carriage for Qiu Yan, let Qiu Yan escape in the carriage in advance, and said that the things behind were all run by her.
You know, if Qiu Yan really ran away, the Qiu family would resist and disobey, in other words, in Han's heart, Qiu Yan's happiness was far more important than the honor and disgrace of the Qiu family.
Although, in the end, Qiu Yan still took the initiative to go to the He family, but Han's sincerity towards Qiu Yan could not be faked at all.
Under the efforts of Qiu Yan, she finally washed away her own grievances, but her marriage once again became a big problem, for the sake of the other daughters of the Qiu family, the Qiu family planned to marry Qiu Yan to an old man to fill the house, and it was Han who stood up.
In my intuition, in the whole Qiu family, only Han Shi really felt sorry for Qiu Yan and regarded her as his own child.
It's just that we never expected that it was just an incense, and it turned out to be Han's hypnotic.
On that day, Han Shi was doing something about his daughter getting married, but suddenly fainted, during that time, Qiu Yan tried everything to drive away the people who came to disturb Han's rest, found the rare medicinal materials in the folk recipe, but still failed to keep Han's life.
To tell the truth, the scene where Qiu Yan hid a fire in order not to shed tears in front of Han Shi was really painful.
For the others, Han Shi died, it was the Qiu family who died a wife and concubine, but for Qiu Yan, it was the best person in the world who died for her.
If Han's death was natural, it would be enough, but later Qiu Yan found out after investigation that Han's was not sick and died, but was poisoned.
Therefore, even if Qiu Yi obstructs everything, even if this matter is likely to involve her grandmother, even if she bears the insult of filial piety, she must check it out (in my intuition, it should not be the poison of Old Lady Qiu).
"If my head is broken and bleeding to tell my mother's grievances, then I'd rather be crushed to pieces."
Although Han Shi is only Qiu Yan's mother-in-law, but for Qiu Yan, this mother-in-law is far better than his biological mother, and the only person in the world who has brought her warmth, and now that Han is dead, the last pillar in her heart has fallen, and if the truth is not found out, she will not be happy in this life.
That is, in this matter, we see the biggest difference between Qin Xuan and Liang Yi, when talking about this matter, Qin Xuan chose to stand on Qiu Yi's side, thinking that this matter is not so complicated, but Liang Yi is not like this, from beginning to end, he has firmly stood on Qiu Yan's side and wants to find out about this matter.
After experiencing this incident, Qin Xuan also missed Qiu Yan.
There have always been two different ways of saying the matter of raising children, some people say that "it is better to be born with grace than to raise grace", and some people say that "other people's children are not familiar with it".
Damn, both of these claims seem to make sense, and both can find relevant examples.
From this story alone, the reason why Qiu Yan is so filial to Han is because Han really regards her as his daughter, and Qiu Yan has experienced the pain of her mother's abandonment before, knowing how difficult it is to come with this happiness, she will cherish everything she has now.
Because it has been lost, it will be more cherished.
I even think that if it were not for the unfortunate experience of childhood, and if Aunt Liu had always been bad for Qiu Yan, Qiu Yan might not have been so close to Han.
Of course, this is also because Han Shi is really good to Qiu Yan——
When she was a child, Han took care of Qiu Yan's life and shielded her from the wind and rain; when she became an adult, Han Guarded Qiu Yan's happiness and pointed out the direction for her; before she died, Han Shi taught her and was full of Qiu Yan's happiness...
Such a kindness, even if Qiu Yan did not call Han Shi a mother, Han Shi was worth Qiu Yan's treatment of her.
Qiu Yan is unfortunate because she has a cold-blooded birth mother; but Qiu Yan is also happy, because in her most difficult time, there is a great mother like Han Shi who has always paid for her.
Han Shi is unfortunate because she married a ruthless and pedantic husband, and died in the prime of her life, but Han Shi is also lucky, because qiu Yan, a good daughter, although she is born, is better than her own, for her, even if the whole world is hostile to Qiu Yan, she does not care.
I couldn't help but think of an article- "In the afterlife, let you be my daughter", which should be the most appropriate for Qiu Yan and Han Shi.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）