Is love important or career important?
In the present this advocates women to be independent and have their own life careers
Don't think of your husband and children as the whole society of your life
Many girls are soberly aware that only when there is a career can there be capital and the right to speak
But it's really time to choose
It seems that there are still a lot of girls who can't control their heads in
Give up your career for love, give up your original pride, and seek perfection.
Before Zhang Bichen left to give birth to a son in another country, he did not have to be responsible for Hua Chenyu
Later, the matter of Prince Wen having children out of wedlock broke out
At this time, wu Qian, the well-behaved woman in everyone's impression, also broke out that she and Zhang Yujian were married and had children
It's just that Zhang Yujian's explanation of this matter is only three words: "child her mother"
For this love, Wu Qian gave up her career and had children
Also gave up their pride and self-esteem to take the children to be a full-time wife, is it worth it?
Here is a small love letter from the movie, and today let's walk into the love story of Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian.
1
Before she knew Zhang Yujian, Wu Qian lived like a sunflower, full of hope and pride.
Wu Qian's parents are ordinary working-class workers
Not very wealthy though
But for this only girl, it can be said that he is extremely pampered.
The beautiful family atmosphere also makes Wu Qian too idealistic about love
Wu Qian, who grew up in a loving family, always has an unusual yearning for love
I thought that one day I would meet a man like my father like my mother
Pamper yourself for a lifetime.
Because the school is tightly managed in high school, Wu Qian has been studying very hard
Rejected many male classmates who showed affection to themselves
If she wants to go to college, she must have a good relationship
Had a great time in college
Thinking of this, Wu Qian became more motivated to study
So Wu Qian was admitted to Wuhan University with a high score of 612 points.
After Wu Qian was admitted to Wuhan University
Under the cherry blossom trees in Wuhan
Wu Qian's eyes were smart and clean
A face with a little baby fat without powder made her quickly popular on the Internet and became the school flower of Wuhan University.
Maybe many people have school flowers in their youth
But there are only a few who really dare to chase the school flowers
After Wu Qian was taken on the title of school flower
For the male students of Wuhan University, they have become beautiful women who can be viewed from a distance and cannot be approached
At this time, Rao Yuman found Wu Qian
Signed her to become her own book model and micro-film heroine.
Wu Qian didn't have to talk about it because she was in love
So I simply signed a contract with Rao Yuman and began to do some work
Make some preparations for entering the show business later.
After Rao Yuman signed with Wu Qian, he used Wu Qian's photos to make the covers of several of his works
Wu Qian's light and clean temperament and the blessing of the name of Wuhan University flower quickly caught fire among teenagers
In 2013, Huace signed a contract to become a key resource object in the later stage, and the future is bright.
At this time, Zhang Yujian was still just a sophomore stunned.
When Wu Qian's road to Japan was bright and brilliant
Zhang Yujian is still a sophomore at the Shanghai Theater Academy
Zhang Yujian's classmate Jiang Jinfu not only went out of the circle by being a book model
Moreover, the first work just debuted was famous for starring in the costume drama "Traces of Xuanyuan Sword Heaven" with Hu Ge, Tang Yan, Liu Shishi and other big names
At this time, Zhang Yujian was still just a courier brother who starred in the concert movie of Mayday, which was unremarkable.
2
The difference in the starting point of the two is doomed to the asymmetry of the love between the two.
Wu Qian's career development is in the sky
However, Wu Qian will only cooperate with the stir-fry during the cooperation period in each work
At the end of the cooperation period, there will be no more extra exchanges
Everyone thought that such a clean and neat girl would be incredibly red.
At that time, the post-90s generation was expected to become the four small flowers, including Wu Qian, Zhou Dongyu, Chu Yuxun, Guan Xiaotong, Yang Zi and so on
Wu Qian grew up better than Zhou Dongyu among them, her acting skills were also better than Chu Yu's, and her popularity was not worse than guan Xiaotong and Yang Zi's two national girlfriends
The resources are not bad among them
One after another, I received scripts that matched Wu Qian's temperament
At that time, the partners were super popular handsome men such as Lu Han, Wu Shixun, and Kim Tae-hwan
It can be said that as long as Wu Qian plays stably, she must be able to enter the four small flower Dan.
But she met Zhang Yujian.
In Yang Zijing's conscientious filming, he successfully went out of the circle with "Fragrant Honey Sinks Like Frost"
Zhou Dongyu made up for the lack of appearance with his superb acting skills in "July and Ansheng"
Guan Xiaotong relied on variety TV dramas when they were two-pronged
Chu Yuxing became the goddess of first love with one idol drama after another
Wu Qian was busy pursuing Zhang Yujian
Therefore, when selecting the Four Little Flower Dan, Wu Qian was unsuccessful.
Now except for Chu Yuxun who overturned the car for his own reasons
The other three of the four Hua Dan have already gained a firm foothold in the post-90s film and television dramas and have a masterpiece to hand
And Wu Qian would not have made "8090" recently.
Everyone has gradually forgotten her name.
Wu Qian really took the script of the final circle, but because of her own reasons, she killed Qing qing in advance.
In fact, Wu Qian's love brain that can give up her career for love has long been seen in many interviews
For her, love is more important than career.
She said in an interview
"Love is indispensable in life, if she meets that person one day, she will also give up her career.
Because only that person can accompany you to the end of your life."
Therefore, it is not surprising that Wu Qian met that person and would stop her career.
Wu Qian first met Zhang Yujian in "The Night of the Tang Dynasty"
Wu Qian was attracted by the quiet appearance of wearing glasses at the first sight of Zhang Yujian
Wu Qian defined it as love at first sight.
It was in his early twenties that he first met a boy who made his heart beat,
Wu Qian's lively and lovely personality is naturally the initiative to attack,
After the end of "Sheng Tang Fantasy Night", Wu Qian took over the sweet love drama of "I Only Like You"
Wu Qian immediately thought of the glasses-wearing Zhang Yujian
So he introduced Zhang Yujian to the director to play the role of the male protagonist
Maybe Wu Qian thought in her heart
"I mainly think this role is very suitable for him, and I don't want to see more and understand him."
The girl thinks of sweet love, and Zhang Yujian thinks of career and work.
At that time, Zhang Yujian starred in many works after graduation
Be the protagonist in some low-cost works
Cameo as a supporting role in some high-cost works
Career has not improved
When I received the agent's notice that I could star in "I Only Like You" with the popular little flower Wu Qian
Zhang Yujian knew that his opportunity had come.
During the filming of "I Only Like You", Wu Qian used the reason of filming to get along with Zhang Yujian in the crew every day
Between the playfulness and fighting, between the play, enjoying Zhang Yujian's love for himself
Wu Qian unconsciously fell into it and put a layer of filter on Zhang Yujian
"There is no light on Zhang Yujian's body, it is Wu Qian's filter that makes him have light on his body"
So when the shooting was about to end, Wu Qian took the initiative to confess.
Because of Wu Qian's true love performance
Zhang Yujian and Wu Qian have circled a large wave of CP fans with the sweet love between the male and female protagonists in this work
Zhang Yujian also successfully went out of the circle to be recognized by more audiences
Face Wu Qian's confession at this time
His heart is tangled
He knew that he was only a friend of Wu Qian's feelings
He has a clear distinction between inside and outside the play
It's just that Wu Qian didn't make a clear distinction
But as long as he agreed to Wu Qian's confession
Maybe you can get Wu Qian's help to develop your career
After thinking about it again and again, Zhang Yujian agreed.
3
Facts have proved that not loving is not loving, and it is impossible to pretend.
The girl GiGi in "He Doesn't Really Like You That Much" is with the boy she likes
The GiGi, who was trapped in it, had completely disregarded what he had already felt
See like boys don't contact themselves
He would tell himself that he might just be busy
When you see a boy you like who has a cold attitude towards yourself
Will tell yourself he might be tired
All the excuses were found
This humility resonates with many girls.
It turns out that movies that resonate have prototypes in reality.
After Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian were together, they not only wanted to be able to be with Zhang Yujian all the time
I hope Zhang Yujian can be happy
So he did his best to use the entertainment circle contacts he had worked so hard for so long to find resources for Zhang Yujian
Unexpectedly, Zhang Yujian was getting busier and busier because of his work
Wu Qian, who was difficult to reply to herself with a message, comforted herself
He's just too ambitious
When I saw Zhang Yujian and Yu Shuxin acting intimately like lovers during the live broadcast
Wu Qian comforted herself just to fry cp for the work.
When Zhang Yujian received the script
Wu Qian could put down everything in her hands and go to the place where Zhang Yujian worked
Just stay in the hotel all day because you can't be seen
After Zhang Yujian was busy, he could talk about it
There is no temper tantrum at all.
Wu Qian has been accommodating, but Zhang Yujian is speculating on single people.
Zhang Yujian and Yu Shuxin, who debuted in the draft, collaborated on a work to play a couple, which was slightly popular.
Zhang Yujian immediately interacted intimately with Yu Shuxin in the live broadcast
Let Yu Shuxin spoil herself
He also pretended to be very spoiled.
Other than that in the interview
The host asked Zhang Yujian if he had a girlfriend
Zhang Yujian said where the girlfriend came from
Having a girlfriend on your own is as boring as finding an electronic pet, and it's good to be single
Say yourself single over and over again
Being photographed by the paparazzi and going in and out with Wu Qian will never respond
Just to maintain a small number of female fans
It can be said that Zhang Yujian did everything for the cause he thought he had.
It didn't take long for Wu Qian to become pregnant
When she found Zhang Yujian and said she was pregnant
Zhang Yujian persuaded Wu Qian to fight it when his career was rising
However, at that time, he knew that if he gave birth to this child, Wu Qian would be hurt even more
But Zhang Yujian only thought of himself
Wu Qian was indistinct to give birth to the child, and finally Zhang Yujian said a request, that is, to have children in secret marriage, and Wu Qian agreed to get married and have children.
4
It turns out that a timely stop loss is the right one
In "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much", there is also a girl, Janine, who has a great yearning for love
Janine marries with a vision of love
But after getting married, Janine became extremely insecure
It always felt like the husband would fall in love with someone else
The love between the two gradually wears off in the quarrel
Later the husband really betrayed Janine
Janine turned to leave, stopping the loss in time
Because she knew the two couldn't go back to the beginning
Instead of seeking perfection, it is better to end it in style.
Janine packed up after leaving
Then believe in yourself and release yourself
For a better future, start over.
Unfortunately, Wu Qian could not see the stop loss in time.
There are no impermeable walls
Not long after, Wu Qian was photographed being taken home by Zhang Yujian to meet her parents
Then Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian were photographed shopping together
Then there is the photo of Wu Qian being taken to pick up her daughter and go shopping
Wu Qian thought that she could finally be made public
But Zhang Yujian only used the three words "child her mother" to describe her in the end
Even the weibo explanation of her name Wu Qian did not appear from the beginning to the end
In Zhang Yujian's heart, she was at best just "child her mother"
That's all.
Not long after, Wu Qian participated in a webcast
The dangling ring on my hand seemed to tell the world that I was married to Zhang Yujian
But I can't say because I love him because he won't let him
Looking at Wu Qian, who was working hard but tired in the live broadcast room
We all thought she didn't care
But what girl doesn't want to tell the world that I'm married to someone I like?
Don't want to be just child, but a beloved wife?
Didn't Zhang Yujian understand Wu Qian's thoughts?
Of course he knew
I know that Wu Qian hopes that he will work less to accompany her
Knowing that Wu Qian would wait for his own information
Knowing that Wu Qian would be unhappy to see herself and Yu Shuxin fighting together
But after all, the heart was not on Wu Qian, and the reason why they were together in the first place was not because they had to love
After all, the mind is not on this at all, and the attitude will be perfunctory.
5
Now Wu Qian has come out to work again
It's just that after the comeback, the career is not as good as before
Wu Qian and Bai Jingting starred in the TV series "8090" together
What is different from the usual is that the audience no longer praises Wu Qian's facial features and good acting skills
On the contrary, they have complained that the biggest failure of this drama is Wu Qian
Because it seems to be ten years old
Always looked tired
There is no longer the original Aura.
I don't know that Wu Qian gave up her great future and had children in secret marriage, and her career stagnated
A day of exhaustion for a marriage that cannot be openly suppressed
How much voice will such an identity have?
Everyone has the right to choose their own life
There is no such thing as good or bad, what is important is to please yourself
Follow your heart to harvest and get what you want most.
Just like in "Forrest Gump", the mother asks Forrest Gump what kind of person she wants to become in the future
Forrest Gump asked with a confused but firm face:
"What do you mean, why can't I be myself?"
I hope that the world can live this life in the way they like
For example, Wu Qian, I don't want to discuss whether her choice is correct or not
But at least the moment she made her choice, she willingly chose her favorite lifestyle.
And there is no way in life
Every step you take counts
Take your time to find what belongs to you
Don't miss it because of a choice.