This Winter Olympics is really a sense of freshness.
The game itself is a fast-paced thing that requires a desire to win or lose, but it can still precipitate a lot of valuable things.
For example, in the figure skating men's singles free skating competition, CCTV5 Chen Ying's commentary is: Jin Boyang defeated Jin Boyang, and Yusheng knotted string defeated Yusheng knot.
Both of them are rare top players, and they send the greatest respect and blessings to each other in each competition.
They are rivals and confidants who can stand on the podium and care for each other.
After Gu Ailing finished the match, she mentioned her girlfriend Miff Rennie in the interview, "By the way, I hope she can see that she is from Australia and is the commentator of Channel 7." ”
At that time, when Gu Ailing won the championship, Miff was just explaining it, and she was so excited that Gu Ailing won the award to tears.
In addition to being proud of the Olympic spirit, we can also see the beauty of human nature in this delicate and soft friendship.
I don't know if you have paid attention to a drama "My Genius Girlfriend", because of the delicate portrayal of female friendship and the in-depth analysis of women's growth issues, many people are regarded as gods.
Recently, the third season has also been launched, so today is the long-lost return of #Sheep Take You to Watch drama.
The first two seasons were highly rated.
The play is based on the Neapolitan Tetralogy by the Italian writer Elena Ferrante.
It tells the story of two girls who grew up in the slums, Lila and Lennon.
The best thing about this play is that it has a profound picture of women's plight at different stages.
For example, the complexity of friendship between women, how to get rid of the gaze of others step by step, how to break free of the shackles.
But any woman who has encountered these problems in their growth feels like they are filming themselves.
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There is no end to the running of girls
Speaking of which, Italy has always been known for its beautiful tropical scenery, which gives the impression of being bright and plump.
But in Naples in the 1850s, the city was gray.
Women are neither free nor colorful, and even most of them are "mutilated".
Mothers here are often abused and abused in public.
So when they face their daughters in the same predicament, they either adopt a cowering posture or are hostile and indifferent.
Lila and Lennon grew up in such a place.
One of them was the daughter of the concierge and the other was the daughter of a shoemaker.
Both girls are very good at reading.
The difference is that Lila is a genius.
When others were memorizing pinyin, she was already able to say some complicated words.
In the knowledge contest between grades, she was able to knock out the senior students one by one.
The teacher also cherished her talent and hoped that she would go to university.
Lennon admired Lila's wild strength and talent.
They understand that if they cannot transcend this class, they will be like their mothers, constantly giving birth to children, being abused by domestic violence, and have been living without dignity, becoming "crazy" in the eyes of children.
However, the two people ushered in a completely different fate when they were close to graduating from elementary school.
Lennon's father was persuaded by his teachers to continue to provide her with education.
But Lila's fight was in exchange for being rudely thrown out of the window by her father.
At the end of the day, grassroots girls all over the world are in the same predicament.
Without reading, you can't change your destiny, but the right to read is never the girl's own master.
As the elementary school teacher in the play said, if a person wants to be a commoner all the time, then their children and grandchildren will be killed.
Therefore, the principal Zhang Guimei must be the one who passes the torch, so that the girls can read.
But after reading the book, the girl's running still has no end.
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Even if you are in the gutter, you hope that the other party can fly out
Lennon has always had low self-esteem growing up.
She thinks that she is inferior to Lila in terms of intelligence and appearance, and she needs to rely on Lila's courage as her coordinates and inspire herself.
So Lila has always been her nourishment.
The writer himself said, "In the relationship between Lennon and Lila, Lennon, who is in a subordinate position, acquires a certain intelligence from his subordinate position——— which makes Lila lose her way."
At some point, she was jealous of Lila.
Unable to go to school, Lila wants to cross the class by getting married, and she marries Stefano, the son of the richest local merchant.
Become an object of envy for local women.
Lennon, on the other hand, is a bit lost because she needs to work on her own to continue her studies, and her junior high school life is not worth mentioning compared to Lila's luxurious life.
Even her crush, Nino, fell in love with Lila.
Until Lila encouraged her before she got married, telling her to keep reading, "Because you're my genius girlfriend."
It was only then that Lennon went from being the panicked little girl to the more courageous.
After lila got married, she was abused by her husband and trampled on her dignity.
But Lila paid for Lennon's books and encouraged her to keep learning.
What makes two people overcome the dark side of human nature and never give up, I think it is still "pity for each other".
Because at the grassroots level, women's internal friction is meaningless.
Even if you look more beautiful and smarter, you are still the object of repression in the structure of patriarchal society.
They don't just turn a blind eye on you because you're more well-behaved and prettier.
Lila and Lennon realized early on that it was useless to be beautiful in such social oppression, so even if they took different paths, they would not forget each other.
△ In the third season, Lila still desperately needs Lennon's attention to gain peace
This multi-faceted friendship seems very charming, more meaningful than the current kind of palace fight dramas and rough female portrayals.
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Girls, please don't stop hugging for warmth!
The third season has only been updated for two episodes so far, but after watching it, I feel quite hurt.
That sense of hurt comes from the fact that the abyss is almost within reach of women growing up.
After leaving the merchant's son, Lila went to work in a sausage factory, where she became a woman without the ability to resist risk.
The men at the factory all wanted to take the oil out of her, including the boss who had been friends as a child.
She did the hardest and most tiring work, and with a son, she tired her heart out of the disease.
She went to speak for the workers' movement, and the men asked if she could come again.
Lila said expressionlessly, "People in a situation like mine just want to sleep at night." ”
And Lennon relied on knowledge to cross the class, she published a book, and the response was great.
But because of the depiction of sex in the book, her intellect was completely erased, and she was described by male critics as a person who relied on "obscenity" to gain office.
It is precisely because of the depiction of sex that men think that she herself is very open to sex.
Once refused, the men became angry and slandered her in various ways.
Because they realize that Lennon is a woman who cannot be controlled, and if they cannot control her, they will stigmatize her.
This is also what many women are encountering today.
For example, women's football heroes have won great glory, but they have been questioned for a tattoo.
And the previous South Korean archer Ansan, she won the championship in last year's archery individual competition, but her treatment in South Korea was boycotted by men and demanded that the championship be stripped away.
The reason was that she had short hair, must be a feminist, and that she was asked to apologize.
In the eyes of some, even if women have achieved more than they have achieved, they still cannot be treated as equals.
Although Lennon published books and ate celebration banquets, at the dinner table, she felt isolated everywhere and tasteless.
As for Lila, men who appreciate her intelligence don't respect her uniqueness.
They think she's "crazy" because she's not disciplined by men.
They felt that only a real man could make him normal when dealing with a woman like Lila.
It is precisely because of this insight that the way they conquer women is not to respect her and understand her, but to domestic violence and cut off women's wings.
UN Secretary-General António Guterres said domestic violence is skyrocketing during the pandemic.
Even the New York Times and others have described this situation, calling it "intimate terrorism" in the epidemic.
It is precisely because of this environment that women cannot stop hugging for warmth.
This is also the most precious thing about "My Genius Girlfriend".
It does its best to portray the various pains that women experience from childhood to adulthood, the abyss is easy to reach, but the upward passage is very narrow, and only by constantly expressing this reality can some women know that you are always being watched.
Hopefully, the abyss will no longer be exclusive to women.
Including women's sense of security does not need to rely on netizens' appeals again and again to be solved.
Hopefully, we can still warm up in the new year! Dispel the darkness.